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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _innocent_

Areee yaar! It wont obviously lead to divorce😆 She understands his demons, but she did not appreciate his lack of trust in her, and when there is no trust, there cannot be a relationship! TRUST is the foundation of everything! even higher than love, per me!!.. So now they will work towards building some trust in their relationship, which will make them stronger! I dont think MB will leave him, because then that will cause her own mother to go into a state of turmoil, so wont leave him for definite!😳


i hope you are right cause i want them to work on their relationship.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I understand Madhu's anger... but I am not surprised with her reaction... she often failed to understand RK and his pains/actions/reactions... yah phir she understood but late 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I was thinking the same when she said that people make mistakes when they're weak 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Coeur2PsychoFMS

I understand Madhu's anger... but I am not surprised with her reaction... she often failed to understand RK and his pains/actions/reactions... yah phir she understood but late 😆


agree she should understand him by now. thats my point.
she couldnt stop by falling in love. remember the pareshan sequence she knew about his insecruities and his past.
Edited by afghangirl - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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come on guys what RK did was wrong he believed that bitch deepali who cheated with him and tested madhu!!!
He can't hurt anyone and expect that they will forgive him immediately
Edited by ..Aliya.. - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Aliya..

come on guys what RK did was wrong he believed that bitch deepali who cheated with him and tested madhu!!!
He can't hurt anyone and expect that they will forgive him immediately


of course you cant hurt someone and then expect to forgave you. i dont say she should forgive him easily but my point is she should try to understand him.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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you are also right atleast she should hear his explanation
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Madhu mentioned also that RK made her feel like a failure, that all the many attempts to reassure him of her character had not made him trust her, what she meant by that was the mukhund accident when she never took his money (so therefore she is not a girl that is after fortune), she also didn't speak to the newspapers to sell her story when he ruined her reputation to get money that way either during that time, after their marriage she faced a decision when he was shot to let him die and be free of him, she chose to save his life (praying for him, speaking and arguing with him to wake up, walking barefoot to the temple, giving him her blood) she could have sat back let him die and be a rich widow, but no she saved his life so that he could be with her for her lifetime, similarly the karva chauth fast she was ill, ate sargi from the dustbin (all this RK knows about) but kept the fast for his long life again for the same reason, so that he lives and stay with her for the rest of her life, so that dialogue she said of her attempts to reassure him of her love had failed, she was not sure she would ever be able to reassure him of her sincerity and would never make him trust in her love. So I was thinking it's two parts her ability to make him believe in her love for him and also she thinks his love confession to her was part of the test.

So now she feels foolish to trust him, having changed so much, smiling when he smiles, taking his insults, willing to follow him anyway and leave her family all because she trusted him that he had their best interests at heart and all of it was a game, that's what she said to him because her trust in him is broken. So his the culprit for listening to Dipali who does not understand sacrifice for a person you love, (all the reassurances above Dipali could never do, all RK should have done is tell Dipali them and tell her to get out of the room). RK failed also to realise what this test would do to his relationship to Madhu were she to ever find out.

We know it's his insecurities (his weakness) of being betrayed by those that love him, that allowed him to listen to Dipali, and even if she reassured him so much those insecurities to have love can't be quenched, but I feel she had finally succeeded when she said she would go leave with him somewhere with no wealth and status...but now it's all gone that plan.
Edited by Nafs_Sweetheart - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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rk's weakness is his past, that is the main problem. the pain he got in the past made him lose faith in love forever and when suddenly he got love again he wanted to be sure before he accepted her.

according to my POV he never doubted madhu's love or her innocence. when dips tried to put poison in rk ear about madhu, rk grabbed her by her throat and said madhu is nothing like that. he even tested dips once remember in the hospital where she said she can slit her wrist to prove she loves him right in front of madhu so if that was ok then what is wrong if he tested madhu for madhu's sake?it is not himself who wanted to test madhu's love for him but he wanted the world to see whatever they have between them is love and nothing but love. so many things has happened between them that it was kind of hard to make them confess so the cvs took this way.whatever he did was to shut dip up once an for all with her 4 phere ki biwi and he won't ever get love, he wanted to prove that he will get love and madhu is his love so she is wrong. trying to prove dips wrong he harmed himself along with his wife. he thought this game is going to be between him and dips but madhu found out, he didn't wanted to hurt her but she still got hurt.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nafs_Sweetheart

Madhu mentioned also that RK made her feel like a failure, that all the many attempts to reassure him of her character had not made him trust her, what she meant by that was the mukhund accident when she never took his money (so therefore she is not a girl that is after fortune), she also didn't speak to the newspapers to sell her story when he ruined her reputation to get money that way either during that time, after their marriage she faced a decision when he was shot to let him die and be free of him, she chose to save his life (praying for him, speaking and arguing with him to wake up, walking barefoot to the temple, giving him her blood) she could have sat back let him die and be a rich widow, but no she saved his life so that he could be with her for her lifetime, similarly the karva chauth fast she was ill, ate sargi from the dustbin (all this RK knows about) but kept the fast for his long life again for the same reason, so that he lives and stay with her for the rest of her life, so that dialogue she said of her attempts to reassure him of her love had failed, she was not sure she would ever be able to reassure him of her sincerity and would never make him trust in her love. So I was thinking it's two parts her ability to make him believe in her love for him and also she thinks his love confession to her was part of the test.


So now she feels foolish to trust him, having changed so much, smiling when he smiles, taking his insults, willing to follow him anyway and leave her family all because she trusted him that he had their best interests at heart and all of it was a game, that's what she said to him because her trust in him is broken. So his the culprit for listening to Dipali who does not understand sacrifice for a person you love, (all the reassurances above Dipali could never do, all RK should have done is tell Dipali them and tell her to get out of the room). RK failed also to realise what this test would do to his relationship to Madhu were she to ever find out.

We know it's his insecurities (his weakness) of being betrayed by those that love him, that allowed him to listen to Dipali, and even if she reassured him so much those insecurities to have love can't be quenched, but I feel she had finally succeeded when she said she would go leave with him somewhere with no wealth and status...but now it's all gone that plan.


but RK did arrangements for starting a new life with her, or did i misunderstood this.he made his will and buys a new house for them, so he wanted to leave with her.you got a point Madhu proved her love for him clearly. he was wrong for testing her and that too cause Dipali said so,my point is that she should understand why he did this, everyone make mistakes, she knew about his character and fall in love with him. she shouldnt forgive easily but she should at least hear him out.

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