N' way to D's heart and soul 1morsel of food

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"The Way to a Man's Heart is Through His Stomach" may be one of those old adages often used to deride a man/woman's inability to resist their partner by partaking food that would have been lovingly prepared and served by either. This trivial concept was turned around beautifully to show Nakusha reaching out to Dutta's heart through his stomach and is symbolical as it showed a repentant Dutta asking the person he loves most to help satiate his material hunger, but more importantly, acknowleging without words that Nakusha as the only person who touches the deepest recesses of his soul. That has been rarely attempted on celluloid so beautifully and I would say Hats off to CV's who went further by the liberal use of symbolical scenes that will be remembered for a long time.

I will start with that reviled slap which caused so much distress and anger among LTL fans as witnessed on the forum yesterday. No-one condoned that act which may have been necessary to move the story forward but it gave Dutta a silent opportunity to tell Nakusha and the world that however fraught, his personal relationships may appear, he will protect his wife by preventing any unconscious/irresponsible act that would bring remorse to her later. He is vindicated soon after when Nakusha in a resolute show of dignified subservience asserts the same and tells Dutta about her happiness for his unconventional, yet clear acceptance (almost branding) of her being as the wife that he loves, in front of the society and family members. Had CV's not redeemed themselves today by showing that repentant and loving/caring side of Dutta, this whole scene could easily have been taken as an archaic subjugation of a wife in public but Nakusha chose to send a subtle but clear message/warning to all present, business associates and family members, not to mess with or underestimate her husband's authority and, at the same time, affirm her status in Dutta's life and Patil Niwas.

I am not going to dwell for too long on the Nakusha/Kala confrontation when our little tigress, severely, remonstrates Kala for underestimating her ability and judgement of the once destitute girl from the slums in seeing through the smokescreen and go straight back to the kitchen scene. I spoke of symbolism with Nakusha feeding Dutta. That one morsel of rice is manna from the heavens for Dutta and he says it loud and clear. What more could she possibly ask for after that? She knows that this guy slumped on the floor at the same level as her without his usual regal air , loves her beyond redemption when he tells her that you are the only one able to satiate my hunger. Food here assumes the healing factor that Dutta in his "lucid/drunkenness" invites his soulmate to apply as balm to his bleeding heart and soul.

Our Gadha who is now famed for coming to his senses when drunk, has hurt himself as punishment for slapping Nakusha. It is said that one can only wash one's sin by voluntarily letting bad blood flow from one's body and allow regeneration. Dutta, feeling totally guilty for hurting and causing harm to Nakusha is possibly attempting the same process to cleanse his soul. The other highlight was the one in their bedroom when Nakusha cleans the wound on Dutta's hand. It may sound funny that she found all that she needed in that first-aid box except for the actual dressing so a piece of the pallu is ripped off to that intent. Nothing so special here one could say, but it is a gentle reminder for both husband and wife for the number of times that Nakusha has been instrumental in healing Dutta. This third phase of healing post FR is the most crucial and Nakusha by using a piece of her saree (representing the dignity and honour that Dutta has conferred upon her) is probably trying to tell Dutta that she is his for keeps, come rain or gale. We will wait until tomorrow to see if Dutta will rise to the challenge.

And now for the last scene where Kala is seen chopping the apple in two halves whilst alluding to Adam and Eve, it could be interpreted as yet another evil milestone that she will cross soon. The apple in the story of the mythical ancestors of man and woman became a symbol for knowledge, immortality, temptation, the fall of man into sin, and sin itself. Kala here becomes the serpent who is dragging into her sin, her sister and brother-in-law. The most disturbing part symbolical of Kala's totally evil side is this clear encroachment of the minds of two members of her family (one being her own little sister) that she ought to protect but is pushing down the alley of no return for her sadistic intents .

For us to continue being charmed by LTL, it should remain a fairy tale but CV's have today made a brave attempt by incorporating the symbolism element in its narration which I guess would take it further in the moral minefield as Dutta starts his uphill battle to redeem himself along with Nakusha as the shield to guide him through this long journey. Hats off to CV's who will hopefully not falter again as it hurts.

Bravo MR⭐️⭐️⭐️?..Keep it up MV👏👏👏. We love you and will always cherish Dutta and Nakusha, the characters you breathed life into. 😊

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Beautifully written once again, Kavita👏

I just finished watching the epi myself and am wondering if i need another viewing to truly get a sense of all the symbolism....lol.....But love how you explained the symbolism in the Kala scene....I toh was actually too busy laughing at the way she was throwing the knife and cutting the apple and all so I guess I didn't realize all this😆

I found Nakku's declarations of "haq" and "aapne mujhe sabke saamne apnaya, mujhe achha laga" sorta loopy....didn't really make much sense to me.....and I think I'm the only one who feels this....lol...but anyways....to me, those were the only slightly uncomfortable and odd moments to watch in what were otherwise great scenes....but I guess I can see what you're trying to say about her trying to uphold his authority in front of all the guests....still don't understand her "aapne mujhe sabke saamen apnaya" line though...that is deffo loopy Nakku to me....lol

The kitchen scene was beautiful though.....LOL so very true about Dutta's drunken lucidness...what an interesting paradox.....he's at some of his lucid best when he's drunk....lol....anyways there was this serenity to the way that scene unfolded....Nakku being SO touched and the tears in her eyes when he asks her for the food.....really liked MV's acting there.....and then I loved the line about him saying that 'ajeeb baat hai....tere haathon se khaata hoon, tabhi pet bharta hai" that was the most touching moment of the entire epi to me.

And yes, Nakku is once again putting a balm on his wounds (physically and metaphorically)....I found it interesting how they were once again coming full circle about an incident from the jungle scenes....like the one where she ripped a piece of her dupatta and bandaged his wound and this time it's her sari.....two days ago also they tied in with the old jungle scenes with the way he gave her water in the leaf......I guess this time once again, that piece of cloth will be special towards their story....last time, it served as a sort of talisman that Dutta re-tied on his hand while on his way to rescue her from Anna......I guess this time he will again be haunted by the bandage she has put on his hand......
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@nureat01

I found Nakku's declarations of "haq" and "aapne mujhe sabke saamne apnaya, mujhe achha laga" sorta loopy....didn't really make much sense to me.....and I think I'm the only one who feels this....lol...but anyways....to me, those were the only slightly uncomfortable and odd moments to watch in what were otherwise great scenes....but I guess I can see what you're trying to say about her trying to uphold his authority in front of all the guests....still don't understand her "aapne mujhe sabke saamen apnaya" line though...that is deffo loopy Nakku to me....lol

Hi Anu,

I would associate it with the common acceptance by a large majority of Indian/Asian women to defer to a form of subdued (not necessarily all the time) rough treatment as a measure of the husband's love and sense of possessiveness. A tad bit regressive, i find but LTL apart from its universal theme of love is still deeply rooted in an obscure village reminiscent of many such villages in India where the husband is Parmeshwar (God) and has "rights" per se. And it is also true in many cases that the husband despite the fact that he loves the wife feels the need to "exercise this right" so to say......!
I find it surprising but I have seen it some non-Asian households in UK and that shocked me but to each their own as we say....And the wheels of life keep running.😕

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Kavita, actually I can even chalk up the "haq jataana" line to Nakku being an uneducated, illiterate girl from the slums and given the environment she's grown up in, maybe it's not surprising to see her say and think that.....the line that actually dumbfounds me is the "aapne mujhe sabke saamne APNAYA".....ummm where exactly was this 'APNAOING' happening?? Or did I miss it🤔😆....Her dialogues there were just....odd to me....hmmm

And that is the only bit in my post that you found worth replying to? Amazing😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Anu: Regarding Naku's dialogues, I'm with you. I found it convincing how she was assuring Dutta in the kitchen that she understood his motivations so didn't mind the slap at all. Exactly what I had expected her to say. But somehow the whole spiked drink incident and Naku playing along with Kala, as if she wanted to gauge Dutta's reactions, didn't make much sense to me. It looked like the CVs were desperate to drown Dutta in remorse and couldn't think of a better way.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Once again, a fantastic post, Kavita! 😳
I've been wanting to watch the episode again, so now, laden with your analysis of symbolism in mind, I'm off to rewatch the episode! The Dutta-Naku scenes were truly beautiful and very poignant!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sub_rosa

@Anu: Regarding Naku's dialogues, I'm with you. I found it convincing how she was assuring Dutta in the kitchen that she understood his motivations so didn't mind the slap at all. Exactly what I had expected her to say. But somehow the whole spiked drink incident and Naku playing along with Kala, as if she wanted to gauge Dutta's reactions, didn't make much sense to me. It looked like the CVs were desperate to drown Dutta in remorse and couldn't think of a better way.



Phew! I thought I was the only one....see since morning I've only heard unanimous praise for the epi so I was wondering if these few bits were something that only I found jarring :S

Exactly....what she said to Dutta in the kitchen scene to console him and say that was just his love that he expressed through the slap....that makes sense....but when she went off onto her "Aapne mujhe sabke saamne apnaya, mujhe bahut achha laga" trips, I was just sitting there going...hain?😕😆......And yes I also found the first bit of the epi with Nakku now talking as if she went along with the whole spiked drink incident on purpose didn't quite add up for me either....there are too many loopholes there also....the excuse she gave (just in front of the guests I guess) that she was so happy due to good things happening in her life, that she was dancing in joy over that? Ummmm😆😆.....a lot to swallow....

Anyways yes I guess this episode is supposed to be about Dutta's remorse and they didn't bother trying to make too much sense with the rest.....lol....I guess like you, I too am trying to ignore Nakku's filmypana in this epi and focus on the rest.

The DN scenes were what made the epi nice.....those were some truly touching scenes.....and with some great dialogues and interaction b/w them.....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@nureat01
Kavita, actually I can even chalk up the "haq jataana" line to Nakku being an uneducated, illiterate girl from the slums and given the environment she's grown up in, maybe it's not surprising to see her say and think that.....the line that actually dumbfounds me is the "aapne mujhe sabke saamne APNAYA".....ummm where exactly was this 'APNAOING' happening?? Or did I miss it🤔😆....Her dialogues there were just....odd to me....hmmm

And that is the only bit in my post that you found worth replying to? Amazing😆

Hey Anu,

I am definitely not on a censorship trip...I would not dare after my record of long posts....I have to catch some "beauty sleep". 😆😆😆I will get back to it during the day. Watch the thread. But to that""aapne mujhe sabke saamne APNAYA".....ummm where exactly was this 'APNAOING' happening", I have to confess that Naku does not always make sense. May be she was trying to incite Kala by telling her in an insidious manner that whatever you do, your brother is always going to be possessive about me and that you cant separate us..... Almost asking the world to see that she is Dutta's wife. God knows.
At 4.57 am. I cant blame my brain going a bit fuzzy. 🥱
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Kavita: 5:00 in the morning! Woahh! Either you're up way early or staying up wayyyyyyyy too late....lol

I agree that Nakku doesn't always make sense....especially when she's in loopy "zen-like" mode....lol....but actually she said that line to Dutta....that's why I found it weird....To Kala toh she says all kinds of stuff to shove it in her face that her plan has failed....lol...that's expected....but in the kitchen scene, she said it to Dutta and seemed to really believe it..... and I really found it weird in that moment cuz I don't get where the "apna-oing" is coming from.....

Hmmm maybe I should stop harping over that one dialogue....lol....don't even know why I'm stuck on it so much.....guess I should focus on the good stuff.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I, actually, needed to finish a report after which I needed to unwind with my daily dose of Dutta. I will blame him for the puffy eyes later today and have my shot of Red Bull on my way to work. ...Very bad! Some may call it madness and they will be absolutely right. 😆😆
Luv,
Kavita

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