Episode 197 Discussion: 16th Feb 2013 - Page 6

Originally posted by: apolloartemis

Normally today's episode and the RK/Dips antics would send me through the roof. But I wrote a cathartic fanfic today, in which I vented all my venom, so I can now analyze the episode without screaming incoherently.

One thing I noted- RK hates indifference. From anyone, in any form. That includes Dipali. As long as she reacts to him, he has power over her. And he wants that power over her. Because she was his first lover, and she chose someone else.

It doesn't matter how much he hates her. The fact that she comes crawling back? For a control freak like RK? That's the ultimate validation.

Madhu's indifference will sting him far more, making him more unstable.

After all, is she not his? Should she not react?

Originally posted by: vkk2429

Excellent take on RK...👏

and kind of explains the behaviour with Dips so far (atleast for me)

Men who are control freaks DO NOT LIKE indifference... they always want SOME kind of

reaction

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

The weight-lifting scene 🤣

I don't understand why you people are all disgusted about it. Have you all wondered what was the actual ACT about???

• If RK picked up Dipali in his arms, where was he leading her on to...INTO HIS ROOM OR AWAY FROM HIS ROOM.

• What would have happened if SIKKY HAD SEEN RK LIFTING DIPALI LIKE THAT and his darling wife with hands over RK ? What would the household have felt ? Half the time, I was expecting Sikky to see it. And IMO, RK EXPECTED SOMEONE to SEE that SCENE of HIM CARRYING DIPALI to HER ROOM.

• What would have Sikky or Radhaji asked ? RK where are you taking her ? What happened to her? Why is she in your arms ?

RK would have answered...Bhabhi was in my room exercising. I am taking her to her room.

What would have been the SUBTLE MESSAGE Driven here ?

WHY DIPS is EXERCISING in HIS ROOM ?

And who HAD to ANSWER that QUESTION ? RK or DIPS or SIKKY ?

IMO SIKKY was the one to answer that between TWO MEN. And no longer the fight is between RK and Dips. The WOMAN HAD ALREADY LOST ALL STATUS at that Point. This is is called SOCIETAL JUDGEMENT DAY.

Just that today, they wanted to use Dipali for RK to utter the dialogue of his HAQUE of hating, insulting and avenging over Madhu was his, even if she was his EX-WIFE. And he was saying this to his EX-GF. I feel they are preserving the scene of total public display of Dips for later, when Sikky gets to know about it.

See the contrast.

• There was a day when RK went to Madhu's room, picked her up in his arms and instilled her in his room.
• Today, Dips, who was in his room, INSTEAD of SAYING HIS REGULAR OUTT, he just picked up her, dropped her in her room and splashed water on her face, asking her to come back to senses.

To ME TODAY RK OFFICIALLY CURED HIMSELF OF HIS THIRD HURT.

MADHU HAS OFFICIALLY CURED RK OF ALL HIS THREE PUNCHES/HURTS.

1. RK is now reconciled to Ganesha, his father. They both are on the side table.
2. RK is reconciled to his mother. He respects her completely.
3. RK has shown Dipali her place and he was not afraid to show this in front of people. He already said to Dipali..."Coffer nahin Vodka se celebrate karo" in front of his mother. So RK is now HELL-BENT to SHOW DIPALI's REALITY to HIS FAMILY, especially HIS MOTHER and HIS BROTHER SIKKY
4. Finally RK has stopped drinking and is now able to sleep.

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

The weight-lifting scene 🤣

I don't understand why you people are all disgusted about it. Have you all wondered what was the actual ACT about???

• If RK picked up Dipali in his arms, where was he leading her on to...INTO HIS ROOM OR AWAY FROM HIS ROOM.

• What would have happened if SIKKY HAD SEEN RK LIFTING DIPALI LIKE THAT and his darling wife with hands over RK ? What would the household have felt ? Half the time, I was expecting Sikky to see it. And IMO, RK EXPECTED SOMEONE to SEE that SCENE of HIM CARRYING DIPALI to HER ROOM.

• What would have Sikky or Radhaji asked ? RK where are you taking her ? What happened to her? Why is she in your arms ?

RK would have answered...Bhabhi was in my room exercising. I am taking her to her room.

What would have been the SUBTLE MESSAGE Driven here ?

WHY DIPS is EXERCISING in HIS ROOM ?

And who HAD to ANSWER that QUESTION ? RK or DIPS or SIKKY ?

IMO SIKKY was the one to answer that between TWO MEN. And no longer the fight is between RK and Dips. The WOMAN HAD ALREADY LOST ALL STATUS at that Point. This is is called SOCIETAL JUDGEMENT DAY.

Just that today, they wanted to use Dipali for RK to utter the dialogue of his HAQUE of hating, insulting and avenging over Madhu was his, even if she was his EX-WIFE. And he was saying this to his EX-GF. I feel they are preserving the scene of total public display of Dips for later, when Sikky gets to know about it.

See the contrast.

• There was a day when RK went to Madhu's room, picked her up in his arms and instilled her in his room.
• Today, Dips, who was in his room, INSTEAD of SAYING HIS REGULAR OUTT, he just picked up her, dropped her in her room and splashed water on her face, asking her to come back to senses.

To ME TODAY RK OFFICIALLY CURED HIMSELF OF HIS THIRD HURT.

MADHU HAS OFFICIALLY CURED RK OF ALL HIS THREE PUNCHES/HURTS.

1. RK is now reconciled to Ganesha, his father. They both are on the side table.
2. RK is reconciled to his mother. He respects her completely.
3. RK has shown Dipali her place and he was not afraid to show this in front of people. He already said to Dipali..."Coffer nahin Vodka se celebrate karo" in front of his mother. So RK is now HELL-BENT to SHOW DIPALI's REALITY to HIS FAMILY, especially HIS MOTHER and HIS BROTHER SIKKY
4. Finally RK has stopped drinking and is now able to sleep.

Originally posted by: anastasia21

Here's what I don't understand. CVs are not stupid. They have proved it excellently so far. This show is way above-average, not stereotyped and fast paced. I would not go as far as to say its realistically portrayed, but I approve how they usually deal with the things. Sowhy the CVs, who are supposedly smart, are so hell bent on making us hate RK so so badly. They do know how the audience are going to react. Each and every ytube video I see nowadays, be it a new promo or some new scenes or episodes, they are full of comments hating on RK. Even here in this thread, people are gradually losing their cool.

So this can't be about gauging audiences' reaction anymore. They are doing this on purpose. They want us to unanimously turn against RK. Him slapping Bittoo ji, belittling him, RK-Dipali scene today, they know exactly how these are gonna hit us. Everybody already know that RK is a monster and he needs to redeem himself. So what's the point of etching and re-etching it on our mind so emphatically on a daily basis?

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

The Equation that Madhu and RK have now

In today's episode, they have yet again showed to the world that it is very private between the two. When Madhu answered the media that "pyaar alag ho gaya tha"...when we look at RK's visage, he is like, "yeah, I know" And Dips became a vehicle again for RK to tell us viewers that, he still considers Madhu as his...that haque(right) of insulting, hating and avenging is all his and no one else has it. He has made that clear.

And there in Chawl, Madhu looking at the same news...is very clearly thinking what is it their equation about now. She still cares for his well being and his mother. She wants Bittuji to take care of him. But she wants to steel herself so much that when he comes back to tell her that he loves her, she wants to be indifferent to his love, as if that is what will quench her hurt at not being reciprocated in love, in being told that he never loved her. Cheating...being led to believe that he loved her hurts her but more that that, being told that he does not love her is hurting her more.

Now, Madhu has brought in complexitiies to the relationship they have now. They both are calling each other Ex Husband and Ex Wife. So not sure what is the divorce status now...seems I have to assume that divorce already happened. They are painting it like Filmy couple seperation.

But complexities if RK had weaved into their relationship, Madhu added a new dimension to it. She wants to tell RK, I want to be immune to your love inspite of me wanting and actually taking care of you in best possible way. And RK was all this before...not sure where he is going now...but one thing is clear...he is possessing Madhu more than ever, holding on to her more than ever. He preserved her memories on the swing, will not want Madhu to see him acting the same scene with any other actress and making it a public memory. As told to Dipali, he will not have his Ex-Wife belittled by anyone. She is still his sherni, who is dignified, courageous and soft-hearted. Once again both of them made it very clear to the rest of the world...we are not separated, our love is separated. And this is very much OUR relationship.

So this is the NEW DNA of Rishbala romance. Trying to be immune to each other's love inspite of being caring to each other. They still have that haque on each other...indirect hi sahee.