Originally posted by: enigmatic_zephy
Aww thank you .. I am surprised you were able to make out the meaning in my 500 line rambling.. I was so angry .. that i just kept writing 😃
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Originally posted by: enigmatic_zephy
Aww thank you .. I am surprised you were able to make out the meaning in my 500 line rambling.. I was so angry .. that i just kept writing 😃
na dear i was just introspecting my feelings for Rishbala...ur very right that Madhu's love is not selfless...but love does not have to be selfless to be true..Madhu's love is pure, genuine and mad and RK's also...i myself don't believe in selfless love coz it's too much ideal...only the person who can love himself to an extent can spread that love happiness around him... so if a person loves himself , how can his love be selfless? 😕 and why demand selfless love? it's pure 24 carat bewakoofi...you keep loving someone and the other person cares a damn..ye kaisa pyar hai? my belief is that love should be everything + practical..give and take...keep giving and keep taking..when the balance is disturbed, correct yourself or correct the other person...when you only give and give and give, you get nothing but disappointment in return..bec. afterall we are all human beings, all of us want to be loved...and if we only take and take , the other person starts getting disappointed with you...if Madhu expected love in return of her love, she isn't being demanding, she's acting a normal human being..RK , when he will realize his love will also demand reciprocation but i'm not sure he will get it or no..😕 a few of my friends said that only when his love will not be reciprocated and he will still love her, will it prove that his love is genuine 😆 yes, may be..but that way he will never come out of this abyss 😕why is she there on his set?at first i thought, she wants a closure to RKthen i thought she wants to break himthen i thought she doesn't want him to revel in happiness that he won his revenge game.then i thought it's a strange way of holding onto this hope ke one day RK will realize his mistakenow the scenario is ke she's hanging around to make him feel Sultan's presence in her life..build up of drama from CV's 😊
Originally posted by: enigmatic_zephy
Hmm..
This is quite an out of line thinking.. but after watching today's episode.. the entire Mohan Kundra scene flash once again .. I am kind of forced into wondering about this..But before I start with my analysis.. understand well enough.. I am not saying what RK is doing or has done is right .. but then he ain't a stable character anyways..*************************************************************************************So,Madhu meets an arrogant obnoxious man - Rishabh Kundra.. He is hearltess, he insults people, disrespects one and all.. doesn't give two hoots about anyone else's existence..Oh she has seen a horrible side of her.. What she saw on her wedding day - throwing away mangalsutra the way he did, whiskey in the fire, coal for sindoor, thorn bed .. Till date that has been the most ugly sight of him ( at least for me).. The guy insulted her mother and father.. hell, if anyone dared insult my parents .. come what may I shall never forgive the person .. and she fell in love with him much before he actually straightend out things with pads and mailk..and i doubt if he ever apologized..So the point is.. Miss MB if you did still chose to fall in love with him .. How can you go about lecturing him ..You fell in love with a ruthless man .. and you know this..And somewhere down the line you saw goodness in him .. now whether it was your maternal instinct of rescuing a troubled soul or whatever.. but you did choose that.. vowing to change him, vowing to bring peace into his life..My point to You Miss MB is .. if your love is really true .. then how the hell have you given up on him today??????????????????????????He is no different from when you met him before.. infact he is better.. the whole world and you yourself is aware .. very well aware that he has feelings for you ..and when the real need will arise.. he will not let you fall .. NEVER!!Then how come you go about lecturing him.. and giving him all gyaan about how to behave or not and that he is the one who was acting all along..If you , who claims your love was true (and he didnt even claim it).. has given up already on your true love.. I wonder if you are capable of loving someone truly.. of selfless love..Had you been as crazy about him as you claim to be.. for you he owuld have always come first..a. Either you would have chosen to still stick through and either still keep trying to make him a better person..b. Or you would not have come back into his life .. all this drama of being on the set , with him .. alright even if i give you the benefit of the doubt that you had to prove a point.. but hwy continue now.. if your love is true,. you know he is pain.. leave him and go.. get out of his life.. isn't true love selfless love..Woman! honestly.. first assess your feelings for him.. He is the man you fell in love with.. he was never nice.. so either you pretended then .. beacuse you loved his attention .. and now when no attention .. no love..OR, respect yourself and your love and get the hell out of his life .. if you have given up and have no intentions of saving him from his destruction .. as you initially planned 😊OR, Just accept.. that your love was not a selfless love.. and move on ..and stop crying foul..PS: I am in no way suggesting you should take what he says lying low.. Hell no .. Never.. GIVE IT BACK .. WITH INTEREST.. but then in those moments of solitude atleast convince me your love is true..*************************************************Ah!.. I am so upset with her last dialogue today.. :( ..all i want is a tiny winy moment of MB .. and her relaization of love for RK.. her prioritizing him over everyone else.. No one , no other character has to know of this .. but for the peace of my mind.. I know this is true.. she does care for him .. being happy seeing RK at chawl, going with sultaan at gunpoint lest RK may come and get hurt. .. but i jsut want one verbal confession 😊An alternative view:
Originally posted by: enigmatic_zephy
😃... ah!.. bahut time ho gaya romatic scene chahiye .. kisi ka bhi .. sulbala, Rishbala, bhujangbala, bittubala.. koi bhi .. par do yaar.. Dip-Sikky love scene shuru ho gaye hai and that spells trouble for me.. matlab kaam ke romantic scenes bahut dooor hain
MB love was true and she did fall in love with the R.K that was "faking" being in love with her. It took R.K months to lay the groundwork of pretending to bring her to the point where she fell in love with him completely and deeply before he crushed her hopes and dreams. So the question to ask is did she fall in love with the superb acting of R.K. or the real R.K who has never been anything more than what he has always been. MB fell in love with the "Mirage" that R.K.presented to her. So now to say she should accept his new turnaround from him is asking too much. She has to see the "Real" Rishabh and not the "Superstar R.K." to even come close to believing him again.