DEFENDING Dutta-

guys i didnt feel bad with dutta's reaction yesterday..the reasons are as folows---

his love has not yet at its peak...it has just started blossoming..whereas nakku's love has reached a very different level..
while nakku has confessed her love to dutta thrice or four times.but she has confessed her love to HERSELF atleast a twenty times...whereas dutta has confessed his love to HIMSELF just onece!!...so she is determined with her feelings..but dutta is just having bharosa on her and only that bharosa has driven him to propose her...

he is a man who was totally dejected with life with no hopes, reserved, shy and hesitant..for him to propose to a girl in front of so many ppl and also asking for an apology is a great thing!!

well the point is that first of all nakku is still in love with him and never blamed him or held him responsible for torturing her but so there is no point of a MU here...u guys ask dutta get into nakku's shoes and see what nakku went through...but y do u want things to get complicated???

but dutta has just changed his mind..to some extent he is amateurish..i agree...but one thing is that he has been rejected by a girl who had once loved him!!...i mean being loved by some one and then being rejected by the SAME LOVER is very difficult to hadle..it needs to sink in...whereas nakku knew that dutta never loved her or had feelings so its easy for her to take the torture...

where nakku knows about dutta's past so she understands him well..she knows y he is harsh an stuff but dutta doesnt know abt the inner battle nakku is facing.....they both are equally feeling the pain...

another point is that if nakku had to reject him the y did he let her hug her?? y did she let him save her?? y did she let him hug her when she was saved by anna??...at ana's place he said that nakku is his patni so y didnt she stop him there??? she should have...and if she didnt then it was obvious that she wanted to continue with the relationship.....so she let him fall for her thats for sure but and now she just rejected him so he is bound to think that either she is SCARED of him OR she has not forgiven him.....

another thing is that i never felt that he thought she betrayed him....he still believes that she loves him but is just rejecting either because she is scared or because she has not forgiven him....see initially he thinks that she gave him dhoka..but later he remembers nakku's words ......."ye sach hai ki mein aap se pyaar karti hoon...humesha se karti ayi hoon...yeh gunah mein baar baar karegi..." and then he continues to remember the hugs...and he realizes that nakku's love was true..it was not dhoka........he thought that nakku gave him dhoka first because he has faced so many betrayals so its obvious that his mind will think abt betrayal first...but later he remembers nakku's words and i think he still has bharosa on the girl......trust me...

infact he has blamed himself in his speech..he said " kya mein maafi ke layak nahin hoon?? tu ne mujhe khud par shak karne ke liye majboor kiya"....this means , u have rejected me so im doubting on my own capabilities now that do i deserve u? do i deserve the forgiveness???

nakkus decision has hurt him the most.....earlier on betrayals he was sure that at least HE WAS NOT WRONG..it were the women who were wrong who were betrayals so he took up violence to fight bak but this time he feels that he has done the mistake...his conscience is hitting him....and this time he is not blaming nakku he is blaming himself!!!!...

i hope u understood what i tried to say..rest is upto u to decide.

Very well put NAZia .. U have understood Dutta inside out Like me offcourse 😆 ..Life has really been harsh over him time and again he has to go through alot and he may not be aware but there are still factors and ppl around him who are betraying him everyday..sigh.. i dont know how will he react the day he will come to know abt Kalavati's true colors.

keeping everything he suffered in mind and Reading his personality and character attributes his reactions were always justified to me atleast... not everyone is right or perfect in their actions and sometimes ur emotions took over ur thought building process.. and u tend to let it out on most unlikely people and sometimes in very unlikely situations.

so we shouldn't be harsh over him as well .. Let him have his own sweet time .. he has to See through her Soul! otherwise it would be very difficult for him to trust anyone Again.

I feel both are right at their places! both are completely in their characters!!

Lovely post nazia!
keep it up

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I feel the same way as you. She had given him so many reasons for him to believe in her love and his own that he worked up the courage to propose to her. And then she left him standing there not knowing what just hit him.😭

I loved that he apologized before proposing knowing that Naku never held anything against him. She kept telling herself that Dutta will have to accept her one day and when the time came she gets cold feet because of her false dark skin. 🤔 Obviously, Dutta doesn't know about this and now he is questioning himself.

I hope she can make him understand why she did that on Monday. I don't want this whole thing to continue for too long.

very well written post nazia

Originally posted by: SAraW

Very well put NAZia .. U have understood Dutta inside out Like me offcourse 😆 ..Life has really been harsh over him time and again he has to go through alot and he may not be aware but there are still factors and ppl around him who are betraying him everyday..sigh.. i dont know how will he react the day he will come to know abt Kalavati's true colors.

keeping everything he suffered in mind and Reading his personality and character attributes his reactions were always justified to me atleast... not everyone is right or perfect in their actions and sometimes ur emotions took over ur thought building process.. and u tend to let it out on most unlikely people and sometimes in very unlikely situations.

so we shouldn't be harsh over him as well .. Let him have his own sweet time .. he has to See through her Soul! otherwise it would be very difficult for him to trust anyone Again.

I feel both are right at their places! both are completely in their characters!!

Lovely post nazia!
keep it up

😊

hey sara....
sara he has faced a lot of difficulties so much so that he doesnt have time to understand nakku ...but now that he has become calm he wil start trying t understand her..he will think in fidd ways...will realize that it is not only him who has probs but also others.... 😕

i think he will again go wild and broken when he comes to know abt kala''s truth..but nakku will be there to support him.
what u said about the actions and emotions is very right..usually u feel something but ur actions exhibit something else...he has been suffered a lot in life and NOW even after knowing that nakku has refused him he has not behaved violently..like how he did before.. (broke everything,, the furniture, the glasses n stuff) he was quite calm this time and is giving things a thought.....noy jumping to conclusions...
he already knows that he has misunderstood nakku but this time he has faith in her.. 😊 his actions were well justified by the CV's
thanx sara 😊

Originally posted by: Rose_Petal

I feel the same way as you. She had given him so many reasons for him to believe in her love and his own that he worked up the courage to propose to her. And then she left him standing there not knowing what just hit him.😭

I loved that he apologized before proposing knowing that Naku never held anything against him. She kept telling herself that Dutta will have to accept her one day and when the time came she gets cold feet because of her false dark skin.🤔 Obviously, Dutta doesn't know about this and now he is questioning himself.

I hope she can make him understand why she did that on Monday. I don't want this whole thing to continue for too long.

hey rose.. 😃
dutta has always had n ego problem 😕 .we know that he was very confident in whatever he did ..but here he apologized and also proposed to her..how many of us had thaout that he would ever propose?? maybe just a couple of us... but he did confess that he needs her and wants to marry her..he said things that were more than just saying "I Love You".
the proposal was perfect and dreamy..i never came across a better method of proposing than this very one!! 👏 hats of to anil..great dialogs 😊
hey even i want the MU to end real soon!! so lets hope for the best! 😛 😉