why should v watch this show?mona has nt changed.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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The theme of the show is extra-marital affair.leads said the theme itself is bold n good enough,oh really?is it really bold or silly.watching this show on these days make it vry clear that the theme is only a big joke.😆
is it jst the fault of anushka?is she alone responsible for mona's plight?hw can mona ever trust a husband like pradeep who nt only insulted,abused her,but who is living with the other woman in front of her people.a husband who is self-centred,immature,selfish n incapable of real commitment.a husband who is projecting his own moods,emotions,actions on to others.a husband who never believed in ur talent,a husband who always tried to control ur life.hw can mona ever love him?hw much is she willing to put up with n forgive?to forgive a husband like pradeep,is it that easy?is it the only answer?is it the right solution?is she nt following wt her father said at the time of revelation of his infedility-to wait for him,to forgive him,to accept him back wn he returns?aft all this humiliation,she has got the courage to put trust again on pradeep ???but no courage to put trust on vineet; a person who loves u,respect u,admire u,understand u,value u.aperson who stood as a pillar for u,a person who fought ur battle.can anyone accept this mona?must say,she has nt changed a bit.she is the same since the first episode.there is no progression.wt message r they giving to society?y should v watch this show?wt is left in the show?
i never felt mona to be an independent,working woman in the show.seriously,is she?they never showed mona as a strong individual.her office track ,colaba house track were at the height of stupidity.they should hv had explored it well.
remove anushka by intrdg an EX 😆wt a solution to solve mona's plight😆 wt a method to screw the viewers !!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i think you are being too hard on Mona..
i know 12 years is nothing compared to a whole life-time... but 12 years!! is still quite alot...

we spend a few days or even few months with someone, we get soo attached... wud never believe, even if it was true that THAT person would try to take advantage of us... that he/she would betray us... even when they do, we tend to simple forgive and forget... but never really hate them...

when we get so attached after a few months long relationship, then this was 12 years!!! guys... 12 years of seeing that one face every morning.. and every night... 12 years of living together in one house... 12 years of interdependence... its can't be forgotten THAT easily... Mona will always care for Pradeep... no matter how badly he treats her... even if he tramples all over her...

that's a woman's heart... if she has a pure heart that is...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The biggest problem is that they need to show individuals who are open as single parent as single mom to Mona to make her realize that she can lead a life without her height of emotional baggage... Strength growing on her is getting pulled back a lot due to the loads of memories she carries, Its natural BUT somewhere a closure is needed.

Yes as a women we carry a lot of it being with a man whom one would spend 12 years and have 3 beautiful kids, BUT when there is lack of trust and loyalty between partners in the bond of marriage one needs to have have the guts to step out and seek oneself a new life a new beginning.. If Mona is not interested in being with Vineet who is a wonderful man who in-spite of knowing Mona barely for 1 year realizes her span of 12 years and her dedication to her family abt above all RESPECTS her as a woman...

Mona needs to also spend quality time with her kids and especially BulBul who knows is seeing all this.. Mona is lacking in lots of places in making ends meet and thats what is making her feel more and more broken as an individual & emotionally swinging towards her past...

Life has certain norms BUT when there are things which do not work the ri8 way one must seek new horizons and see if something better can make one feel the life of fulfillment.. As a women we a bounded by our LOVE for the family more and more as the kids grow up or the way we spend life with our partner BUT when things do not work out the step to distance should be given a foundation WHICH the creatives started off by showing Mona trying to be INDEPENDENT & working & seeing a new light but that foundation for herself she is making it quite shaking, she needs to see the best for herself and the dignity of her being there is a FLAW there which needs to be addressed.. The other parameters which as a viewer sees to coax her will always be there but if the Vaada is broken due to the distrust one has one needs to move on and see a brighter light.

Similar instances should be influenced in Mona's life to make her realize what she needs to do to move on in life... I just see it that way...
Edited by shanti05 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: yllscin

i think you are being too hard on Mona..

i know 12 years is nothing compared to a whole life-time... but 12 years!! is still quite alot...

we spend a few days or even few months with someone, we get soo attached... wud never believe, even if it was true that THAT person would try to take advantage of us... that he/she would betray us... even when they do, we tend to simple forgive and forget... but never really hate them...

when we get so attached after a few months long relationship, then this was 12 years!!! guys... 12 years of seeing that one face every morning.. and every night... 12 years of living together in one house... 12 years of interdependence... its can't be forgotten THAT easily... Mona will always care for Pradeep... no matter how badly he treats her... even if he tramples all over her...

that's a woman's heart... if she has a pure heart that is...


thats true that after 12 years u can get attached to someone like that BUT, i dont care if you have known someone for 12 or 50 years, if that person betrays you, u can't forgive that person that easliy, especially when he hasn't apologized to you. Actually its easy to forgive someone if u have only been with them for few months but u give that person everything u have for 12 years and u take care of that person for 12 years and then he betrays u, there is no way u are going to feel the same about him. I think thats what is making mos of us angry at mona.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ yllscin - this is my tk on the matter= mona had 12 yrs of happy married life with pradeep.so naturally, normally she will remember the good frm the past.she will hv valuable memories n a life story.but the trust she had on pradeep is broken.isn't it?once the trust is broken,hw can there be any intimacy?hw can there be any closeness?hw can there be kindness n caring?watching mona in the last episodes vividly indicates her willingness to return if given a chance.even if she returns hw much is she willing to put up with n forgive?that too for whom?for the narcissist pradeep🤢it means men like pradeep can hv their cake n eat it,no matter wt?😡
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