Episode 129 Discussion: 21st Nov 2012

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RSP04

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Posted: 12 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: applenpeaches
@Manonids.. Join the club.. I am a v. famous I-am-not-an-RK -fan in this thread.. 😆

Guys

Can I join the club too??????

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Namita

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Posted: 12 years ago

#32

I think RK should just rip the contract up in front of all. The end, but then people like Diputz wouldn't relent. She puts leechers and other poisonous creatures to shame.

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Sonu

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Posted: 12 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: reenap

Guys

Can I join the club too??????

Great.. 🤗 Let me think of a name for the club.. Any ideas anyone?

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-Srushti-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: applenpeaches
SD, Didnt you say something about RK not sharing the bed once he tells her the truth?
One of the many things I dont like about RK is that he doesnt realise how tough it will be for Madhu until he does a 7-phera marriage with her... He may not care about people's opinion, he may think of Madhu as his rightful wife, but that is not going to change people's perception of Madhu or the way the others will treat Madhu.. Seriously speaking, RK taunts everyone, BBBs them- thats all fun to hear.. But other than a momentary effect- it doesnt seem to have a lasting effect- Be it on RaDunce or Diputz.. He needs to make himself more clear in a way that they would really really understand- they have really really thick heads.. If he explains in a way one does to normal people, they wont understand that.. For an intelligent man, he doesnt know how to shut them up for good..

A short post from Suk 19.. I agree with her.. : https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/madhubala-ek-ishq-ek-junoon/3302186/radhaji-how-wrong-you-are

@ bold...God Peaches...I so agree with you...It is high time he stops teaching random spelling O-R-D-E-R to his house pests and gets some real time baygon spray...Or better get them with Paragon Chappals...More likely to hit them better ...cant they GET into their heads that MD is NOT going anywhere away from RK...if he didnot let her go when he absolutely wanted to torture her..he is certainly not going to let her go NOW...Radhaji...please get some brains!!!

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Shridevi Gaddam

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Posted: 12 years ago

#35

the thread is growing bigger and bigger. I will not be able to my take in sanity today as I have lot of work at the table. 😭

Anyways...Peach...so you agree that I know RK the BEST 😎 😎 😎

@everyone who is doubting the vodka/liquor to be water.

It is liquor. Why the disbelief when Madhu clearly said Sharaab ?

And yes, RK, even now can take alcohol if he is not distracted enough to sleep peacefully in the night. It will be totally out of character for the man NOT TO DRINK just because he opened up to Madhu now. Before Madhu, alcohol was his partner and soother. Old habits die hard. I was happy when they showed him trying to take alcohol when during Ganapati track he was unable to sleep with all kinds of memories.

Then happy times (just 4 to 6 days if we track the time) started and so no alcohol. In between he had a delirium in the hospital.

Now this single day of Malik getting arrested was too long and too strenuous on his nerves...since daybreak, how many things he had to manage...so many fights, dramas and finally opening himself before Madhu's straight questions...For God's sake, the guy is not even fully recovered.

Give some space to the man... girls!! Overnight you want him to heal, want him to become Madhu's loverr, beau etc. The guy is just any other guy...trying to heal himself in his own manner.

He is licking his own wounds away from glares...and here it happens to be his wife. Atleast this time, unlike the studio exit/RK mansion entry, he did not misbehave with Madhu, atleast he did not jerk her away like he did in the hospital. He was all in decent developments, answering her, getting away but in a open communicative manner with soft tones rather than completely closing himself.

Just give the man his due time...At this rate of unrest in the thread...I would like to go and rest myself somewhere enjoying what they are showing.

Soundarya,

>>>Am wondering if I imagined it, SD, need your help! As a couple they have shared so much visceral grief together, it's most natural to reach out, but he needs that distance to be maintained to keep up the 'dead RK' facade and to deny himself the comfort of the realisation that he no longer is alone, he has somebody with him, and that he loves that someone.

I can only explain you by telling you about myself.

When I went through my ending of first marriage...failing in every manner for me

I did not allow my family to reach me in any manner, when I was on my rebuild path. They used to literally get scared of me and yet worried for me. And I was like, I give a damn about you all...first things first, let me take care of myself. I used to stay alone then in Delhi, working...I rarely wanted to talk to them. Kept only in touch with material facts of mundane life...that everyone is well and no one is dead...sort of when Dad used to give once in a while update. I don't remember if I talked to my mother...My mother is strong too...she loves us extremely, but if she knows that kid is hurting and wants time and space, she gives it all. Probably that's how she got sick...keeping all that away from me...with all that turmoil...I did not feel anything when Mom got sick and hospitalized. When Dad was ill..again no feelings.

That period of hurt and healing took two years...where I had stripped myself of emotion and I did not want anyone's support...coz it was being weak according to me. Then, when Mom's sickness increased, I decided to go back to them in Hyderabad. By that time, because of my employment, my confidence was improved. I had taken a certification, which I passed with good marks, and I had taken up lot of professional extra studies in my free time. Basically dealing with customers at office, colleagues and boss interactions all helped into churning out the NEW Shridevi. I was confident, with clear voice...I was even amazed at myself. I could even fight with my boss. Such no nonsense character I had become with full of fire.

Sister tells me that change in me...she never liked. I told her its survival. One needs to change and reposition oneself. She could never understand. And these days as she goes through her low phase, she gets the right answers for her turmoil and needed strength from me.

When I had returned to my parents to take care of mom (at the request of my Dad in secretive manner so that Mom's esteem was not hurt), I just came as a daughter to take care without any emotion. However, when I saw my weak mother strutting towards me on station platform to receive me when I alighted from the train, the sight just arrested me. It melted me. I did not get teary, I did not hug them...those days, never used to allow anyone to touch me... I just looked on..at her without smile and just asked why did you come? She was full of beaming smile. So was Dad. That sight stayed in my memory...I erased it too ..to some extent so that I cannot remember what they did to my mind...but still I retained a part of that memory. That's what I call...subjecting yourself that you don't want to completely lose your old self...since it also means something to your family and your friends. They too have a hold on my life. So for them I slowly started controlling my fire...and another year of stay with them, healed me to become normal..another year from there allowed me to feel happy for people around me...

When I had loving people around me, I had so much apathy in me...when RK has no one around him from his previous life who could love him...then how does the need arise for him to stop on the path that he is treading. He happened to meet this woman who shows him hope...its not that he will pakdo her palla on day2. It will take time.

Ever read Crime and Punishment ? Remember the Siberia days of Raskolnikov and how he shuns Soniya his only hope...so much that he gets sick and finally comes to terms with her when she gets sick. Its takes time guys! It takes time when the fight is all about one's existential question and not just a petty problem to deal with.

*****

See you in the evening. Feel quite overwhelmed.

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Namita

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Posted: 12 years ago

#36

Why the sudden concern for her son now. Where was the mother and her concern when her young son needed her the most?? I am getting frustrated with this nonsense.

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-Srushti-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: Athena90
My 2 cents.

2 things were weird today.

First, RK trying to run away from the house to get away from Madhu and her "pity looks" (is it just me or did the were the looks not pitiful at all. Seemed more judgmental in my opinion) seemed very out of character. He opened up to her before, wiped her tears and now suddenly he feels weird and needs to run away?

Second, the whole scene when Dipali was insulting Padoo was weird. Why was Madhu & Rk standing and watching. To some extent, I can understand why RK was silent. He wanted to see to which extent Radhaji would fall. But Madhu? She knows Dipali can insult. She tried stopping RK when he insulted Padoo. Why couldn't she cut in? Or tell her mother to leave? Instead of standing and watching the whole thing.

Athena...first the second thing you found weird...I agree to it...but it so happens that Colors is famous is all famous for its all drawn out dramas...it would let EACH one of themm have their WHOLE dialouge and whatever is on their minds...before letting the other character START...and it does have this weird feelings because people dont just do that...they dont stand and let the other finish the whole vindictive tirade😆

On your first Point...that I would like to differ...IT happens when people who open up and then suddenly feel that they have laid themselves open...and that they should not have done so...it is the disclosure's guilt...I have had such an experience...had an acquaintance share a secret about her family with me..she actually ranted about her family problems one fine day...but the very next day she wont talk to me or meet my eyes...I think that is what RK is sufferring from...he feels that he did lay himself bare open and now is more vulnerable...
Waise did you notice...even in his sneer he calls himself cute little puppy😆

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Manonidz

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Posted: 12 years ago

#38

Just for information guys, there is one short teaser of 23Nov of some shows on Colors- RK Madhy dancing on some song on the same bridge. It seems there is some dream seq and this time may be uts from RK

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RSP04

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Posted: 12 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: Manonids
Just for information guys, there is one short teaser of 23Nov of some shows on Colors- RK Madhy dancing on some song on the same bridge. It seems there is some dream seq and this time may be uts from RK

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Wow do you have the link.???