getting married in that age :) - Page 3

Originally posted by: SAMAR KAPOOR

sorry to say but don't know why everyone thik that love and marriage are only for Young people. If old people have children, it doesn't mean that they don't have desires. You mean old people have no right to love someone. Their world is finished after giving birth to their children and they have no right to be happy after that. But sorry to say it's disgusting. And in NK case i don't think they are doing anything wrong. They are not marrying to someone 10 or 12 years younger their age like Mr . Bajaj of Kasauti. They are marrying the persons who they love the most in their life and spent 20 years of their life without them. I am sorry i didn't wnted to say all this, but i think the problem here is not that they are having marraige a this age. The proble is with the persons who are doing it that is karan n nandini. Mhir and Tulsi married thrice in the serial . Once in the begining, then after the first leap and then after the second leap too. But noone raised an objection. But because KN are doing it, they are giving birth to a disaster. They don't have any right to be happy. They just have to sacrifice sometime for their parents and guardians, sometime for their friends and sometime for their children. And if they do something for themselves, they are selfish and idiot. Sorry to say , but i think people are using this topic just to oppose KN. And if u think that marriages and love are only for young people, then i am sorry, that's a cheap thinking.

Originally posted by: Ansh/Eku_lover

it doesn't matter where do you live as you said you are not from india and how people married like 40 or 45 thats why i replied to you not only in india in pakistan too people have married at age of 40 or 45.

😆 but im not from pakistan im from afghanstian we dont do things like that like if u pass 35 we think it is very sick to marry.. it has to be 20-29 thats it 😉

Originally posted by: Ansh/Eku_lover

😆 but im not from pakistan im from afghanstian we dont do things like that like if u pass 35 we think it is very sick to marry.. it has to be 20-29 thats it 😉

aww bless ya hun! guys wahida's just expressing her point of view - there's no need to jump on her - sum ppl are just comfortable with certain ideas. its all social construction - and our age and experience can also affect it. ive always said that u can find love at any time but even then until recently i used to think getting married before ur 18 was just completely stupid cos in UK it doesnt happen that often before 18 (or it does but the couple are regarded as idiots). likewise wahida is obviously comfortable with the fact that once ur older ur happy and settled (tho - 29 is the limit? r u serious?? cos even for neutral-and-willing-to-consider-everyones-views person like me thats kinda extreme) .

im sure when ur older u'll think differently. no one shud have to live a lonely life just to please others. my mums best friend is getting married next month and im really happy for her cos she has had a horrible life till now - her husband left her for another woman and proved that she was mentally unstable so her kids were taken away from her as well - im glad that atleast now she can be happy.

Originally posted by: Ansh/Eku_lover

how do u have babys than? if u get married at age 40 to 50 like aww that is 😆

u dont have to have children tho = that is not the only reason why people get married hun!!

and even if they do - my best friends parents were told that because of complications during her birth her mother will never be able to conceive agen but 18 years later she had a baby brother and she loved her bruv more than anythign even tho wen she got married her brother was only two years old. it all depends on the situation and what the people affected by it all think - but while i think family can hav a say (cos they are directly affected) the rest of the world shud keep out!!

Originally posted by: kaura1986

Marriage is not a game or not set up for the party. It is the promise that husband-Wife make it infront of Agni to support each other 4 next 7 births. So if Kn were separted , they don't have to ask ppl if they ll like them getting remarry, they have a right to make another promise. They r just gonna fulfill the customs set up by their ancestors. It is not a joke.

Perfectly put!!

If the couple are happy and want to do this then who are the rest of us people to tell them its right or wrong?