Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*
But I feel the only place where Dutta made a MISTAKE was in not devoting much time/attention to his sisters, but otherwise I feel as a brother whatever he has done for them is at par with what a father would do for his daughters. Dutta has always fulfilled his responsibilities towards his sisters, like a father (providing for them financially, taking care of them and giving them security, getting them married off, etc.).
But what has Roops done for Dutta till now? So I feel by 2-way relationship, Roops should have fulfilled some responsibility of being a sister. I mean, I know she is small and all that, but she is only 3 years younger to Dutta, so when Dutta went through all this, definitely she must have been an adult. And not only that, if Roops was young and needed attention, even Dutta wasnt too old and mature then, so he wasnt able to handle everything together (taking care of 4 women and himself, handling his emotions when Seema cheated him, etc.), still I would say he did a good job of it at such a young age 👏!
And as far as attention goes, it wasnt that they were all alone, the entire family was together, so I dont think Dutta not giving enough time to his sisters is a valid reason for what they did to him. What they did was not even a mistake, it was a sin! Many a times, in today's world too, there are many fathers who are not able to spend much time with their kids (I'm sure we all would have gone through such phases with our dads at some point), but after a certain age (like teenagehood), you can do without it and understand that your dad still loves you. So when all this happened to Dutta, Roops was above 18, so I still dont think Dutta not giving attention to Roops was that big a mistake from his side.