maahi shud change - Page 4

I think I can shed some light in the situation b/c I've been through this in real life......

First of all...I am fron the U.S....and have been here all my life. I do have those "values" u speak of..respect and so forth..at the same time...I'm western in the way I dress. I pretty much married a FOB from India....why? I feel in love when I visited there. Anyways...upon him moving to the U.S....I dealt with the same issues mahi & shabd are going through except in this case.....my husband wanted me to dress "traditional." From my prespective......the way I dress expresses how I want to project myself to the world...and how I feel about myself...my identity as a peson. It is a HUGE deal...and no..it's NOT some stupid fight. It had a huge impact on our marriage ...to the point of divorce. Yes, I am divorced now. I couldn't change myself. At one point....I tried to make him happy...but I could never be happy pretending to be something I am not. It's not fair for Mahi to change nor is it fair for Shabd to give up his dream. I'm not sure what the producer has in mind for the couple...but in real life...having been through it myself and seeing a lot of relationship suffer from "lifestyle" issues...it always ends ugly. There is no middle point often time. I like mahi and shabd together...but my personal opinion is...they would be better off apart b.c they already have a distinct lifestyle set and compromising will just belittle there relationship....in the end...there will be nothing but pain and resentment if they stay together. "clothes" really encompasses a whole "lifestyle" ...not just the way u dress. U can be traditional and western...majority of Indian Americans are both.

I think both need to compromise
I mean as husband and wife there are always going to be differences and fights but unless both take a step to solve the problem nothing will change
so Shabd needs to stop acting like an a$$ and accept Mahi for the way she is
and Mahi needs to loosen up a bit i think and at least wear dresses like she did during her first photo shoot when she met Shabd
I hope they both come to a decent compromise and get back together soon 😭

Originally posted by: sadizzle

So are you saying that this small issue over choice of clothes is worth breaking up marriage?

You should ask this too Shabd he is the one who's breaking up their marriage😕

Originally posted by: sadizzle

Everyone here who disagrees with the idea of Mahi changing for her hubby Shabd are clearly feminist! Keep ur crazy thoughts to urself..you crazy freaks! Yall aren't thinking about reality!! Everyone has to change for one reason or another in life...either being good or bad. Its LIFE!! <feminist always live in fantasy world> tsk. tsk tsk. 😆

Hahahahaaa not funny😃

Your being clearly rude you should respect others opinions! If they don't think that Mahi should change then their not feminists neither freaks your the one who is thinking in a weird way 😕

Seriously I am really getting angry by reading this reply of yours

oh wow! Well yall are going crazy over the fact that Mahi has to change..haha..and now when i give my opinion im offending peeps! this website is sooo bias!! Thank Tumhari_Khushi for proving that this site is bias! 😡

its all sahunis fault if she had never come it would have been better. 😡

Everyone here who disagrees with the idea of Mahi changing for her hubby Shabd are clearly feminist! Keep ur crazy thoughts to urself..you crazy freaks! Yall aren't thinking about reality!! Everyone has to change for one reason or another in life...either being good or bad. Its LIFE!! <feminist always live in fantasy world> tsk. tsk tsk.

Originally posted by: sadizzle

Everyone here who disagrees with the idea of Mahi changing for her hubby Shabd are clearly feminist! Keep ur crazy thoughts to urself..you crazy freaks! Yall aren't thinking about reality!! Everyone has to change for one reason or another in life...either being good or bad. Its LIFE!! <feminist always live in fantasy world> tsk. tsk tsk.

This topic should be closed because somebody(^^) is spoiling the discussion and being rude towards other members😕

Whats wrong with you why are you so rude? What do you mean with this: Keep ur crazy thoughts to urself..you crazy freaks! Yall aren't thinking about reality!!

Ofcouse we are not thinking about reality it's a serial which isn't real😕 Onlny because somebody disagrees with your opinion that person is a "crazy freak" with "crazy thought" your hurting people so much that some of us including me are really getting mad at you and no wonder that the moderators closed your topic you should learn to respect the mebmrs and their opinion!😕

WHY THE HECK SHOULD MAHI CHANGE?
ARE YOU KIDDING
FIRST OF
NO ONE SHOULD CHANGE THE WAY THEY LOOK IF SOMEONE WANTS THEM TOO UNLESS YOU YOURSELF WANT TO CHANGE
NEXT, IT WAS SHABD'S MISUNDERSTANDING
SHABD THOUGHT MAHI WAS A SUPER MODEL
HELL SHE EVEN TOLD HIM WHEN HER HOUSE WAS BEING SOLD THE REASON WHY SHE DID THE MODELING AND WHY HER DAD WAS ANGRY AT HER AND EVERYTHING
LASTLY WHATEVER EVERYONE IS THINKING ABOUT MAHI CHANGING IS COMPLETELY WRONG
SHE WOULD BE GOING AGAINST HER MOM AND DAD'S MORALS AND IF ALL OF YOU THINK ITS RIGHT THEN YOU HAVE A REALLY BAD THOUGHT
IM SORRY BUT I DONT THINK I AM WORNG
SORRY AGAIN IF YOU THINK I AM BEING UREASONABLE OR RUDE BUT I FEEL VERY STRONGLY TOWARD THIS ISSUE!