My deaerest desiflavour,
I completely agree that this a public posting and this post was posted to get everyone's view. Everyone is entitled to their views as I respect that, but I only called those against tanya as bashers as according to me they are very overbiased. and this my view. we hate tanya and bashed tanya because we have a strong point against her.
From day one I didn't consider Tanya as evil, she truly loved Karan and also had come to terms that Karan did not reciprocate. She was a good mother and wife under the given circumstances. My only grouse was that for some one whom she raised for 20 years as her own and being left out is far far from a pleasant situation.if she truely loves with karan than she herself reunite karan nandini because if you truely loves with someine than your happiness is in your lover happiness not like tanya zabardasti pyar karo.if she she truely loves with karan than she never blacmiled him i gave you 20 years thats why mujhe pyar karo,ilook aftyer your children thats why mujhe pyar karo because sacha pyar karne wale ehsan jatakar pyar nahin mangte.
and abt a good wife idont think so tanya is a good wife in any angle.
a good wife using her children against her husband like tanya used bhoomi against karan.
a good wife said for her mother in law marr jato to acha hota wapis kuyn ayen and sent her motherin in law mental asylum.
a good wife didn't care abt her husbad's feelings and emotions like tanya did with karan she cancelled jewellery order .
a good wife never understand his husbands feelings and suppport him like tanya did when tulsi,baa and karan came back home and karan was so happy but instead of supporting him tanya was supporting her children and tripti and damini
a good wife behaved like tanya behaved with karan first she herself kickout nandini from sn but still tanuting over karanyou were not here because you were deep in your thought and obviously you were thinking abt nandini. shameless woman if you thinks karan still loves nandini and she is still living in his herat then why not you left him.that means you have no selfrespect.
a good wife like tanya when karan deeply in hurt with his behaviour towards tulsi and mhir and saw bhoomi with abhir instead of supporting him she was planning how to take revange with tulsi.
and abt mother a good mother never used a duaghter against her own mother like tanya used bhoomi against nandini.
EVERY THING IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR, isn't it? so now she wants to get Karan's love and is resorting to extreme tactics , but for some one who was deprived for past 20 years I guess it is fair enough!!
So keep the debate going !!!!!
yeah everythig is fair in love and war but not in one sided love.and the way you people are supporting to tanya it shows infront of one sided lover if they didn't get their love than they will turn negative and did bad things with his or her lover. its totaly tanya's fault when nandini got 14 years prision karan told her clearly you will never takes place nandini's place in my heart then why not tanya left him in that time nobody can forced her living with that man who madly in loves with his first wife she herself choose that kind of life and in whole 20 years she pushed karan and crying infront of ever one i gave you 20 years thats why mujhe pyar karo ,ilook after your children thats why mujhe pyar karo.plus karan never gives her high hopes he is eagerly waiting for nandini's return infact when karan knew abt nandini's marriage he still loves her and didn't forget her.then why not tanya realise what is meaning of nandini in karan's life.i cant uderstand some people like you used poor word for tanya a woman herself choose spending her life with that man who already loves with his first wife then you peple said said she spend 20 years plus if she was not demanding him anyting then we said selflessly took care of karan and his children.
One should always live with hope!! She was very selfless to start with, she sacrifced from day one. She too loved Karan before karan and Nandini were married , but did not voice it out then and when destiny brought them together, she did her best to give the relationship her very best!!