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Posted: 12 years ago

#151

Humble request to everyone...Plz ignore newbies...the above newbie made new ID only for making fight with DV/DD fans...

Edited by chrys - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago

#152

Pzl stop with that silly comment.

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ornella_mg

@ornella_mg

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#153

I've been reading lots of comments and i find one group blaming the other. To find the culprit we have to look at all the post beginning from day1 ( not possible).

I've been here for 2 months now...so dont really know the whole story. But i have observed few things. Few post are made by some people which are derogatory with snide remarks on the leads. We should not avoid those posts. I think we should ask the TM to edit her comments and if possible close the thread. Avoiding those posts leads to a lot of tension and misunderstanding. If the misunderstandings are not cleared in that thread it leads to a big fight.

What i have understood so far is that its not a fight between the 2 fandom but few individuals who have problems or grudges with the others and this has taken a very ugly shape. I am sure not all the DDinans hate VDians and vice versa.

I have seen lot of good posts that were closed because the participating members were very hostile with no civility. If you do not agree to the post you can always put your views in a very respectful manner. Calling names and making cheeky remarks is not acceptable. Just because one has freedom of speech does not mean we misuse it. Its a public forum so use it as one. Keep your radical views to yourself and your friends don't dicuss it in a public forum. The mods should look out for those culprits and not close the whole thread because of few.

Regarding drooling threads, I've no problem. I am nither a fan of VD or Dd, I like them but not their fan. I dont hold grudges against anybody who opens a drooling thread because that is what fans do. If somebody opens a drooling thread of Aamir Khan, i'll be the first on to join in. We like to see our fav and talk about them, so I think all should be given the freedom to do that.

@ Coeur, creative writing is a skill that only few possess. I don't have it so i really appreciate in others.

Dont let these issues dampen your spirits.

Edited by ornellamg - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago

#154

Originally posted by: ornellamg
I've been reading lots of comments and i find one group blaming the other. To find the culprit we have to look at all the post beginning from day1 ( not possible).
I've been here for 2 months now...so dont really know the whole story. But i have observed few things. Few post are made by some people which are derogatory with snide remarks on the leads. We should not avoid those posts. I think we should ask the TM to edit her comments and if possible close the thread. Avoiding those posts leads to a lot of tension and misunderstanding. If the misunderstandings are not cleared in that thread it leads to a big fight.
What i have understood so far is that its not a fight between the 2 fandom but few individuals who have problems or grudges with the others and this has taken a very ugly shape. I am sure not all the DDinans hate VDians and vice versa.
I have seen lot of good posts that were closed because the participating members were very hostile with no civility. If you do not agree to the post you can always put your views in a very respectful manner. Calling names and making cheeky remarks is not acceptable. Just because one has freedom of speech does not mean we misuse it. Its a public forum so use it as one. Keep your radical views to youself and your friends don't dicuss it in a public forum. The mods should look out for those culprits and not close the whole thread because of few.
Regarding drooling threads, I've no problem. I am nither a fan of VD or Dd, I like them but not their fan. I dont hold grudges against anybody who opens a drooling thread because that is what fans do. If somebody opens a drooling thread of Aamir Khan, i'll be the first on to join in. We like to see our fav and talk about them, so I think all should be given the freedom to do that.

@ Coeur, creative writing is a skill that only few possess. I don't have it so i really appreciate in others.
Dont let these issues dampen your spirits.

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@Bold Agree with you completely. It's not all dd and VD fans, but few people from both sides:( And I am here from day 1 so know everything. It's not the fight between all ddians and VDians but few people where some of those few people are dd fans and some of those few people are VD fans, but now it's effecting all dd and vd fans and this forum too. :(

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shevikhatri

@shevikhatri

Beginner

Posted: 12 years ago

#155

Originally posted by: Cutieee1992
LOL listen everyone be it dd/vd/DVD fan, ignore the newbies. Lol, seriously from where do they come from? When good things happen, I don't see any, but as soon there is some misunderstanding, all advisers in the name of newbies or from other forums will come for their help. So just ignore 😛

Excuse me ...you can call me new bi 4 sure whether i have joined this forum in 2011...the only thing is that i came here only in DD's fanclub never commented on ny article.I have no problem being called me newbie...n surely you can ignore my post.But this the reality whatever i have said just now...I was in pain bcz i have seen the real faces of VD fans n here they are pretending something else n trying to be very nice with us..Mujh se yeih doglapan bardaast nahi hua ..thats y i said so...but you are also a true DDian then you should respect my feelings...i hate double faced people thats what VD fans are..

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Ekta

@HaymurS

Achiever

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Posted: 12 years ago

#156

Originally posted by: shevikhatri
I liked you POST JARA .But there are some true facts about DD that VD fans need to get aware.

DD is a PRINCESS.VD is really lucky to have such a beautiful girl as aco actress . Otherwise we all know how was his previousco actresses ..As Vampo wen he was paired with piya...that was ok 4 him..n He is having such a ugly gal friend.Moti Bhais kahi ki...
Oh God yeih sab to SEVEN janam main bhi meri DD ki barawari nahi kar sakt..Hello VD fans..tumhe to humara thankful hona chayie ki humari princess tumhare VD ki life main aayi hain.Tabhi to woh AWARD jeeta.Jab se dekh rahi hoon yeih VD fans to aise kood rahe hain jaise usne koi OSKER jeet liye ho...usse yeih award bhi DD ki bajeh se hi mila hain...warna usko jaanta hi kaun tha...


See Guys i did not mean to hurt nyon's feeling..n i don't have ny problem with VD at all.but when it comes to comparison between DD & VD...then sorry my dear VD fans..there is no comparison...

I just loveee euuu my DDD...You are the best my princess... 

ghosh
u did such a hardwork.new id bnayi n dat too post 1 single comment.
get a lyf.

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ornella_mg

@ornella_mg

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#157

Originally posted by: Cutieee1992

@Bold Agree with you completely. It's not all dd and VD fans, but few people from both sides:( And I am here from day 1 so know everything. It's not the fight between all ddians and VDians but few people where some of those few people are dd fans and some of those few people are VD fans, but now it's effecting all dd and vd fans and this forum too. :(

Then it must be addressed by the concerned individulas in a private way. Because i feel if someone has wronged me i should deal with the said person in a personal way. Bringing such issues in public will create lot of mistrust and misunderstanding. Not everybody will know the whole story and this leads to groupism and fanfights, which is happening at the moment.

Everybody who has issues, with drooling threads, closing threads, criticial threads should bring their issues forward and have a debate in a very healthy manner. And others who has personal grudges with any members should take it up personally with the said members.

I am sure this forum can be a healthy and happy place for all if we all behave maturedly.

P.S. i should request all to stop reacting and replying to instigating posts

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radt

@radt

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#158

Originally posted by: deepak148
sorry drooling threads make sense for me atleast. If we call her princess, beautiful, it is our opinion and why it bothers other people ? i don't get it. People make VD drooling threads and praise him. No ddian and DVDian like me will stop u. But what is wrong with DD drooling threads ?

One if you do not agree to my views, you can continue doing that but stop replying to my posts! I am not asking you to change yours but I do not want to talk to you, thank you!

Two, I have not bashed anyone in my post, so i guess if you dont agree with my thoughts, please ignore!

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radt

@radt

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#159

Originally posted by: shevikhatri
He is having such a ugly gal friend.Moti Bhais kahi ki...
Oh God yeih sab to SEVEN janam main bhi meri DD ki barawari nahi kar sakt..Hello VD fans..tumhe to humara thankful hona chayie ki humari princess tumhare VD ki life main aayi hain.Tabhi to woh AWARD jeeta.Jab se dekh rahi hoon yeih VD fans to aise kood rahe hain jaise usne koi OSKER jeet liye ho...usse yeih award bhi DD ki bajeh se hi mila hain...warna usko jaanta hi kaun tha...

That is what is mentality! Reported straight away!

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Aqeelah

@xxAqeelahxx

Sparkler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#160

Originally posted by: shevikhatri

Excuse me ...you can call me new bi 4 sure whether i have joined this forum in 2011...the only thing is that i came here only in DD's fanclub never commented on ny article.I have no problem being called me newbie...n surely you can ignore my post.But this the reality whatever i have said just now...I was in pain bcz i have seen the real faces of VD fans n here they are pretending something else n trying to be very nice with us..Mujh se yeih doglapan bardaast nahi hua ..thats y i said so...but you are also a true DDian then you should respect my feelings...i hate double faced people thats what VD fans are..

Urgh excuse me No they are not ... maybe few are but a lot are not !! get it matey ... I'm a vdian and ur calling me double faced too then huh... Just Great !!