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Posted: 15 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: meghaparti



thanks for agreeing naaz..Yeah I would love to see him acting a teenager to woee Nakku n Nakku ignoring him n his gestures would be fun to watch 😆Hope so the article thing comes true in the form of super lakshmi😆 kaash Kala ka saach bhi bahar aa jaye taaki hum romance enjoy kar sake bina kal ki interference ke😆




ya megha....now dutta will have to look for bahanas to cherify and romance with nakku..pehle hi he is a sehma sehma sharmeela lad...so it will be great to see him making excuses to get closer to nakku 😆 😆 😆
i wonder when dutta will investigate abt the person helping sups after nakku gets a clean chit....i hope kala meets with an accident and is fully paralyzed..where she can listen see and understand everything but cannot do anything to stop them!!!! 🤣 🤣 🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nik_ita



i mean i'll keep my mind cool.........actually after the almost 4 days wait when we got to see kala's torcher on our Dutta.......i was all fuming.......😆😆........thts y the thought of the tight hug seemed to cool me down.........😆😆😆
n yea he may call "sasu bai, mein aapki beti ko kuch nahin hone dunga, chahe kuch bhi ho jaaye"........he has called her "Sasubai" once before (although tht was a taunt 😉, doesn't matter)

yes he considers them equal........he said to kishore that take AS and Maushi inside.....tht was soo sweet of him.........(for once he knew tht only kishore can empathize with them but not not kala)




ya mein bhi kaafi pissed off thi to see kala doing that...lekin gave it a thought and concluded that this was necessary..before she gets a clean chit 😆
i agree with u here..to some extent he knows that sudarshan cant do such a thing..and he blvs kishore..
ek doubt hai..he thinks kishore is a nice fellow..and whomever he blvs betrays him..aur jis par shak karta hai..they prove to be truthful!!..so i hope kishore is a nice guy!! 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nazia.icycool




ya megha....now dutta will have to look for bahanas to cherify and romance with nakku..pehle hi he is a sehma sehma sharmeela lad...so it will be great to see him making excuses to get closer to nakku 😆 😆 😆
i wonder when dutta will investigate abt the person helping sups after nakku gets a clean chit....i hope kala meets with an accident and is fully paralyzed..where she can listen see and understand everything but cannot do anything to stop them!!!! 🤣 🤣 🤣



Gud idea even i would love to see her paralaysed n kishore telling dekha kala tum agar bhala aur bura samjhti to tum I ss halat mein aaj nahi hoti😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: nazia.icycool

Hi guys..hope u all are doing good! 😆

well i personally missed nakku today..i wish we could had atleast 1 jhalak..but im glad that in the promo we gotta see her jhalak 😆

well todays epi was not bad..dutta fury was very much evident at the start..he was feeling extremely angry an the thought that his love has been kidnapped..bechara nakku ko yaad karta hai..how they parted and how he just laid on the road helpless...he hated the sights but still this aroused his anger even more (acha hi hai...the more angry he gets the more possessive he will be abt nakku 😉 )...yup so he first remembered nakku's sight...and then we had AS asking him.."dutta,nakku kahan hai??"...and dutta couldnt face AS at this moment..he felt so embarrassed to answer her that he HAD to turn his face...( 😭 bechra..kya muh se jawab dega?)....

and later we had him recollecting the sight where anna's man caught nakku and took along with them..and and also also gave dutta the gun asking him to get up and fight bak.... this was when HIS sentiments were really hurt...his ego was hurt..he felt really guilty that he couldnt save nakku....se here one thing is clear..for dutta 'love' is first and then is his 'ego' cause it was nakku and the bicharna that he first remembered and then was the sight of anna throwing the gun..😃


guys we had kala showing the pics to dutta..she tried to hit him wher it would hurt him the most..😕 i pity the woman ... 😆 she took up so much trouble to contact supriya to ask her to send her shadi pics along with the letter... 😆 so this was kala's plan huh??.."bhao aisa kya hua jungle mein??'' as if dutta would say.."tai jangal mein mangal hogaya'' 😆 ...hhmm neway..but guys do u really think dutta she was successful in stopping dutta??...i mean 1 thing i knw is that definitely dutta;s sentiments WERE hurt seeing those pics...obviously!!...seeing the person who betrayed u,happy with the new hubby would obviously hurt dutta..moreover the dialog of "khush khabri" was so so pathetic!!..she hit dutta at the ryt place..how well she knows that dutta would get hurt at the word "khush khabri??.. 😭 ..(i feel sorry for dutta)...

but my question here is ...did she really hurt dutta??....well i think only his ego was hurt!!....frankly speaking..from my POV it was his self esteem that was hurt..but deep down in his heart he knows how much he loves nakku......guys we all know how much he has fought with his own innerself to come to a conclusion that nakku is innocent and that he loves nakku....he also knows that supriya was NOT his love!! we also saw him stamping the pix...im sure that all this naatsk will not stop dutta...after all his real love is nakku not supriya!..
i think dutta should give it a thought and should think that now that supriya is out with her hubby y is she still writing letters and sending them to dutta??


i think kala made a very big mistake here...she said that sups wrote in the letter "nakku tu abhoi bhi us JALLAD ke peeche hai?..abh bhi waqt hai..chod de use aur kisi ache dil wale se shadi karke ghar basa"......will this not prove to dutta that nakku loves him all the more???...that nakku loves him though ppl think he is a jallad??...nakku loves him though she can find a dil wala???i think dutta should give this a thought....ki Y nakku loves him so much tho ppl call him a rock hearted guy and he will get an answer to his question...

guys i dunno y he dropped his gun...dutta haar manne walon mein se nahin..and i dont think antone can move him and make him change his mind..maybe he dropped his gum to take ashirwad from babi???when dutta commits to something he gives in his 500 %..and after that no one can influence him with their words...he loves nakku and he will love her..he is determined with his love..so i dont think kala ka teer dutta ke dil par laga...it was only his ego hurt..not his heart coz sups ws never his love!!..and he knws that!... 😉



Excellent topic, Nazia.

A couple of things from my perspective:

#1. I assumed Naku was the main reason for his hurt and rage, per the promo. However, from the scenes today, it was evident that Dutta was perhaps even more upset about the insult (flashback of Anna teasing Dutta with his hand) to him. Yes, he was upset over Naku, but it seemed to me he was overall more upset by the insult of it all. And yes, he was embarrassed and could not answer AS, and that goes hand in hand with his ego hit vs. grief over Naku.

#2. I don't think she will be successful in stopping Dutta, as a recent article had said. Dutta will face Anna alone and not come back to PN without Naku.

#3. Kala is such a nasty, nasty little creature. She is so wrapped up in her little games, and making sure her power is undisputed...that she is lord of Dutta Bhao. I don't get this obsession of hers over her brother and maintaining control. Yes, it benefits her financially, but I think it's more than that. She is one of those people that needs to dominate, to be obeyed, to play with the lives of others. She had once again no guilt over hurting Dutta today. In an earlier post, I mentioned how Kishore is neutered and he absolutely is. At the end of the day, it comes down to your actions or inactions, not speeches about bunnies. I am SHOCKED he does not HATE 😡 😡 🤬 his wife, after all that he's seen. For a man with such a clear sense of right and wrong, I would have expected more. Absolutely neutered....psychologically anyway, that is Kishore.

#4. I think Dutta is still having a hard time keeping his ego in check. What I saw today seemed to be him fighting his instincts to rage against Supriya, Naku, anyone who betrayed him. He was not resolved, but swaying back and forth, hurting.

#5. Kala is an evil genius, but I wish Dutta thinks more about how this letter and pics came to pass, once he returns to PN with Naku. It's absurd that these should be sent to the niwas. And it was always Kala who got her hands on letters and other things that accused Naku. It has to sound suspicious to him on some level, no?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: gp00



Excellent topic, Nazia.

A couple of things from my perspective:

#1. I assumed Naku was the main reason for his hurt and rage, per the promo. However, from the scenes today, it was evident that Dutta was perhaps even more upset about the insult (flashback of Anna teasing Dutta with his hand) to him. Yes, he was upset over Naku, but it seemed to me he was overall more upset by the insult of it all. And yes, he was embarrassed and could not answer AS, and that goes hand in hand with his ego hit vs. grief over Naku.

#2. I don't think she will be successful in stopping Dutta, as a recent article had said. Dutta will face Anna alone and not come back to PN without Naku.

#3. Kala is such a nasty, nasty little creature. She is so wrapped up in her little games, and making sure her power is undisputed...that she is lord of Dutta Bhao. I don't get this obsession of hers over her brother and maintaining control. Yes, it benefits her financially, but I think it's more than that. She is one of those people that needs to dominate, to be obeyed, to play with the lives of others. She had once again no guilt over hurting Dutta today. In an earlier post, I mentioned how Kishore is neutered and he absolutely is. At the end of the day, it comes down to your actions or inactions, not speeches about bunnies. I am SHOCKED he does not HATE 😡 😡 🤬 his wife, after all that he's seen. For a man with such a clear sense of right and wrong, I would have expected more. Absolutely neutered....psychologically anyway, that is Kishore.

#4. I think Dutta is still having a hard time keeping his ego in check. What I saw today seemed to be him fighting his instincts to rage against Supriya, Naku, anyone who betrayed him. He was not resolved, but swaying back and forth, hurting.

#5. Kala is an evil genius, but I wish Dutta thinks more about how this letter and pics came to pass, once he returns to PN with Naku. It's absurd that these should be sent to the niwas. And it was always Kala who got her hands on letters and other things that accused Naku. It has to sound suspicious to him on some level, no?




hey thanx gp!..
loved ur perspective too!.. 😃
hey was he upset with nakku??i doubt it..looked lke he was upset with himself!!...isein nakku ki kya galiti hai?i thought he was upset cause nakku his love was kidnapped..and later came his self esteem of anna kidnapping nakku infront of him ..dutta couldnt help even though he was given the gun by anna
dutta was in so much rage then..i thank BAJI here..he said "anna ne dhoke se hum ko nahse ki dawa pilai aur peeche se waar kiya"...this made dutta cool down a bit as it was not completely dutta's mistake...anna ne peeche se waar kiya..like a coward...


#2--ya she wont be able to stop him..even if we dont follow thw article we knw that she wont be able to stop him ...

#3--i agree gp..actually it is dutta who gives her so much importance and respects her so much he never contradicts her at any point....and thats y kala behaves in such a way..had it been that dutta never allowed her to speak in HIS matters then she wouldnt have been doing this...

i appreciate dutta's nature here..though he knew that whatever kala was speaking was crappy yet he bared with her..listened to her bitter dialogs though it him him hard...he took the gun in his hand and hit himself against the wall..but didnt say a word to kala...didnt even gave her an angry look..didnt stop her...throughout he listened to her patiently..he is such a gentleman..and kala is taking this for granted!!!..yes she is and has always been doing this.....but i really love dutta for this nature!!.. 👏

#4--i agree with u here gp...he still doesnt have a proof to say that nakku is innocent...maybe thats y he couldnt keep his ego in check...i agree he was not resolves.....it was a fight between his heart and brain ya..his heart said that nakku is his love...she is trustworthy and innocent whereas his brain said that nakku helped supriya and he doesnt even have a witness that nakku is innocent..so he was swayed a bit ..but i think its always the heart that wins..not the brain... 😆 hope for the best!

#5--i agree with ur point here gp..... 😉 he should give this a thought..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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oh girl!u have some amazing points here.excellent analysis
i agree dutta is very much in love now and kala cannot change her mind by showing these pix.as you have rightly said supriya was not dutta's i dont think he cares for supriya now.

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