Kip ur cool,dont lose it-karan/ansh/mihir

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Posted: 18 years ago
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By Ipsita Bhattacharya

Getting into fights and brawls is not hip. When you are out with your friends, if someone makes an offensive comment or picks up a quarrel at a bar or a public place, think twice before hitting out. People involved in fights are seen as hooligans and men no longer feel compelled to get into fights just to show off their macho side. Happening guys never lose their cool. Prominent television stars tell us how they would deal with unpleasant situations.

Hiten Tejwani

It's not necessary for you to get into a fight at the slightest provocation just because you are a man. Personally if I am not close to the people involved in a fight, I will not get into it. However, if it does involve my friends, whether male or female, I will certainly look into the matter. That does not mean I will start a fight or get into it. Rather, I will gauge the situation first and then act accordingly. Some men are very hot headed but I am a level headed guy. I feel men should not have an inflated ego and get involved in every other fight just to show off their macho side.

Akashdeep Sehgal

No fighting for me please! Anger is destructive while love is constructive. If I am in a situation where people around me are fighting, I would remain uninvolved. It is not mandatory to fight just because you are a man. Even if someone passes a harmless comment on a girl, I would simply ignore the matter!

Ronit Roy

I feel being manly or being macho has nothing to do with fighting. I am not the kind of person who would get into fights over petty issues. Until and unless something serious happens, say for example a lady's modesty is outraged, I would ignore the matter. If the fight is amongst friends, initially I would avoid it, but if it's too serious I will try to solve the problem. I seriously believe that solution to problems does not lie in fights.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Thanks for sharing! I thought Akashdeep was a really temperamental person. Other articles have said that he's rude, conceited and easily proved into fighting.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Ronit's answer "say for example a lady's modesty is outraged, I would ignore the matter" kinda has me puzzled. Actually a bit upset.
I don't find it acceptable that some guys think its ok to 'outrage a lady's modesty'. Making comments about an attractive woman amongst friends is one thing but to be obvious,and vulg enuf to make that woman uncomfortable is a completely diff thing and it should be made clear that its not acceptable public behaviour.
I am not advocating violence here..don't misunderstand. My prob is only with the comment that hurting a woman's modesty is not considered much of an issue anymore. : )
Edited by jinc118 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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thanks . interesting article .
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Posted: 18 years ago
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wow..............our HITTU is such a sweetheart 😳 .........HITTU..........mmmmmmmmmuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuaaaaaaaaaaaa aaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh 😳
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: jinc118

Ronit's answer "say for example a lady's modesty is outraged, I would ignore the matter" kinda has me puzzled. Actually a bit upset.
I don't find it acceptable that some guys think its ok to 'outrage a lady's modesty'. Making comments about an attractive woman amongst friends is one thing but to be obvious,and vulg enuf to make that woman uncomfortable is a completely diff thing and it should be made clear that its not acceptable public behaviour.
I am not advocating violence here..don't misunderstand. My prob is only with the comment that hurting a woman's modesty is not considered much of an issue anymore. : )

No, you're misinterpreting it..he said he would stay out of it until something serious happened...like a lady's modesty is outraged...I guess the way it's written, it's confusing...

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: suuunshiine

thanks . interesting article .

yupp i agree very interesting article =]

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Wasnt Akashdeep the guy who ran behind a guy with a brick? Pulkit and all had to stop him... 😆 😆 😆

Amazing how he thinks anger is destructive and all that... 😛 😛
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Posted: 18 years ago
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hiten is an absolute sweetheart.. he is soooooo sweet 😊
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Posted: 18 years ago
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oh my HITTU...........we love u!!!!!!!!

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