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Posted: 18 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: SAMYD

Mine went this way I said how I felt about him after going out with him for a year "I love u" in return I got

I love my neighbour since childhood, u r selfish we'll never get along

Immediately after that we can continue being good friends the same way we r right now ie going out

I said "I a m sorry (may be I hurt him unknowingly in that full year) but couldn't say "I need u" eventhough I really did love him n needed him to be there for me but how could I after hearing all that.

Forgave him even after all this no grudge just wish happiness for him n her atleast he got the one he loved.

That is so sad...Im sry to hear that...But the ones who sacrifice their love for their loves happiness r never disappointed cus sooner or later they too find great love showered on them..

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Posted: 18 years ago
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so true, its really hard to say I love you, Sorry and I need you. We should say it when we really mean it, to some it really means something while to others they don't understand its meaning.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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That is so sad...Im sry to hear that...But the ones who sacrifice their love for their loves happiness r never disappointed cus sooner or later they too find great love showered on them..

to rajeev4aamna
Frankly I didn't have a choice he loved someone else she was free (separated from her guy)he had the perfect chance all this his mom told me (yes yes she loved me a lot) she gave me the wakening call "My son worships the ground ... walks on since childhood nothing or nobody can change that u r not at fault infact u were hurt due to his selfishness think after marriage n kids with u if this girl would have come back in his life what would've happened then" anyone guessing "Yes" u r thinking correct 👏 100 points

That day I decided if he loves her so much n she's sep. from her ex at the exact time I said ... this is God's will so be it I accept my fate its better that 2 people be happy n 1 sad than the other way around isn't it ???

But the saddest part is I had to watch them together for 3 years yes he brought her to my college to show me I saw them together everywhere till I decided to come to Israel after completing graduation
I had a very difficult time emotionally lost around 10 kgs
Yet I think I was strong enough to let go cause always loved him n liked that girl too yes I spoke with her he never told her anything about me n was always scared I might say something about us n dating. I never said a word. I was happy that atleast he found his happiness God gave him is 1st Love it didn't matter how I felt or what happened to me. All this really made me stronger in life to face difficulties.
Also I thank God that HE chose me to feel love cause not everyone experiences love even though for a short time. In true love u set a person free not cage him.
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Posted: 18 years ago
#14
I love you 😳
Am sorry 😳
I miss/need you 😳
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Posted: 18 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: tara

I love you 😳
Am sorry 😳
I miss/need you 😳

The same words how wonderful 😛

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Posted: 18 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: SAMYD

The same words how wonderful 😛


agreed😛
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Posted: 18 years ago
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* I am sorry!

* Your mad, you will realise that one day.. I really meant it when I said that to someone - Your my adorable darling, you will realise that one day (its sort of funny I know..but couldn't say it straight😆)

* I miss you..

Originally posted by: SAMYD

That day I decided if he loves her so much n she's sep. from her ex at the exact time I said ... this is God's will so be it I accept my fate its better that 2 people be happy n 1 sad than the other way around isn't it ???

But the saddest part is I had to watch them together for 3 years yes he brought her to my college to show me I saw them together everywhere till I decided to come to Israel after completing graduation
I had a very difficult time emotionally lost around 10 kgs
Yet I think I was strong enough to let go cause always loved him n liked that girl too yes I spoke with her he never told her anything about me n was always scared I might say something about us n dating. I never said a word. I was happy that atleast he found his happiness God gave him is 1st Love it didn't matter how I felt or what happened to me. All this really made me stronger in life to face difficulties.
Also I thank God that HE chose me to feel love cause not everyone experiences love even though for a short time. In true love u set a person free not cage him.

It's really sad to read this..i'm sorry...but..the way you overcame all this is just..I don't know.. wow?! You have been so strong and your setting an example to lot of us! I am sometimes a fool when I think about it...I had a less serious thing and I am always like why did Gos do this to me.... and your talking about someone who you love..that must have been so hard! Thanks for sharing...its inspiring me to do something that I thought I would never do..Thanks again...

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Posted: 18 years ago
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*dels*
Frankly I never thought that I was strong enough to go through that ordeal that too at such a young age

One never knows his own inner strength till u have to go through a really difficult n heart agonising experience but I did n after the 1st time yr heart breaks believe me u become very strong nothing can break u like the 1st time. After that people go through small jitters but its nothing compared to what u have already gone through. One really becomes stronger n can withstand nearly anything. I believe he must be happy in his own world with her his kid/s (I dont know)

They say Everyone doesn't get everything they want

I believe in Destiny this was supposed to happen it happened I paid a really heavy price so what atleast something good came out of that My Strength to withstand Storms n Hardships in Life. No big deal I lost my love but he got the one he wanted his happiness his joy his first love I am happy for him.His happiness is more imp.to me than mine this I believe is called True Selfless Love isn't it ???
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I only see true love in movies, tv serials, books and between my parents! It feels really good to know that people like you really exists....God is going to give you someone too good...😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
#20
Thanks *dels* That so sweet of u 😛

GOD has been always kind to me n I believe in HIM
HE always takes care of me in a unique way I am surprised at times myself. I am satisfied with what I have in life. Life goes on n doesn't stop if a person leaves u or goes out of yr life its OK I am happy the way my life is till now no regrets 😆

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