Sindoor &mangalsutre why? - Page 2

Originally posted by: akhl

Sorry, this is slightly off topic, but this is related to sindoor. Do you think married men should put sindoor? I am asking because I personally know one lady.
Her favourite topic is to praise women and blast men. 😭She got married some months back. In the family in which she is married, it is a must for all married women to put sindoor. But this lady refuses to do that. Her argument is that sindoor signifies that a woman is devoted to her husband and she wishes long life for him. If so, then why should men not be devoted to their wives and why should men not wish long lives for their wives? If married women should put sindoor, then according to this lady, married men should also put sindoor. She is adamant that she will put sindoor in her maang only if her husband also puts sindoor in his maang.
What do you all think about this?

Totally agree with akhl (sorry forgot ur name)😆 I dont want to go into any religious matter, but according to my personal OPINION, i seriously cannot find any reason for a woman to wear sindoor and MS if she dont want to....if the men dont have to, then why the woman???😕

lov the topic.....we have a pretty intersting topic gong on here....lol

well I never wear mangalsutra or sindoor and my husband has no issues with that, his family did initially but I guess they r also ok now...

its obvious either the man agrees to wear sindoor, or the woman doesnt wear it...
if in marragie both the husband and wife are to be commited to on another... then there should be traditions and rituals for both husband and wife... otherwise there is no need for traditons and rituls. is simple
she is not the only one who is responsible for their marriage, the husband is infact more responsible... because he is taking care of her... she doesnt need to prove that she is going to serve him, cuz she doesnt have other choice, she left her house to be with him that proves it all... its the husband, he should be able to prove that he WILL commit only to her and respect her and take care of her.

everything is really confusing.. and u never knoe wht can happen itz ekta'z drama'z yo 😆
love
kiran<3