By Ipsita Bhattacharya |
Getting into fights and brawls is not hip. When you are out with your friends, if someone makes an offensive comment or picks up a quarrel at a bar or a public place, think twice before hitting out. People involved in fights are seen as hooligans and men no longer feel compelled to get into fights just to show off their macho side. Happening guys never lose their cool. Prominent television stars tell us how they would deal with unpleasant situations. Hiten Tejwani It's not necessary for you to get into a fight at the slightest provocation just because you are a man. Personally if I am not close to the people involved in a fight, I will not get into it. However, if it does involve my friends, whether male or female, I will certainly look into the matter. That does not mean I will start a fight or get into it. Rather, I will gauge the situation first and then act accordingly. Some men are very hot headed but I am a level headed guy. I feel men should not have an inflated ego and get involved in every other fight just to show off their macho side. Akashdeep Sehgal No fighting for me please! Anger is destructive while love is constructive. If I am in a situation where people around me are fighting, I would remain uninvolved. It is not mandatory to fight just because you are a man. Even if someone passes a harmless comment on a girl, I would simply ignore the matter! Ronit Roy I feel being manly or being macho has nothing to do with fighting. I am not the kind of person who would get into fights over petty issues. Until and unless something serious happens, say for example a lady's modesty is outraged, I would ignore the matter. If the fight is amongst friends, initially I would avoid it, but if it's too serious I will try to solve the problem. I seriously believe that solution to problems does not lie in fights. |
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