Test of Love or test of Fate for RK himself? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Phoenix.Xeelan

Making a post after a long time. This is specially dedicated to a friend who's very sad after seeing today's episode 😆

RK is right now being super insecure. According to his life, being insecure is the most obvious thing he should be and doesnt matter how much Madhu loves him the fear of being heartbroken will be always there. It takes time to heal and that's not going to happen so soon. this is the reason I never expected confession from RK's side so early but I guess he is hoping it won't happen this time and he is hoping noone will hurt him again.
The situation is nobody's fault - neither RK nor Madhu. its fate. and even when Madhu is going to choose her family first she is also right on her part. she doesn't now till now falling in love isnt going to be walk on the path of roses. like she said to paddy once in hospital, she doesnt know wat it is she feels for RK. Madhus love is not blind but RK does everything with passion. be it hate or love. n when he said mein tumse pagalo ki tarah pyaar karta hoon he is indeed right. he wants someone to choose him over everything else in the world nothing else. and Madhu doesnt know that or doesnt understand that yet. its not his fault but is RK is insecure but the situations which made RK insecure in love and trust today aren't his fault either.

Coming to what Deepali said to RK. it was so cruel on her part to hurt someone like this extent. She was become more cruel after getting rejected and failed in her attempt repeatedly. Deepali rubbed it soo bad on RK's face that how unfortunate a human being can be that he has everything but not love. and no person can be happy without love. at some point of time they will feel empty inside without no1 to love them..
We were discussing it in Rishbala AT few days ago that is it RK doesnt understand Madhu is in love with him or he is in denia? l today I realized he was in denial actually. RK noticed everything and thats why when deepz said Madhu has started liking you he was remembering about the moment he caught Madhu's feelings in vulnerable situations and madhu never really tried to hide it. poor soul didn't know love could be so painful and on the contrary, RK knows already love hurts too much. this is the biggest contrast of their relationship. they both love each other but their perception about love is so different that its gonna cause problems for them always. RK's love is intense and full of passion but Madhu's love is serene, warm and simple. he was afraid and fighting with his feelings. Now Madhu has to endure the pain only to heal RK from his bitter past. if she doesn't understand his pain and insecurities, how will she heal RK. she can accept it and heal him too. her love is strong enough. just like everyone wants RK to protect Madhu from Ballu when he will come back. that is Madhus past which will hover over her future to destroy it today or tomorrow. Both will endure and accept the pain of their past and thus both will heal each other and and their love will only go strong. this is what I believe.

and there's no point RK didn buy a single word Deepali said bcoz he defended her soo strongly.. he has full confidence in madhu and her love for him ❤️

He knew Madhu has feelings for him but he refused or better say lied to himself about it. he was in denial. and i dont think he confessed because of Deepali. she pushed the right button in hurting him on the wounds making them raw again. its kind of self assurance. he wants to prove to himself and not anyone else in the world. he was so confident today when he said mein nehi haroonga. he has complete faith in madhus love for him and he wants to assure himself that yes there is SOMEONE in the world who will unconditionally love him and choose him as the first priority. its a small demand still hard to get. Self assurance before the fear of getting betrayed is always going to be there atleast till now so for once he wants his fear to be gone and prove his fears wrong. Deepali just said it outloud but it's never for her. it's for himself.

Precap was too good and tomorrow's episode will clear a lot of things about RishBala's feelings.

P.S: this is STRICTLY my POV 😆

P.P.S: Donno about others but Im very happy.. i was so eager to see the actual moment of"yeh Ishq nehi asan itna samajh lijiye... aag ka dariya hai aur doob ke jana hai..." I can see all that coming 😃

Originally posted by: Phoenix.Xeelan

Making a post after a long time. This is specially dedicated to a friend who's very sad after seeing today's episode 😆

RK is right now being super insecure. According to his life, being insecure is the most obvious thing he should be and doesnt matter how much Madhu loves him the fear of being heartbroken will be always there. It takes time to heal and that's not going to happen so soon. this is the reason I never expected confession from RK's side so early but I guess he is hoping it won't happen this time and he is hoping noone will hurt him again.
The situation is nobody's fault - neither RK nor Madhu. its fate. and even when Madhu is going to choose her family first she is also right on her part. she doesn't now till now falling in love isnt going to be walk on the path of roses. like she said to paddy once in hospital, she doesnt know wat it is she feels for RK. Madhus love is not blind but RK does everything with passion. be it hate or love. n when he said mein tumse pagalo ki tarah pyaar karta hoon he is indeed right. he wants someone to choose him over everything else in the world nothing else. and Madhu doesnt know that or doesnt understand that yet. its not his fault but is RK is insecure but the situations which made RK insecure in love and trust today aren't his fault either.

Coming to what Deepali said to RK. it was so cruel on her part to hurt someone like this extent. She was become more cruel after getting rejected and failed in her attempt repeatedly. Deepali rubbed it soo bad on RK's face that how unfortunate a human being can be that he has everything but not love. and no person can be happy without love. at some point of time they will feel empty inside without no1 to love them..
We were discussing it in Rishbala AT few days ago that is it RK doesnt understand Madhu is in love with him or he is in denia? l today I realized he was in denial actually. RK noticed everything and thats why when deepz said Madhu has started liking you he was remembering about the moment he caught Madhu's feelings in vulnerable situations and madhu never really tried to hide it. poor soul didn't know love could be so painful and on the contrary, RK knows already love hurts too much. this is the biggest contrast of their relationship. they both love each other but their perception about love is so different that its gonna cause problems for them always. RK's love is intense and full of passion but Madhu's love is serene, warm and simple. he was afraid and fighting with his feelings. Now Madhu has to endure the pain only to heal RK from his bitter past. if she doesn't understand his pain and insecurities, how will she heal RK. she can accept it and heal him too. her love is strong enough. just like everyone wants RK to protect Madhu from Ballu when he will come back. that is Madhus past which will hover over her future to destroy it today or tomorrow. Both will endure and accept the pain of their past and thus both will heal each other and and their love will only go strong. this is what I believe.

and there's no point RK didn buy a single word Deepali said bcoz he defended her soo strongly.. he has full confidence in madhu and her love for him ❤️

He knew Madhu has feelings for him but he refused or better say lied to himself about it. he was in denial. and i dont think he confessed because of Deepali. she pushed the right button in hurting him on the wounds making them raw again. its kind of self assurance. he wants to prove to himself and not anyone else in the world. he was so confident today when he said mein nehi haroonga. he has complete faith in madhus love for him and he wants to assure himself that yes there is SOMEONE in the world who will unconditionally love him and choose him as the first priority. its a small demand still hard to get. Self assurance before the fear of getting betrayed is always going to be there atleast till now so for once he wants his fear to be gone and prove his fears wrong. Deepali just said it outloud but it's never for her. it's for himself.

Precap was too good and tomorrow's episode will clear a lot of things about RishBala's feelings.

P.S: this is STRICTLY my POV 😆

P.P.S: Donno about others but Im very happy.. i was so eager to see the actual moment of"yeh Ishq nehi asan itna samajh lijiye... aag ka dariya hai aur doob ke jana hai..." I can see all that coming 😃

Originally posted by: *Shifali*

Bubber! ☺️

K, I am excited for being first! 😆

But anyways, as I was saying. Yes, RK is in denial. He always noticed that Madhu's starting to feel 'something' for him but he was never sure what. RK has been deceived by love so many times, from his father's love to his loss, from his mother's love to his mother's betrayal which he still isn't over and then to Deepali's "love" to her selfishness and now, he just don't know what to do with the word "love" "caring" "hope".

He's a pretty touchy person and I think I agree to that. He's afraid to give love another chance, but at the same time he knows that this time it'll be different but then again, how can he know for sure that it is going to be different?

He can't. He can't know for sure that Madhu won't leave him like all the other people in his life did. And hence why he doesn't want to get close enough to Madhu because he knows that if he does, she will go away like others too. But at the same time he wants to give love another chance because it's who he is. Because of Madhu. Because of the happiness he feels in him when he's around her. Because he can.

And I think that's the main part.

Originally posted by: PurpleHorizon

Post after a long time indeed Tanzie and me commenting after a long time too. 😆 I hope its not as long as the last time though coz I already wrote a lot in the AT😆

RK's fears of losing the one he loves was always a part of him and its not like these fears are for no reason and just imaginary. Its stems from what he has been through in life. A man who is deprived of love from his own parents and not just coz of some work of fate but coz of their own choices..how in the world is he supposed to just get up one day and throw it all away just coz he realised he is in love and there is smeone who loves him too? Being in love and dealing with your baggage are two different things. They are in love and now its time to deal with their baggage. And for ppl who think that its RK's baggage and he should deal with it why should Madhu suffer coz of him and all that explanations. A simple thing...if Madhu cannot accept and deal with RK's baggage she does not really love him. She only loves a fraction of the man that Rishabh is...and not love him completely. What is love, if you are not ready to help and carry your partner's baggage and fears? Thankfully Madhu's love is not that weak to just walk away leaving Rishabh to deal with it alone.

Omg!! I dnt believe we again said the same thing...in AT I said the same to Mandy that if you think RK's past is his problem and he should deal with it then why do ppl expect the man to deal with Madhu's past ie Ballu or even Trishna? The man is expected to deal, confront and save Madhu from her past demons but when it comes to RK's past demons he has to deal with it alone coz Madhu has not done anything and so souldn't suffer? Why such one sided love theory?

Well, anyways. How contrasting the situations have been for Rishabh and Madhu's realization of love. When Madhu started realising her feelings fo Rishabh, she was directed very positively by Padmini and so her confidence in love and the man only increased. While for Rishabh the moment he started accepting his as well as her feelings, what he gets is a very negative reminder of his ill feted life. Will it not affect his trust on love? Its not Dipali that he reacts to but instead reacts to the facts that she stated. He will confess not for Dipali but for himself...to get it out of his head and deal with it face on. The test whatever that is, is not to prove anything to Dipali but to himself that indeed there is someone who can love him with everything that she has...walking with him anywhere leaving behind everything. So that he can assure himself that she will not leave him for anything and anyone..no matter what happens tommorrow.

And one last thing, when the fear of rejection can bring tears in Madhu's eyes isn't it pretty normal for the man...a broken and damaged man at that, to even shudder, get disturbed, question and even get defensive at the thought of rejection? Instead of blaming and tagging it as dumb or stupid think by the char's POV and not yours.

P.S. - Oops sry Tanzie, again an essay😆

Originally posted by: flora212

TANJIE I LOVE U CUSE U DIDNT MAKE ANY SENTI POST! 😆AWSOME ANALAYZATION😛

Originally posted by: Nishi.Singh

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nice way u put RK's feelings and i think Shahi made a simlar kinda post just like urs, check that out and say - same pinch 😆

ok till this point i completely understood why RK wants to take Madhu's test and all...but what if Madhu fails his test? ...thats the aahaann part 😉...in Farah's language - 4th heart break by 4th doctor 😆😆

btw who is that friend who is sad after today's epi? 😆