What is problem with fun post ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Nafs_Sweetheart

Agree, I just want free right to appreciate as well as criticise, then all will be good here.

I read shruti-nil (moderator) comment

and what really stood out for me, from that comment is this line

The day you all guys stop taking the VD v/s DD thing so seriously

Try to enjoy the show rather than picking up fights

and try to be a little large hearted to some joke cracking and slight sarcasm

this forum will ROCK!

It was a long post but If you want to read it here is a link...https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/70431407

So the reason those few lines spoke to me, because the problem is originating from people taking offence when their favourite either DD or VD being criticised, if we try hard when we spend our time here on having friendly conversations with each other and not picking up fights when your favourite is criticised, the wars will stop!!!

Also if you find yourself in a situation where you made a joke and someone has come to attack you out of the blue, just report them and they will be duly punished for hurting your feelings. However, the problem with this is once you have been attacked by someone you have that bad feeling against that person, so next time you feel like going to start a fight bear that in mind, before you attack think after I say these words, she/he and I will be on bad terms and bad feeling will prevail in the forum. Do you want that here where you spend so much time?

Originally posted by: manesha76

Hello dear , I think the day we stop addressing the members as all DD fans & VD fans fights won't occur at all . I think we need to think before writing too . Why should we think that wow today DD fans will be happy & today VD fans will be happy . As i feel great to see both of them .

You must criticise Madhubala do not take DD's name or you can criticise RK without taking VD's name . Bas fir kisiko kuch bura nahi lagega .

Originally posted by: Nafs_Sweetheart

Manesha, you are not understanding what I'm saying, I'm fighting for the right to criticise and appreciate DD and VD, to have some freedom of speech here, in the previous forum I used to visit we would criticise the actors personal as well as professional lives, and nobody would be offended, we were their fans but we could understand where a person is coming from when they criticise an actor, but here, people are taking offense seriously when an actor is criticised, and come to attack you for criticising. That is wrong because a bad feeling will prevail in the forum, also your relationship with that person will be also tarnished. So what I think what is more important is we have friendly relationships with our forum members and not have any bad feelings for each other and this can only happen if you don't take it so seriously when criticism is made for DD or VD.