Parents tend to be insensitive at times

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Posted: 13 years ago
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When i saw the episode i felt so bad for trishna...her mother is not wrong in her place wanting her child to complete her education but what parents fail to realise is that the kid has put in a lot of efforts but still couldnt pass...
Trishna has bigger dreams so she is not focused on completing her education...
she is not such a bright student like madhu but such students must be understood by the parents rather than just burdening them with more pressure of passing...

PS: i hope i could convey clearly what i wanted to...just not getting the right words...
brains are too worked up...with 14 hrs continuous work...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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got your point rene ... Parents only care abt their kids and want the best for them ... Even if their kids stand againsts them ... But here paddy wont do anything like this ... She is an intelligent woman.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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think paddo is just over protective of her girls and wants the very best for them especially after the childhood trishna has had...paddy also thinks roma has inflicted her dreams on trishna as well which prob hasnt helped as now as trishna wants to do is become a star 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Education is the kind of jewel that will always stay with one. Trishna has hopes of making it in Bollywood, but not everyone makes it in Bollywood and I think Paddy has 'graduation' as the idea of a back up plan for Trishna in case she doesn't make it big over there. Besides there is a life span for an actor. Not every actor in Bollywood stays on top and not everyone survives in Bollywood till their old age. Everyone is not that lucky. Paddy is thus looking for a reasonable realistic Plan B for her daughter...

Plus, I feel Trishna herself didn't want to study. I mean one can atleast 'pass' an exam if they put in some effort. I am not talking about maximum efforts cause that's not her dream but if she had atleast put in minimal effort than she could've passed. Besides she had Madhu her sister at home to help her in studies if she wanted any help. She was in the same class as Trishna and could've easily helped her in passing an exam. Madhu could've helped her in understand concepts or just given her,her own notes to memorize and pass the exam.

But I believe Trishna is at fault here. She was too unfocused here... I don't think she is stupid or dumb to not get the material and she had the biggest help anyone could get... a peer. So I can understand Paddy's POV.

Plus I feel Paddy also is kinda at fault too.. one needs to instill importance of education in their children which she lacked in doing so. No matter whatever children's dream itself are. This is one thing that no parent should compromise on.
Edited by mahi0809 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Awww, first of all get some good rest dear and i guess i can understand what ur trying to say...

Well yes parents sometimes get insensitive or oversensitive. They want good for their children but at times they fail to realise what they want might not be what their children want. And what they thing is good for their children may not be what their children want. Just like in Trishna's case, Paddy wants a good future for her daughter but fails to understand that her daughters dreams lyes within cinema and thats her passion.

But Trishna also needs to learn to balance between cinema and get family which she isn't doing, i mean yes ur doing what u want and what u love but understand ur mother's feelings as well and there has to be balance in everything which Trishna is failing badly.

And i personally don't think that Trishna has even put in any effort, she has been probably shooting. I mean she has done the exam for three years and she still can't pass, come on! She studied the same syllabus for three years and she still fails. By now she has to at least pass the exam.x.
Edited by x.Maaneet4eva.x - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think that Paddy was a little harsh with trishna. I mean ok she failed again but jumping straight to marriage is not very sensible. This will only make Trishna rebel more. Having said that I think even Trishna was wrong in lieing about her results and off course for failing 3rd time in the row.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Paddy was right in her stand. She said after graduation Trishna can do whatever she likes.
But it seems form what Madhu said the exam was easy this time if Trishna have worked even a little bit for the exam she would have passed.
So Trishna has not studied at all.
Here I blame Roma. Just to fulfill her dream she is spoiling Trishna' s life and it is not good. She is such a big influence in Trishna's life Paddy had no control over it.
I know Roma and Mallik has given a shelter to them. But Roma should always respect Paddy and should not get involved in their life in this way.
When Trishna fails in her dream all the blame will come on Paddy's head. From the rpecap we are already seeing it calling her Sautheli is the first step.
I feel they are more concentrating on Trishna than Madhu this week.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I will not agree fully with padmini.Should not force a child to do something which they r not intersted.Trishna is intersted in acting not in studies
.But all parents force their child saying u have to study,education will give help u in future.At least u should be graduate this that...
Madhu is good in studies and should not compare one child with another.This made trishna to say those words(step mom)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I got what you wanted to say..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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parents do sometimes act insensitive bt i dont think padmini was asking something great she was asking her to only pass her graduation that too not even with first division she just want her to pass ...she can atleast do that much and the point is not that she failed the point is she lied to her thats wrong...and padmini is just faking she is not going to get her married she is angry and sare parents aise hi react karte hai yaar

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