points to ponder, 22 feb

* boy, does bhoomi love that sari, or wot?? 😆 she's been in it for maaaaany days now?

* did tanya-mom try to stop bhoomi from going to abhir because it's "wrong"? or was it that she feels sorry for joydeep because she knows what it feels like to be ditched "for the one i love"?

* how mean of kt to call lakshya to the bridge to tell him of her engagement date. how mean of lakshya to give her a gift that reminds her of their love. are these two trying to put their feelings aside or make sure that they are rotting inside because of their supressed love??

for some reason, i hated what these two did today.

* okay, after 20 years away, why oh why has nandini come back???

does anyone else think that it's an incredible coincidence that she and mandira have re-appeared at the same time? i think she came back to prevent mandira from doing something -- but what??

* did anyone else think karan was horrible in asking nandini to come "home"??? i felt sick at how selfish he came across. i can understand being together, but why disrupt everyone else's life as well? sick... 🤢

* why isn't baa asking lakshya whether he's not happy about eklavya and kt getting married? that would make for an awesome scene! 😊

i think the main point has to be wether karan will ever tell tanya he wants her gone

Originally posted by: kal-el

i think the main point has to be wether karan will ever tell tanya he wants her gone

i'm not sure. he practically shoved divorce papers at her - and very happily! - before nandini did that drama of a party announcement of asseem being her husband.

i can very well see karan doing such a uncaring thing again - he's done it before.

the only difference is that THIS time, bhoomi will throw a fit because she is squarely on the side of tanya-mom and detests nandini-mom.

this is not the puzzle for me, though. i still don't understand why nandini came back if she didn't want karan back.

and all the signs are that she sure as hell doesn't want karan back!

oh well they have to bring solution to karan tanya and nandini thing now.. its been too much now... 😳

See I do not agree with sum of the stuff you are saying.
For example: Karan and Nandini remarks. Nandini appeared here long before Mandira did. Number two, Nandini is Karan's wife. First wife before Tanya. He had to marry Tanya to take care of Bhumi sort oas a compromise. Sumhow every one keeps forgeting this fact. Nandini is Karan's love and first wife and I do not blame him forhis desire to bring her back in his life.

Rest of the stuff, Amen. 😊

yes i think ekta realised how much hatred she has been getting from splitting karan and nandini...maybe thats why she wants to solve it.....but heres an example one mistake tulsi did years ago is only bieng solved NOW!??
and omg if mihir feels thier doing a mistake why not ASK kt or eklavya if they like each other or not?? i mean just eklavya liking her is not going to set their lives?? if kt didn't like anyone else then it would be fine...but when she likes someone and that person likes her back then WHY THE PROBLEM??? maybe if nandini comes back into the house she might see whats going on between lakshya and kt like daksha did and give tulsi a heads up about what she s going to do again???.....

hmmm. i see i might have attracted some karan-nandini ire here. 😊

sigh. okay, here's what i mean:

desipride - there's a mystery that after the leap nandini and mandira have re-entered at about the same time. i remember they were in jail together, and nandini becoming firm about doing her best to protect the viranis from mandira.

well, now both are back, and i wonder if it's related. did nandini stay away for so long and come back because she knew that mandira was planning to come back?

does this have anything to do with plans she knows for mandira to hurt karan/the viranis? does this have anything to do with trying to get her child back from mandira (if it is because of mandira that the child has not made an appearance yet)?

i think it could be a mystery. and of course, it is all just a guess, and you're welcome to disagree. 😆 but it'd be nice if we were actually disagreeing about the same thing. 😊

watever93 - actually tulsi did ask kt, and kt didn't say a word about lakshya when she could've. she kept it for later, and later, she chatted with lakshya and they both decided to keep it a secret.

but i must admit: that was quite astute of mihir-daadu to get a bad feeling about it. even if he does spend all his time at office and not with his grandkids at home. gee, when they all do find out, tulsi-daadi is going to have to admit to mihir-daadu that he's the better grandparent! 😆

I have no problem agreeying with many of the things you mentioned but Karan thingi 😳 he is mah baby

Anyways lemme quote ur words babe:

Originally posted by: estee

* did anyone else think karan was horrible in asking nandini to come "home"??? i felt sick at how selfish he came across. i can understand being together, but why disrupt everyone else's life as well? sick... 🤢

All I am saying is that Karan has a life of his own and Nandini has a special place in that life. He deserves to bring her back in his life, if that means to ruin everyone else's life, so be it.😳

As I said Amen to rest of the things you said.

Originally posted by: DeSiPride05

I have no problem agreeying with many of the things you mentioned but Karan thingi 😳 he is mah baby

Anyways lemme quote ur words babe:

All I am saying is that Karan has a life of his own and Nandini has a special place in that life. He deserves to bring her back in his life, if that means to ruin everyone else's life, so be it.😳

As I said Amen to rest of the things you said.

I am sorry I strongly disagree to that point of view. When you are young you have a responsibility to yourself to make the best out of your life and be the best you can be. When you become older and get married your first responsibility is to your kids and your family. If you dont want that responsibilty then you should not get married. I dont believe in selfish love. Love is not everything, and parents have no right to jeopardize the future of their children for what they want. As for Nandini being Karan's wife, she is no longer his wife, according to the hindu marraige act, if a couple is separated for more than 5 years, their marraige is legally nullified. But who cares about that ekta doesnt follow any law.

Karan should first help Bhoomi. If she really hates JD so much, then she should let JD go, divorce him. JD deserves someone better. Karan should teach his daughter the importance of honoring relation, but if he himself is unable to honor his wife, how can he expect his daughter to honor her husband.

Your life is never your own at any stage of your life. There are always people around you, your parents, your siblings, your husband or kids. At any stage your actions reflect upon them and we must never intentionally hurt any of them. Life is too complicated to always get what you want. There are times when you just have to give up. Karan had his chances, but now his responsibility is to Manthan and Bhoomi, even if he doesnt give a damn about Tanya.

I am sorry that sounded like a lecture. Damn I should be a counsellor. 😆

Originally posted by: maragathm

Damn I should be a counsellor. 😆

damn! you should be. 😆 i couldn't have put it so well. 👏