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Ranjitha you asked me for a reply. Here is my reply:
When aisa des hai mera ended, there were very few people who regularly posted in the Gaurav fan club... they all knew each other and Gaurav well... this is what Gaurav meant by the snuggly house.
After Gaurav joined lrl, there have been a lot of new people who have joined the fan club... i remember spian (lirh) writing very angrily about the lrl forum because she thought a lot of Gaurav bashing happened here.... i wrote a post explaining to her that she should not take things furhter like this... so did Scorpiongal (shweta). Lirh understood our point and started posting other things....
Then another member joined called Vinnu-Gaurav. I cannot stop him/her from writing what he/she writes. When she wrote a post against Rajeev, a lot of us explained to her that she should not do so.
However, this very post of mine became the cause of a new problem. In this post, i had said that a lot of members of this forum were '10th std kids'.... the post did not use the word 'immature' in it, nor did i say it in fun or put any smiley in it. I said it because kids is a word that i use very frequently, since i am a teacher and that is how i think of children, as 'my kids'... i was trying to tell Vinnu Gaurav, please dont fight... live in peace.... will you fight with people younger to you?
I did not know that people would see this post as insulting... i am horrified that my post should be a cause of fight... or should have hurt people.... here, in this post i apologise to all those who were hurt by this post.... i have sent so many PMs explaining this that now i dont know what to say any more.... in fact, a moderator sent me a PM saying that she did not find my post offensive at all, so she was not going to give me a warning for it. I was happy that someone had realised that it was not an offensive post.
One final thing: Yes once jojo wrote something about Rajeev and we apologised for that. But after that, apart from this one Vinnu Gaurav, no one at the fan club has ever bashed Rajeev ever. We have never made fun of Rajeev or of his fans. Please read the posts there and you will realise that.
Anyway, all i wish to say is that i am not responsible for what Vinnu gaurav writes or does.... i can PM him or her but cannot stop what they post.... i am not online all day. Yesterday one of our members was going to write something very angrily but i stopped her in time by sending a PM but i cannot do this all day.
I'm just horrified that things reached such a point that Gaurav himself had to intervene.... especially since, with two exceptions, we have never bashed Rajeev.
When aisa des hai mera ended, there were very few people who regularly posted in the Gaurav fan club... they all knew each other and Gaurav well... this is what Gaurav meant by the snuggly house.
After Gaurav joined lrl, there have been a lot of new people who have joined the fan club... i remember spian (lirh) writing very angrily about the lrl forum because she thought a lot of Gaurav bashing happened here.... i wrote a post explaining to her that she should not take things furhter like this... so did Scorpiongal (shweta). Lirh understood our point and started posting other things....
Then another member joined called Vinnu-Gaurav. I cannot stop him/her from writing what he/she writes. When she wrote a post against Rajeev, a lot of us explained to her that she should not do so.
However, this very post of mine became the cause of a new problem. In this post, i had said that a lot of members of this forum were '10th std kids'.... the post did not use the word 'immature' in it, nor did i say it in fun or put any smiley in it. I said it because kids is a word that i use very frequently, since i am a teacher and that is how i think of children, as 'my kids'... i was trying to tell Vinnu Gaurav, please dont fight... live in peace.... will you fight with people younger to you?
I did not know that people would see this post as insulting... i am horrified that my post should be a cause of fight... or should have hurt people.... here, in this post i apologise to all those who were hurt by this post.... i have sent so many PMs explaining this that now i dont know what to say any more.... in fact, a moderator sent me a PM saying that she did not find my post offensive at all, so she was not going to give me a warning for it. I was happy that someone had realised that it was not an offensive post.
One final thing: Yes once jojo wrote something about Rajeev and we apologised for that. But after that, apart from this one Vinnu Gaurav, no one at the fan club has ever bashed Rajeev ever. We have never made fun of Rajeev or of his fans. Please read the posts there and you will realise that.
Anyway, all i wish to say is that i am not responsible for what Vinnu gaurav writes or does.... i can PM him or her but cannot stop what they post.... i am not online all day. Yesterday one of our members was going to write something very angrily but i stopped her in time by sending a PM but i cannot do this all day.
I'm just horrified that things reached such a point that Gaurav himself had to intervene.... especially since, with two exceptions, we have never bashed Rajeev.
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