DOTW: Fool me once, shame on you;fool me twice..? - Page 2

Originally posted by: ccolaco

Very nice post Eva.

And yes i thnk love could be selfless..maybe not as much as Naku but yes..it can be selfless...i have seen it (was part of it) but realized it after cing Tasha' love. And thats y i love this LS and serial a lot. its no more jst story for me but a real life thng.

Maybe thats y Naku was never wrong for me. Watever she has done and is doing is out of pure blind selfless true love. Watever her heart tells she does..she never listens to her parents or her alter ego...jst her small heart inside. it maybe sups thng or her beauty...she never calls purohit or goes and sits wit frnds. She does discuss wit her mom but then atlast she takes her call. if she feels thngs r now out of control she leaves it to Bappa

In love a person ignores the whole concept of betrayal and luks at the happiness of our only love. it maybe betrayal frm viewers point of view but atleast our love will be happy.

i have lots ?going in mind but cant put forward..anywaz for me love will always stay selfless....

You know what, I have never thought of that before. You are right, she actually always does pretty much what she wants and what her heart tells her. True, she alwayshas faith in God and is sure everything will be just fine if she leaves it up to Him,but she seldomly seems to get unsecure. Love that, make her even more stronger.

No, Naku isn't "wrong" per se. Some of the things she has done in love look stupid for an outsider, but most of us must have done some stupid things in love too.

Originally posted by: thornewood9

Eva! *Aisha Throws Pepsi*

Nice DOTW!

Okay.... so is Love Selfless?

Well.

*Aisha Ponders*

The thing is you said you got her the balloon because it was breaking your heart to see her upset right? But that wasn't your first thought and neither was it a conscious thought. You saw her upset and you wanted to make it better for HER not for yourself. She got happy and in turn you too got happy. You getting happy was a consequence of her getting happy first!

*Aisha Re-Reads What She Typed*

Uh. Does this make sense?

I don't think Love is Selfish. Love is always about the other person, never about yourself. It's true that their happiness makes you happy but you don't do things for them so that YOU can be happy. You being happy is a consequence!

Is anyone understanding me?

Aisha xxx😉

Yes, I understand you 😃Your words make very much sense 😊

You/ I don't think about me when doing (or not doing) something and the good feeling I get in return is ... well, collateral damage 😃 (in a good way).

Thanks for the Pepsi! 😊

Wanted to reply Eva...ur question was very subtle and complicated. Can love be truly selfless? I dont know. But I feel in Naku's case it is selfless. Because whatever she did for Dutta's happiness was actually breaking her heart. Earlier it broke her heart as Dutta marrying Supriya means he being out of her reach forever and she living day in and day out watching him with another woman. Even now what she is doing that is hiding her secret and rejecting him thinking this is for his good is breaking her heart. Being Dutta wife in the truest sense even for a single day is all she ever wanted and she gave it all up to thinking she will save him from mistrusting people again. But yes she didnt realize in doing so she hurt him perhaps as much as her betryal hurt him.