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manesha76

@76manesha

Trailblazer

+ 6

Posted: 12 years ago

#41

I am really surprised to see people taking names for new Mod . Its an insult to Shefu - Gur - Shruti . Members mean to say that they are not doing their Jobs rightly .

What is the guarantee that the names suggested will do justice . As Mods should should be neutral .

People who say that they are fair always please check yourself properly . We are human & we all make mistake , but problem is no one in this forum is ready to say sorry . It makes a lot of difference when a member says sorry to other members & also mean it . Here egos are bigger then loving the leads .

If we finish our fights between eachother then there won't be any need for Mods to set new rules again & again .

I also request to all members that when you all find something wrong in the post please do not go with whole group & start bashing the Topic Maker . Please use report button .

The beauty of enimty is insecurity

Beauty of Friendship is security

Edited by manesha76 - 12 years ago

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subiaman

@subiaman

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#42

I feel Mods should be making the rules. But they can take everybody's suggestion into consideration. As a neutral person, not belonging to any groups, I feel you - shifali, gur and shruthi-are doing a great job. I don't see any bias at all. My suggestion is to let appreciation posts in the main forum. I personally find it annoying when people make tit for tat posts and pick up the other actor/actress when your favorite is criticized. I feel it is not healthy when some people open posts just to mock someone's opinions/predictions. I feel, whether some one believes in it or not, each member has a right to express their idea/ suggestion. Unless, you are one of the CVs, how do you know you are correct and not the other person? Please don't mock someone else just because they have a different viewpoint! That kind of posts should be closed. I like to see our forum on number 1 position. It is sad when lots of posts gets closed. Please go easy on harmless posts. Again, these are just my humble suggestions.

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Jwalamukhi

@-Jwalamukhi-

Stunner

+ 9

Posted: 12 years ago

#43

@ Rohit & Deepak: Enough please! This is not a topic to fight in. If you have problems, PM the DT.

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subiaman

@subiaman

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: manesha76

 I am really surprised to see people taking names for new Mod . Its an insult to Shefu - Gur - Shruti . Members mean to say that they are not doing their Jobs rightly .

What is theguaranteethat the names suggested will do justice . As Mods should should be neutral .

 People who say that they are fair always please check yourself properly . We are human & we all make mistake , but problem is no one in this forum is ready to say sorry . It makes a lot of difference when a member says sorry to other members & also mean it . Here egos are bigger then loving the leads .

If we finish our fights between eachother then there won't be any need for Mods to set new rules again & again .

I also request to all members that when you all find something wrong in the post please do not go with whole group & start bashing the Topic Maker . Please use report button .

 Thebeauty ofenmityis insecurity;
 Beauty ofFriendshipis security

I totally agree with you on this. Please do NOT insult our mods by suggesting new names. I don't think they are biased. If you stand in their shoes you will know how hard it is to please everyone. I totally give full solidarity to our Mods. I don't think they are being unfair to any fan groups. It is very easy to judge someone from outside.

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840216

Suspended

Posted: 12 years ago

#45

i apologise for my behaviour, but why to attack me in this post ? and i'm ok with ur rules just want to enjoy here

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shruti

@-Nymphadora-

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

#46

for starters no pointing fingers at anyone-we are trying to solve issues here not fight!

Regarding the AT rules-i agree,long and detailed Appreciation posts shouldnt be closed,they deserve a say and its fair enough-its a forum after all

but one thing i would like to say specially regarding the topics that are reported

so many times we have around 50 reports to look at the number itself gives you a headache.

Sad thing is that not once but many times the topic reported may not exactly be breaking any rule.

It may be a very strongly put forward opinion-but that doesnt mean it is bashing someone.I have seen many opinion posts being reported because some members feel that a random mention of "some people/somebody/Bashers" implies them and is offending.

Please be a little open minded,and learn to respect others views before reporting them.

Report only those topics that are genuinely against the rules-like name calling,cursing etc.

Not because you think some random mention or a very generally made comment is bashing you.

Likewise with regard to the RK issue,or for that matter a member stating that they dont like MB's behavior doesnt constitute as "Bashing".

They are characters they should be discussed-thier goods and thier bads.

Be a little open minded(maybe that cant be put as a rule) but accept other peoples opinions.If you do not agree there are nicer,POLITE ways of putting forward disagreements without pulling out daggers at each other and start fighting.

have debates like humans,not like animals.

I have never seen a forum like this-i dont watch the show,but some of the topics made are brilliant,and just beacause of some internal politics i hate to see such topics reported or them becoming battlegrounds and us having to close them.

Now comming to the rules-i hope we get strict rules about using expletives like b***h b******d etc.

There is no need to use such abusive language,things can be explained without cuss words too.

i propose a direct warning raise-such words are being used too often.

same goes with personal attacks-i am disgusted with how low some members can go regarding this!if someone doesnt agree with you,ignore them if needed,but there is no need to personaly attack them and use foul language-calling girls prostitutes targeting thier character?

seriously?

such behaviour should get a direct warning raise in my POV.

Agree with all the rest of the pointers put up😊

Edited by shruti.nil - 12 years ago

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Petal_Pose

@Petal_Pose

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#47

This is why I am so happy I am not a moderator. Saare Fandom ki tension on your shoulder.😳I just saw Shifali closing a topic.😆God, give them rest too guys.🤣I feel sorry for the DT's here.They seem to really busy busy.Poor DT's. OMG!How do you guys have the patience to deal with all this? I have give credit for the DT's of this forum.😆At least they don't seem to lazy DT's like I have encountered in the past.Guys, give the DT's rest, I mean they have life outside the forum too nah.😆

Edited by Siberian_Pigeon - 12 years ago

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840216

Suspended

Posted: 12 years ago

#48

nyc post shruti well i have never problem with criticizm. once i just criticized that i didn't like one actor acting and i got bashed over 25 pages. so that was very bad thing and my post didn't deserved to get closed. And asking for moree mods doesn't mean we were insulting shifali shruti and gur di i just think we need a mod who lives in india

Edited by deepak148 - 12 years ago

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chirpyhapibird

@chirpyhapibird

Inactive

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: _innocent_
I was asked to go and die, and two members (Who are clearlt mids were planning my funeral) on this forum, so tell me how exactly am suppose to react?) (that too because i stated a fictional character ought to die-DO Mods consider that as bashing? Do let me know!)- i have pmed the the relevant post- which mind you only got closed but no actions seemed to have transpired) If I stoop to their levels then clearly am no better, but you guys ought to be more firm! its as simple as that- am not here playing the blame game, nor calling you guys bias, but i feel you guys are two too lenient which explains why people are walking all over you (not literally) LOL

Additionally, a lot of members on this forum believe the word rape is a nice word to be ranting, without knowing its real definition! With all the incidents that have occured and are continuing to occur in relation to rape, i think anyone who dares use the word rape ought to be automatically ban (if they are using it in a stupid context- for example comparing a betrayal to be equivalent to rape, or bashers to be equivalent to rapist- these types of posts and members should not even be visible in the forum!)

I know you guys cant go around banning everyone, but unless you are firm, you will keep making these types of post, where members will pretend to be saint and then go and break the rules, and when you guys try to intervene you will be branded as being bias! It happens from both sets of fans# therefore i aint blaming one set of fans only !!.. But who cares what you are being branded, as long as you are doing your job effectively right? Soldiers are called various different names, but without them no countries are safe! (no am not comparing you guys to soldiers- but what am saying is, do what is necessary to keep this forum as clean as possilbe- i have bashed too, but only when I have been bashed and felt that effective measures were not taken- so as an audience of this forum, that will be my critcism and something on which you guys can work on perhaps)

If you guys are not sure as to what types of rules are effective, then the members cant really help you there(beecause both set of fandoms will come up with absurb suggestions- which wont work, and then they will end up creating posts to blame you guys)! You guys need to pick a set of rules and be firm with it! anyone violating them, ought to be banned without any warning being given! Yes its a bit harsh but its the only way for this forum to be peaceful! Also make sure stalkers get their wl increase too. And please get rid of mids, there are a lot on this forum!

Good luck with your implementations of new rules, and I sure as hell hope people obey them!😃
I didnt mean to offend you guys ie Shifali and gk_09!!

yeh personal attacks should be dealt with strictly
i see some senior members of the forum siding with newbies to create fights
some have a preplanned agenda
they call people and their comments as polluted
they attack them with such words
and then try to prove themselves innocent
they actually come with scheming
so i request mods that whenever you get complaints you should first look into the previous comments of the complainers themselves

and mods you maybe include this rule that you cannot ask for a character to die to instigate so called innocent fights