I PMed her and she din't mean that......she actually goes a bit overboard protecting Ansh ...but she was just trying to say something else and it came out as if she is justifying it....
Her actual meaning was that in real life ...guys are downright possessive even for their GFs....so Ansh's possessiveness for Nandini was a leaf from real life and this is how guys end up behaving when they see their wife with ex-BF......
She'll edit it I guess...