Going by some of the posts in this section of the forum, I have realized the majority of you thinks a good mother is...:
One who blindly supports her daughter despite knowing the truth of the past.
One who lets her daughter call up Mandira, despite knowing Mandira wants only bad for the family.
One who lets her MARRIED daughter meet with a guy who broke her daughter's heart and doesn't object to meeting with him.
Doesn't bother to tell her daugther that she is wrong and that she should just accept Tulsi as her Dadi and Karan as her father, and MOVE ON.
Is this what a true mother is? Because if this is what you guys think a true mother is then sad to say that, you guys are pathetic.
Honestly, do some of the members watch this serial with blind eyes and deaf ears when Nandani comes on screen?
Because it seems to me is that you guys side with Tanya just because she supports Bhoomi?! Or is it because you guys just don't like Nandani? Seriously might as well admit it.
I have been reading posts about Nandani being a bad mother, but honestly how bad is she really?
She did attend Bhoomi's wedding but didn't let anyone know she was there.
She sent Bhoomi a gift she had picked out for Bhoomi when Bhoomi was just 3 years old.
She called Bhoomi to congratulate her and when she overheard the conversation between Bhoomi and Tanya, she said: "I wish you all the happiness a mother wishes for her daughter on this day. I pray you get the happiness with your husband that I have never gotten and that he forever stays by you only."
She tries to tell Bhoomi that she is wrong and that she doesn't know the truth. And its better if Bhoomi just accepts Karan as her father and moves on.
Unlike Tanya, Nandani is guarded about her feelings for Bhoomi for the sake of Tanya's marriage. Just because she doesn't voice out how much she loves and misses Bhoomi, it doesn't mean that she doesn't care for her.
She watches Bhoomi's video tapes and cries to her picture, what more could she do yet not risk ruining Tanya's life?
She keeps in touch ONLY WITH KARAN REGARDING BHOOMI'S WELL-BEING. Some of the members have stated that Karan-Nandani are having an affair behind Aseem and Tanya's backs. But the truth is that they are in touch for the sake of their daughter, whom they love tremendously and because they have this fear that she will get Ansh's evil genes.
Unlike Tanya, Nandani doesn't just talk. She does what she wants to do for her daughter and will do whatever it takes to protect her.
Biggest example: Tanya only talked about wanting to kill Gujral. Nandani did it and spent 14 years in jail for her.
Unlike Karan, Nandani knows that if she lets it out that she still loves Karan and wants to be with him and Bhoomi, it will ruin Tanya and Manthan's lives. Unlike Karan, she doesn't imagine being with him. She accepted her destiny and moved on.
So really how bad is Nandani?
I am not saying that Tanya doesn't deserve to be called Bhoomi's mom, she does. I seriously dislike Tanya for what she has done by marrying Karan despite knowing how much Karan-Nandani love each other and has the nerve to cry about what wrong she has done. But I will give credit to the fact that she has raised Bhoomi and deserves to be called Bhoomi's mom.
But that doesn't mean that Nandani doesn't deserve any less. She almost died while giving birth to Bhoomi and in the process of it, lost the ultimate love her life. She told Bhoomi that when I gave birth to you, I thought a new chapter of my life started. Instead of a new chapter, my entire life ended! What does that tell you viewers? And then when there was Gujral's threat overlooming Nandani, she killed that guy and proved that she is the true mother.
So sad that some of you will NEVER come to realize this because of your personal dislike for Nandani/Gauri Pradhan.
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