DOTW: How will Naku patao Dutta? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Dew-drop

Haila Ksh ,,,wat r u saying .....😲😲
Naku should gift him girls ....awwwwwwwwwwww....!🤣

Originally posted by: Dew-drop

Haila Ksh ,,,wat r u saying .....😲😲
Naku should gift him girls ....awwwwwwwwwwww....!🤣

Originally posted by: Dew-drop

Haila Ksh ,,,wat r u saying .....😲😲
Naku should gift him girls ....awwwwwwwwwwww....!🤣

Originally posted by: thornewood9

RESERVED!😆

Okay I actually read once somewhere that you can make someone fall in love with you😉
It IS possible! So below are how you can do it and basically what Naku should be doing as well!
<h2>1. Hang around lots...but then be unavailable</h2>

The more you interact with someone, the more they'll like you. True fact, girls! Several studies show repeated exposure to practically any stimulus makes
us like it more (the only time it doesn't hold true is if our initial
reaction to it is negative). So forget about being aloof, evasive, and
unavailable in the beginning. Instead, find lots of excuses to spend
time with him.

THEN just when you're
convinced you've won them over and they like you, start being a little
less available. And then even less, until they hardly see you at all.

You've now effectively instigated the 'law of scarcity'. We all know
this one: people want what they can't have and by constantly being
available, you diminish your value. If you could get diamonds whenever you wanted them they wouldn't be precious now would they? The law of scarcity only makes
them want you. Be around and then not around and they'll want and like
you. I'm stating the obvious here, but liking someone is important.

We talk endlessly about chemistry, passion, sexual attraction, and
even more about love, yet the word 'like' rarely gets a mention.
Opposites don't attract long-term; we search for similarities in a
partner. Most of us can't see the point in hanging around friends we
don't like, so why do it with a lover? Liking someone is more important
long-term than actually loving them. It's not just similarities in our
personalities that count.

So what should Naku do with this info?

Well. Naku has already tried Rule No1! And Dutta DID start to Like her and would look for her when she was around him! Of course now he hates her BUT thats just Denial. He likes her still. He married her after all. You know what they say right? In wine is Truth😆 So basically Naku needs to do the same thing again! Be around him 24/7 and then when he's used to her being around she should ignore him and be unavailable😉 He'll be running after her☺️

<h2>2. Don't do nice things for him. Let him do
nice things for you</h2>

Right we all know that when we do something nice for someone, it makes us feel all gooey inside😛 You feel pleased with yourself and warm toward the person you've
just spoiled. To justify the effort or expense, we often over-idealise
how wonderful he is to deserve it! End result: we like the person more.
When someone does something nice for us, we feel pretty damned good. But there are a
whole lot of other emotions that come into play, and they're not all
good.

Sometimes we feel overwhelmed. That's Dutta right there isn't it? There's pressure to live up to being
the wonderful person who inspired such a gift/act, not to mention
pressure to return the favour. It's even trickier if the 'nice thing'
comes from someone you like very much but aren't sure about yet. Got the
point? When we're infatuated with someone, we're desperate to do nice
things for them.

So what should Naku do? Uh well... it's a bit difficult for Naku to follow this Rule right now... Dutta isn't really in a Be-Nice Mood is he?😆 But I think Naku should be nice to him anyways. Be so nice that he gets overwhelmed SO Overwhelmed that he feels guilty and will want to be nice in return😆

<h2>3. Give them the eye</h2>

Another true fact: couples who are
deeply in love look at each other 75 per cent of the time when talking
and are slower to look away when someone else dares to intrude.

That one sentence pretty much screams TaSha doesn't it? When do they NOT look at each other??? And since they've got married Dutta is constantly checking Naku out!

And Naku is ALWAYS looking at Dutta😍 Can't blame her really can we?
*Aisha Fans Herself*

So well... Naku just needs to keep checking Dutta out all the time! See when you look at someone more than 75% of the time in a conversation and you keep eye contact for as long as possible the other person's brain comes to the conclusion that this person loves them. BUT it also releases a hormone in the person who is getting checked out that is only released when you're in love! So the person thinks they must be in love with the person who is constantly checking them out!
I swear to God I am not making this stuff up😃
So the more Naku checks Dutta out the more he'll think "she loves me" and then he'll start thinking "I love her too" YES!!!! *Aisha Parties* And then he can go ahead and start falling for her😳

<h2>4. Don't look away</h2>

Another important fact: The couples
who are in love take longer to look away when someone else joins the conversation.
Again, if you do this to someone who's not in love with you (yet), you
trick his brain into thinking he is, and even more of that hormone floods into his
bloodstream. So Naku just simply has to lock eyes with Dutta and keep him there, even when he has finished talking or someone else joins the
conversation.

This technique may sound incredibly cliched but, believe me,
if done properly it can literally take your breath away. Seriously. I tried it. It TOTALLY worked. Ahem. And I did it with my Fiance. Uh... yeah.

*Aisha Looks Uncomfortable*

Hey my sister told me to do it! Ahem.

Anyways. If you're too
shy to gaze openly then look away
and at the other person who's joined the conversation, but every time
they finish a sentence, let your eyes bounce back to the person you're
interested in. This is a checking gesture - you're checking his reaction
to what the speaker is saying - and lets him know you're more
interested in him than the other person.

And actually Naku does this already! Remember that TeddyBear-Baji-Dutta-Naku Scene? She was doing it when Baji was teasing Dutta! Watch that Scene again I swear that is what she was doing!

*Aisha Re-Reads Post* Uh... is this answering the question Ksh?😆 I will update when I have other ideas😆

Here's another one:

<font size="3">5. Tell Him You Love Him As Often As You Can</font>

Naku has no problem with this😆 I hope she keeps telling him how she feels about him because it will wear him down eventually and he WILL melt! Who wouldn't melt if someone kept telling you they love you? Hearing that someone loves you can make anyone feel all warm and gooey inside😃

Aisha xxx😉

Originally posted by: kshreya2002

@Aisha: Such an amazing post. Seems like an expert opinion born out of lots of research, experience and practice. 😉
I expected lots of responses but definitely not a psycological analysis. And needless to say I agree with u...esp point #1. And yes TaSha do point #3 all the time. Naku already knows how to handle him...how to perk up his interest...pretty obvious from point #4. and yeah she is already started doing point #5.
Btw I hope the CVs read ur post and implement these ideas.

Originally posted by: Dew-drop

Aisha ,,luks like u hav a lot of experience ..did u patao ur fiance like this .. 😉

Originally posted by: SanRajDeewani

Brilliant Discussion Topic Shreya.. 👍🏼

I'm no expert at this so no laughing please..😆

1. The first thing that is mostly important when trying to get the guys/male attention is eye contact.. =) Naku already looks into Dutta's eyes and says what she feels so she should continue, stolen glances when she knows he is aware and holding the gaze a little longer when he looks up and their eyes mets and simply smiling breaking the eye contact..!!

2. Being Bold but not assertive.. like the scene with TaSha and Naku saying she loves him.. more conversations like that showing him that she isn't scared to back down just cos he is Dutta.. 😆 Hum Bhi Kise Se Kaam Nahin Attitude..

3. Smiling at him whenever he frowns.. One thing that gets to Dutta already is the fact that Naku (is so-calledly) being too good and not showing her real decietful face so to smile whenever he throws abuse at her to smile or laugh gently.. meetha dard for Naku.. 😉

4. Pretend to be scared from a spider or cochroach and hug him tightly.. 😆 😉 He is here pati.. Thats the least she can do.. 😆

Love this idea...always works!

5. Stay away from him rather than hovering him.. When Naku saw Dutta's arm she rushed to clean it..!! Bad..!! (yes we all loved seeing it BUT.. instead she should if ever again this happens) tell Dutta he has hurt his arm.. and if he starts on her.. all she has to do is leave the first aid box near him and tell him to clean his arm as it takes ages for blood stains to get cleans from garments and leave the room.. Dutta won't know what hit him.. 😉

Yeah...I agree...sometimes she needs to leave him alone esp when he acts like an overgrown kid.

6. For Naku to shower early and be drying her hair when Dutta gets up.. (i am even laughing writing this LOL..) but him seeing her drying her hair will get him angry and i'm sure he would ask her WTH.. She just ignores him till he comes close and then throws her wet hair in his face..!! LMAO..!! LOL..

She can prolly dry her hair while he is sleeping and wake him up with all the water droplets. 😍

7. She needs to win over Baiji first..!! That is the key to the lock on Dutta's heart.. If Baiji becomes friends with Naku.. then Naku can talk and laugh with Baiji, this will make Dutta possessive as we already know he is about Naku but this way he will try his best to keep Naku close..

Yep...I can picture that...Baji making Naku laugh and Dutta getting all fired up because of that. I hope the CVs show this. Btw on a side note I miss Baji's shaiyari and jokes.

Thats all the wacky stuff i can think of.. =) If i think of any more i will post down thread.. :D