Learned to say Goodbye-If need be! - Page 3

tune rula diya......😭..........SHILPI.................AWWWWWWWWW NOOOOOOOOOOO we r not losing our hope.............isKA last dekhke hum chodenge...............soch hum sab kitne sare log sirf ek hi preyer kar rahe hai.............dnt u think ke prayer mein itni to takat hai na...............banglai bole na"bishashe milai bostu tarkr bohu door"😊and i am not losing my faith in god..............we loveed MR soooooooooo much yaar...............tujhe nahi lagta pyar mein itni to takat hai................agarwo bhi apne fans se pyar karta hai...............he will stay bak...........and our friendship will always live...............its the frndship of a life tym.............all the forum members...............LOVE U ALL......❤️.........AND DNT LOSE HOPE...........WE WILL TRY TILL THE END...........AND DNT FORGET ABHI TAK PH ,or DIRECTOR,ya phir MR himselfdin say IT PUBLICLY...........EVERY article ends with they remained unavailable for comment......😳

How can i ever thank you, Shilpi? I needed this post. I'd numbed myself, and was trying to get detached so that it wouldn't actually hurt when it happened. I've had this a lot, i get attached to people, places, things, and eventually they leave or i get hurt and learn to live without it. And inspite of the brave front i've been putting up, i am sad and scared. I won't ever be bitter about this, but i'm sad alright. And yet, i'm smiling while i type this out.

If there's one thing both Dutta and me have been learning over the past year, it's that love is daring to risk it all. It is not the times that you have run away when you were cheated, but the times you wanted to fight it out that count. When you realize that you love it enough to risk it all, and you're okay with facing the hurt. Even though you know it's gonna hurt real bad. Dutta's learning it by loving Naku. So am i, in my own way.

My interest will wane, if he leaves but i think i'll stop moping. And just go with the flow. Worry's proved an unlucrative business. I'll try concentrating on getting what i want instead. We all should!

Originally posted by: lizdarcy

How can i ever thank you, Shilpi? I needed this post. I'd numbed myself, and was trying to get detached so that it wouldn't actually hurt when it happened. I've had this a lot, i get attached to people, places, things, and eventually they leave or i get hurt and learn to live without it. And inspite of the brave front i've been putting up, i am sad and scared. I won't ever be bitter about this, but i'm sad alright. And yet, i'm smiling while i type this out.

If there's one thing both Dutta and me have been learning over the past year, it's that love is daring to risk it all. It is not the times that you have run away when you were cheated, but the times you wanted to fight it out that count. When you realize that you love it enough to risk it all, and you're okay with facing the hurt. Even though you know it's gonna hurt real bad. Dutta's learning it by loving Naku. So am i.

My interest will wane, if he leaves but i think i'll stop moping. And just go with the flow. Worry's proved an unlucrative business. I'll try concentrating on getting what i want instead. We all should!

I agree lizz....even if MR leaves...we should all be happy that the show brought us together....i love this forum and will always stick by it 4ever.

Thanks Shilpi for the post...if our efforts to retain MR in LTL doesnt succeed we all know we have a month or a little more to go. Atleast we have got a prior warning instead of this shocker coming as a bolt from the blue. But unfortunately the news has badly effected this buzzing forum. I too think we must again get the forum back to its old self rather than withdrawing into a shell as we have(Dutta style...LOL!)

Hi Shilpita

Thanks for writing this post. I am on this forum actively since Aug-Sep, just landed here accidentally :). I tried to keep myself away from this place but couldn't do it. Everyday it's full of wonderful words, food for thought from various writers, you mentioned most of them in your post. I am 99.99% a silent reader who comes here to learn from you analysis and see if it matches with what I had in my mind.

The interesting live episode update as if everyone's sitting in a hall and watching the serial through a peeping hole :) I wait till mid night to read Anu's version of the episode because it will end my day laughing over the words and thoughts she put it in. I am 0% TV person but LTL has something in it that touches those who can see it and feel it despite its lacking at times. I learned that I can write without being Jodi Picoult. Adi, Liz, DD, Kavita, Anu, you, Tin I got inspired to write my heart out. So, you guys helped me in breaking the shackles I've been wearing for ages.

Even this post, I never thought that I will write on forum but I have to acknowledge what I got from the show and from this forum. I don't mind LTL ending because we in ourselves will still exist to pave our ways in a better direction than yesterday. I know someday I will laugh really hard over the Dutta exit situation, believe me everyone will get over with it and we will remember the lessons of heart and mind we've learned.

Not everything is here to stay forever but the memories that will cherish us life long. With this I'll end my note and thank you all for creating a special space in my life. And I will continue to read your posts unconditionally.

Regards,
Nosh
(I am somebody. I am me. I like being me. And I need nobody to make me somebody.)

Haye Shilpita ......I'm feeling proud to have been a part here even though for a very short time🤗

OH god Shiplpi !

Hey Shilp u made me cry .....................

hey shilpita call me gulabbo or anything but these days my face doesnt turn red due to blushing but coz of crying ... i am so very depressed and sad that i cant even tell u ...this wait is torturing me day in day out ...i dont know i will survive this ... agree with u this forum has been wonderful to me as well ...did so many fun things here and made some amazing friends all after knowing mishal would be part of the show but now with this terrible news i guess will go back to my shell and become a silent reader once again.

Originally posted by: stranger2rose

hey shilpita call me gulabbo or anything but these days my face doesnt turn red due to blushing but coz of crying ... i am so very depressed and sad that i cant even tell u ...this wait is torturing me day in day out ...i dont know i will survive this ... agree with u this forum has been wonderful to me as well ...did so many fun things here and made some amazing friends all after knowing mishal would be part of the show but now with this terrible news i guess will go back to my shell and become a silent reader once again.