Are we confusing sympathy with love??

Originally posted by: nazia.icycool

hey apra..good that u started this thread..even i love to have discuddions on such matters...

well i think whenever he is TRYING ti do do something,we expect much more from him...
firstly,he was extremely angry with nakku..then after the mandir incident he softened,
later on..we had a bhashan from nakku in the car b4 they fell,and dutta started to change ..we saw the prtective side of dutta..he tried his best to save nakku...he fought with the goons..and he foght in such a way..as if he didnt een want nakku's 1 baal banka..😆

nakku hugged him and he let her hug him...she hugged him for abt 15 secinds..he let her hug him..but when she looked extremely frightened and tightened her grip,dutta realized what she is doing...and some1 HAD to break the hug..nakku was not ready to do it hence dutta did it...still nakku refused to leave him..that was when he slightly pushed her back..asking her to get to her senses..

we have seen the caring side of dutta..i neednt explain it na..we all knw..the water giving act, saving fro goons..giving the jacket ,letting her tie the cloth, the attentive behavior on hearing the noise of the animal and coming to nakku to protect her..

actually we cant say that love HAS happened..this is y we are having this doubt..its is still a budding LS..

u also said abt the 'tu tumhare raste aur mein aone..'....for that i would like to say that nakku was the first 1 to say that 'hume beech koi rishta nahin..aap ka mujh par koi zimmedari nahin'anyway.....i could see the pain in his eyes aar...he couldnt make an eye to eye contact..he lacked confidence unlike always...&...&...it was after he said that he looked into nakku's eyes..to read her....that was really beautiful..if he didnt want to lose her then he wouldnt have stopped baji from leaving..he wants nakku to stay with him..not exactly..but doesnt want to part from her...


ok till now..dutta was quite hesitant in showing his feeling ..he was also feeling awkward on seeing nakku's concern for him..he was very conscious of the fact that he is being cared and loved so much ...but yesterday i saw an immense chan n him....he was so casual..he wasnt hiding that he cared for her..and he was coolly believing the fact that nakku loves him..he did a lot for nakku yest..

yest. dutta was feeling scared..but nakku said that she aint feeling scared..dutta was quite amazed at this..it was as if hewas thinking ki ye ladki hai kya..he insaan hi hai na..coz nakku was ve ry tough yesterday..isiliye dutta asked her 'tujhe bhook to ti hai na'..he is not a person who would easily express his feelings..he hides it to an extent...but he said that bcoz nakku was behaving very practically as if usko jungle mein koi takleef nahin...so i guess dutta thot that ye kudi ko dar nahin lagta..ye aag khud jalati hai..ise koi takleef nahin hai..ise bhook to lagti hogi.....but his tone was not rude or bad..he used to speak to her in the same tone when they were frns..remember..'tujhe mujhse DARR nahin lagta"..tu kis mitti ki bani hai nakku? ..,bohot janti hai na tu pyaar ke bare mein..,and also when nakku had sopped him from drinking..he was like....kyun aaj koi dry day hai kya???ya koi vrath hai?...so thats how he usually speaks...he was himself yest...he was not DSP...he was juz dutta...[/B]

it will take tym for him to talk in a softer way...he will learn that gradually..😃..the change is happening but very gradually..

this is what the CV's are doing..they bring the change so gradually that it is hard for the audience to observe...ki aakhir ho kya raha hai...

i think sympathy went away long back..nakku doesnt need sympathy now..u only sympathize with WEAK and MEEK ppl..not like girls like nakku who are so strong!!😃..actually im also thinking very positively..i dunno what u guys think..lekin i will stick to my thoughts..kyun ki umeed par duniya khayam hai😆

On july 5^th episode

Datta felt loneliness when he enter the room. He felt hollow in his heart. He felt like he is standing in an empty space. Datta thought everything gone out of his hand. Datta roam around in his room couldn't able to tolerate his loneliness. It bring great impact to him.

When nakku return ms and turn back. He felt like he was pierce.

What he did

Datta run back to nakku. It Is Not Sympathy

While driving datta keeps on looking at naaku. It Is Not Sympathy

When they were chased by anna man all he was think only nakku It Is Not Sympathy

Datta was angry at her for not obeying him. That why he taunt nakku after accident.

When nakku surrounded by anna men datta risk his life to save nakku

(He will save any one in the situation but it was quite different)

When datta here a nakku screamed datta was terrified.

When nakku hugged him with the fear datta consoled her the only way he know. Rudely saying her the current situation that we are still in danger.

Nakku is the one who started hurting him by saying there is no relationship between us.

Datta ended it by saying tera raasta alag mera alag.

Originally posted by: SAraW

Very well put nazia ..

to me its not sympathy.. if it is indeed sympathy then what abt those stares their eye locks in jungle whenever nakusha is not looking he is busy observing her ? and how he immediately put his hand back when it accidentally landed on her shoulder??? Why the hell did he has to come to drop naku when baji was doing the honors ???? what abt that HEart to heart conversation and the Moment they shared when their car was abt to fall off the cliff?? when his eyes were speaking VOLUMES! he had been sympathizing with many ppl but with naku he has become more protective then being just sympathizing with her.. Thier conversation last night followed by the precap .. there was Much much much much more to it .. and it cant be called sympathy in anyway... but thats strictly my POV 😊

anyways .. nice topic apra .. 👏

Originally posted by: apra

**Stomach Churning** Actually I feel a jolt in my tummy whenever I see that "tera raasta alag mera alag" wala scene and again I want to getyour thoughts on this.

I understand dutta is avery kind and good human being nakku also said that yesterday "aap bahut acche hain saab", well I am confused is she actually confusing love and sympathy?? Dutta shows concernand make it looks like he is sympathysing and not loving and even in yesterday's episode the way he asked her bhook bhi lagti hai kya I was like "Duttathoda pyaar se pooch leta toh kya bigad jata"

I agree Pyaar toh hai per like nakku says "saab aapko na pyaar jatana nahi aata"

Originally posted by: oddgalout

Honestly - I feel it is Dutta working to protect Naku more then love or sympathize right now. His tough exterior is simply to not lead her on because he knows all too well how much she wants to be with him. He wants her to get away from his house and his world which spells nothing but danger and which he thinks has nothing good to offer her. Slowly he is realizing that she is in for the long run but he isn't budging either. Plus this is Dutta Bhau now - not Dutta the young guy - so his idea of romance is bit hidden and hatke as opposed to back with Seema. Normally the way he asked her would've been rude and even a soft girl like Naku would've walked away from him for asking her like he was doing an upkar on her. But she knows Dutta all to well - that unless he didn't genuinely care he wouldn't have thought what he did and verbalized and asked her out of genuine concern. I don't think it's quite love yet - but it is a sense of concern and real emotional connect.

Originally posted by: nightoffullmoon

Sense of concern and real emotional connect = LOVE.

But we are too busy looking for "Romantic Love". The kind with unpredictable longevity.