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Posted: 12 years ago
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In the real world, I would completely agree with you 👍🏼.. And I say that after putting myself in Madhu's shoes. But... 🤔

In the world of soaps, the damsel always/mostly lands up with the bad guy who turns good in the end (she usually also has a hand in turning him good)

Blair eventually ends up with Chuck even after all the atrocities.. For God's sake he sold her to his uncle for his Hotel..!!!😲 (Referring to the characters from Gossip Girl) They tried pairing her up with couple of other guys but the chemistry could never match up to the time when Blair was with Chuck.

But yes, he did do his part in the grovelling and made up for his mistake by getting her out of bigger problems which could have ruined her for life..

I think we face a similar situation here... RK will eventually make up for the shit he put her thru by saving her from even bigger crap...

Just want to end by saying, Others may come and go but RK-Madhu remain!!!
Edited by luvera - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#32
LOVELY POST..RESPECT EACH AND EVERY OPINION..👍🏼 AT THE END ITS RISHBALA FOR ME ALWAYS..BUT SURELY AFTER RK REDEEMS HIMSELF WHICH THE CVS WILL SURELY SEE TO IT IN FUTURE..SO PLEASE ENJOY THE TRACKS AND TRUST THE CVS..MADHUBALA ROCKS..👍🏼
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Posted: 12 years ago
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A wonderful and much needed post Swapna. It's like you stole the words right out of my mouth. I completely agree with your point of view over this issue and wished that more people would think along the same lines. But sadly, women these days actually enjoy seeing a female lead being portrayed as an inferior and weak character infront of the hotter males. For once, people really need to stop being biased towards an actor's good looks and explore that character's personality ONLY! And if they did, they would realize that RK is not exactly the epitome of a "true lover" or a "good person" . Vivian is doing a great job essaying this role but people really need to learn to differentiate between an actor and a character.

RK is someone who never even respected his own Mother, then how do we expect him to ever respect Madhu. It doesn't matter that RK is developing a soft corner for his Mother now, it wouldn't undo his actions in the past. And now that he is suddenly trying to keep his Mother close to himself is because he doesn't want to be left alone. Which in a way is really selfish because just like always, he is again only thinking about himself.

I always tell people to not take a show so seriously because it's fiction. But since no one really understands it, I will speak from a realistic point of view aswell. And if we judge this whole situation realistically, I would want to ask all the girls out here that would they want to be with a man and accept him in their lives again after getting hurt, abused, mocked, humiliated and getting stripped off your self respect and dignity and every point in life? Would they really want to have someone like RK as a husband? Because realistically speaking, a couple like that can have no future together whatsoever. And even after all this if the girl returns to that person, she would be very stupid indeed. If Madhu has a little shred of self respect left, she would never go back to RK after all the terrible things he's done to her even if he hangs upside down from a pole and apologizes to her.

A sorry cannot always mend a broken heart, A sorry is not always enough. And a sorry cannot always make things okay. There are some things in life that can never be forgiven. And no matter how much ever RK repents and redeems himself now, his actions have no forgiveness!

Besides, this show is about Madhubala. Her Ishq and her Junoon. Not About Superstar RK. He is just an aspect to the story. The main focus is Madhubala so we should all be unbiased and think from Madhu's point of view, from a woman's point of view.

P.S: Before people start thinking that this is some "Support Sultan" post, I would request them to please read it AGAIN! I am only talking about RK the "character" here.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#34
nice post & i totally agree with u
& also totally agree with u whatever u said in PS
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: swapna555

@iiDona

Thnx for the comment.:-)

And you have a point there, I guess. But, right now, I am finding it difficult to look beyond Madhu's continuous ill treatment.

I am sick of her humiliation and degradation.

And since this is reel life, we can accept a hero who is a either good don or a police officer who kill bad people or people who act like robin hood (like salman khan in dabang 2; don't endorse it personally, it being reel and all *shrug**), but is acceptable as long as they r not hurting or abusing innocents including girls.

And here it is the heroine herself. I guess, I am, as of now ok if she moves on, including alone or with somebody who treats her as a human being and with respect and who takes her feelings into consideration. And that at this point does include Sultan. 😊

agree with u dear sultan treats her respect she desrves even if hes angry he does not get physcial with her and thats respect which madhu needded if she still want to go back to rk she is mad than
and thi is fiction yaar why people r relating reality main ganstar ke saath nahi jayegi than tell u one thing reality main koi ladki aise lake ke saath nahi rahegi who insult and mistreat her and than try to own her like some thing and say he loves her its not love
and if rk can do tamasha every now and than and still no paparazi follows him no news of him in paper and he comes anvey he in chawal and other people r not bother
than why not madhu with sultan even if ganastar he can changed right if people can give rk many chnces if he doses somthing bad and intolerable than sultan is far better person than rk than he desrve chance in madhus life.
and with him madhu can actually get love and respect she desrve i know there will be hurdels lots of them then whats in story if there no hurdel.im not saying rishbala is bad but if they will eb together than we need to chnged defination of love
sulbala will be epic story
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Posted: 12 years ago
#36
I agree with your post.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#37
If he is doing all this insulting business to show his attitude, he should try to redeem himself by bringing change in his attitude, if he is psychopath, then he needs treatment from psychiatrist for sure, but in no case a girl in her right senses will ever wish to go back to the person who repeatedly tries to insult and humiliate her in full public glare and doesn't feel even slightest of remorse.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: swapna555


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<font color="#000099">Hey guys!! I am sure many would disagree with me and bash me
for this, but why should Madhu not move on from RK?





What is so great about him? A man who cannot even respect a woman, and
insults and humiliates her, strips her of her self-respect at every turn and treats
her with contempt and suspicion and takes out his frustrations on her at every
turn and forces such an abusive relationship on her .
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<font color="#000099">And BTW, that is exactly what it is: </font>


<font color="#000099">An abusive relationship is where the person abuses, hurts
and humiliates the other person repeatedly at every turn and then later says
sorry or shows love, only to go back to treating them as dirt again. And that's
exactly what RK does.



Too right I'm fed up same old story abusive attitude towards women. It would be nice if she moves on in her life, also it is telling young girls abusive relationship is the norm.
So, what is wrong if she moves on? Away from RK, alone or with someone else and
if she chooses some other guy, then I say good for her.
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Why is it so wrong for a girl in an abusive relationship to move on?
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<font color="#000099">PS: Bashers of Madhu plz stay away. I am sick of reading
people criticizing her at every turn. Since the forum consists of more than 80%
female population, each of them, being a girl/woman I would have thought people
would have more empathy towards another woman's continuous humiliation and
degradation in the hands of the very man who has pretended to love her and then betrayed
her. All people seem to care about is, how hot the male actor was or how hawt🤪 he looks while he is crying or insulting her.
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<font color="#000099">I love the way VD is portraying his char and I appreciate him. But, for me MAdhubala is about char and not actors.
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<font color="#000099"> So, plz, people with that mind set plz kindly
stay away from my post.
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<font color="#000099">This is an invitation for mature or should I say "immature"
audience depending on who is reading the post and their interpretation.
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<font color="#000099">Thank you in advance.</font>

<font color="#000099">PS: I don't mind RK and Madhubala together if he actually goes through the stages of therapy, realization of his mistake, regret,grovelling or saying sorry and trying to make up for all his humilation and mistakes.
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<font color="#000099">But, till then, I am not interested in Rishbala, period. It is insulting the name of love if they let Madhu get back to RK in the present circumstances.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#39
A very good analysis!! Appreciate it!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: krock

agree with u dear sultan treats her respect she desrves even if hes angry he does not get physcial with her and thats respect which madhu needded if she still want to go back to rk she is mad than
and thi is fiction yaar why people r relating reality main ganstar ke saath nahi jayegi than tell u one thing reality main koi ladki aise lake ke saath nahi rahegi who insult and mistreat her and than try to own her like some thing and say he loves her its not love
and if rk can do tamasha every now and than and still no paparazi follows him no news of him in paper and he comes anvey he in chawal and other people r not bother
than why not madhu with sultan even if ganastar he can changed right if people can give rk many chnces if he doses somthing bad and intolerable than sultan is far better person than rk than he desrve chance in madhus life.
and with him madhu can actually get love and respect she desrve i know there will be hurdels lots of them then whats in story if there no hurdel.im not saying rishbala is bad but if they will eb together than we need to chnged defination of love
sulbala will be epic story


EXACTLY!! Good one! Who said gangsters can not be human and so-called "humans" do not have devil hidden in them? Sultan and RK are prime examples! RK the "Hero" is as black-hearted as any villain could be!!

This reminds me of a yesteryear movie "Guddi" where Jaya Bhaduri is a movie buff and wants to see the actual shooting of a film and so lands up in Mumbai only to discover the REAL difference between a Hero and a Villain! The movie was more on the comedy and humorous side but the essence holds.
Edited by mozart66 - 12 years ago

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