Pity for Pradeep - Sorry for Anu

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Posted: 12 years ago
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So things are not looking good between Anu and Pradeep, eh? I'm hardly surprised. Men like Pradeep do not know the meaning of love and loyalty, nor are they able to commit themeselves to one woman only. They only love their ego.

Anu has always had flaws. She's had them since day one. But how convenient that Pradeep is beginning to have issues with her now that divorce is on the cards for him and Mona. What must also bother him is the fact that a good man like Vineet is actually interested in his wife. Like I said - how convenient! ;)

I don't like Anu. But I don't hate her either. I actually feel sorry for her. It has always been Pradeep, Pradeep, Pradeep for her and has never looked beyond him. She was so blinded by her love for him that she didn't stop just once to think that if he can't remain faithful to his wife of 12 years, what's the guarantee he'll remain loyal to her?

So I've come to the conclusion that I pity Pradeep, for his cheap thoughts, low level behaviour, his delusional ways, arrogance, ignorance and idiocy 😆 and feel sorry for Anu - despite being a strong, independent woman, she has allowed herself to become Pradeep's doormat and a slave of her wrong choices.

As they say, karma is a b***h. And it's coming for them both 😆

My post is about Anu-Pradeep, but I gotta say this anyway

I loveee Vineet 😳

There. Now I feel better 😆

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with you, especially the 'I lovee Vineet' part😃

I didn't like Anu in the beginning but I really pity her now; from today episode I felt sorry for her for the way the women of the Society treated her. I can understand their resentment of her but it's hypocritical that they take it out only on Anu but Pradeep gets away with it; he is just as guilty as Anu and in some ways even more so for she sincerely loves him but he doesn't.

You could really feel Anu pain when she spoke to Pradeep and her love for him though it does not forgive what she has done it at least gives it a basis for what she did.

Pradeep on the other hand has shown only desire and no sincere emotion for Anu; he can't make a commitment to her but he can't let her go, the same way he is with Mona; doesn't want but doesn't want anyone else to want her either.

I don't pity him at all but think he is just a nasty person who has the morals of an alley cat and is a hypocrite there is no redeeming feature to Pradeep and I can only see him getting worst, especially as things, hopefully, heat up between Mona and Vineet.

He is the sort of person who the grass is always greener on the other side and when on the other side thinks 'nope the original side was better' especially when someone else is playing there!

Pradeep thought that with Anu it would be fun and games; no commitment, the high life, kids on the weekend what he didn't expect was Anu to want all the things he had in his marriage to Mona and now having realised it is looking trapped. To top this his ego cannot take the fact that the wife HE discarded is the object of love not to 1 but to TWO men; both more successful then him and seen as catches!

At one point I thought Anu and Pradeep deserved each other but after today I don't even think that Anu deserves a 'man' (using that term loosely) like Pradeep; the only thing he deserves is a RAT!!!
Edited by shasha74 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Shasha74: Interesting comments :)

I said that I pity Pradeep. But pity is never a good thing, my friend! But I do agree with the rest of what you said about him. Pradeep doesn't deserve Anu - he doesn't deserve ANYONE!

So true about Anu. Even I felt sorry for her today. The way the ladies mocked her, then Pradeep showed no affection towards her. But to be honest, she has brought it upon herself. The signs were there for her to see but she chose to turn a blind eye. I can't believe she didn't notice Pradeep's change in behaviour!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I neva have an ounce of sympathy for PraCREEP. The spinless one thinks he deserves everything including both Mona & Anushka, but he is worthy of nothing and none! His fate should be total abandonment by all. When you try to grasp water, earth, or sky...then your hands always end up empty.

As for Anushka...I don't feel sorry for her either. She chose to be oblivious unlike Mona, who was blindsighted by PraCREEPs betrayal. Anu knows what PRACREEP is but, till date has ignored it. She keeps saying she is not MONA the housewife who puts up with his BS, but that's exactly what she has become to the point of trying to please societywale today. A duck can never fit amongst pigeons. Anu used to be content with who and what she was - ANUSHKA SARKAR...now she is trying desperately to be who she is not - Anu Singh. When we cease to be true to ourselves...we have none but, ourselves to blame... and Love is not love when it requires you turn yourself into a pretzel...

But, but but... the one I worry about here is VINEET...the true innocent bystander here. If Anu kicks PraCreep to the curb then P will run back to Mona especially if it appears she is moving forward with Vineet...and he will use his children to try and suck her back. He's incapable of being alone... Vineet, on the other hand, has earnt good company!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Today was the first time I actually felt BAD for Anu, at the beginning I kind of wanted her to get her just desserts, but the reality is Pradeep left Mona for Anu all on his own, he pulled that trigger.

But Anu today- she's been fighting for Pradeep all by herself, and I think today she may have realized that first love isn't always the lasting love...Pradeep does not deserve Mona that is for sure, he really just deserves to be alone with his own disgusting behavior and his low level thoughts.

Also agreed, Love Vineet, he was perfection from head to toe today!!!

Also- my absolute fave spike and willow moment! I always want to hug him in that scene 😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i don't like anushka but felt bad for her.the way society women treated her didn't go well with me.its nt them alone who ignore pradeep'sdeeds,his own family too.evy one blames only the other woman.pradeep is equally responsible or even more.wt can v expect frm a man who didn't value a 12 yr old relation?the question nw is will anushka remain blind ?wt will she do wn the truth of pradeep wanting to go back to mona is revealed?there will be no love left but the obsession will remain.and this obsession can entangle pradeep.we might get to see a puppet husband😆
Aaliya:ur each words of love to vineet is engaging❤️
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anuskha: I don't really feel sorry for her, but it's sad to see what her life was and what it has become. She wanted Pradeep and she got him, what is so amazing about him that she fell sooo crazy in love and had to tear a marriage to get him? One word: KARMA.

Pradeep: One word: Pathetic. He thinks his life is hopscotch and can jump between Mona and Pradeep (his conscience- Anu) every other day. He deserves to be alone.

Just want moneet to happen. That is all.
Good post btw
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I did feel sorry for Anu when those society-wali aunties were yelling "doosri aurat, doosri aurat". WTH?? Mona is at least trying to move on with dignity while these women have nothing better to do than wash the dirty linen of another in public??😡 If they are so loyal to Mona (and let's not forget some of them were the first ones to come taunting Mona about her broken marriage) they should stop talking to Pradeep, not harass Anu.

All the same, it was extremely dumb of Anu to say before a pandit of all people, that she and P are living together before marriage.

Won't even spare a word on Pradeep. He is not worth any.👎🏼
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

I neva have an ounce of sympathy for PraCREEP. The spinless one thinks he deserves everything including both Mona & Anushka, but he is worthy of nothing and none! His fate should be total abandonment by all. When you try to grasp water, earth, or sky...then your hands always end up empty.


As for Anushka...I don't feel sorry for her either. She chose to be oblivious unlike Mona, who was blindsighted by PraCREEPs betrayal. Anu knows what PRACREEP is but, till date has ignored it. She keeps saying she is not MONA the housewife who puts up with his BS, but that's exactly what she has become to the point of trying to please societywale today. A duck can never fit amongst pigeons. Anu used to be content with who and what she was - ANUSHKA SARKAR...now she is trying desperately to be who she is not - Anu Singh. When we cease to be true to ourselves...we have none but, ourselves to blame... and Love is not love when it requires you turn yourself into a pretzel...

But, but but... the one I worry about here is VINEET...the true innocent bystander here. If Anu kicks PraCreep to the curb then P will run back to Mona especially if it appears she is moving forward with Vineet...and he will use his children to try and suck her back. He's incapable of being alone... Vineet, on the other hand, has earnt good company!



Na na! I have no sympathy for PraCreep (what a name!) 😆 either! But I do feel like saying bechara to him - however, there's no affection involved! He is a HUGE mess and whatever he has become is the result of his own actions. I agree, he should be left all alone. That's what he deserves.
Indeed Anu has tried to change herself and become someone who she is not. I guess the "main Mona nahin hoon," line she constantly uses is her way of trying to justify things. She's kidding herself, really! Mona has not lost her self respect for Pradeep - Anu has.

Even I worry for Vineet 😆 😳 I mean, Pradeep is meddling in Mona's affairs...imagine what he would do if his relationship with Anu ends? He would stoop to all levels just to get Mona back. But I sincerely hope the CVs do full justice with Vineet. He deserves Mona's love and companionship. Pradeep on the other hand deserves nothing.

Btw, I often read your comments in the BV forum. I like your posts :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Inkpen4877

Today was the first time I actually felt BAD for Anu, at the beginning I kind of wanted her to get her just desserts, but the reality is Pradeep left Mona for Anu all on his own, he pulled that trigger.


But Anu today- she's been fighting for Pradeep all by herself, and I think today she may have realized that first love isn't always the lasting love...Pradeep does not deserve Mona that is for sure, he really just deserves to be alone with his own disgusting behavior and his low level thoughts.

Also agreed, Love Vineet, he was perfection from head to toe today!!!

Also- my absolute fave spike and willow moment! I always want to hug him in that scene 😉



True :)
If Yesterday wasn't a realization for Anu, then God help her! But I think she is beginning to see the real picture now. I like what you said - "first love isn't always the lasting love." That is quite true and very apt for Anu's situation. I think she should just let Pradeep go and become the Anushka Sarkar that she actually is. Yes, she has made mistakes and is now getting her dues. But there's no point in investing more time and energy in a relationship that's going nowhere.

Ah, Vineet! what a man! 👍🏼

And that Spike-Willow moment is adorable 😆 the way he flops his head onto her shoulder, hehe! 😆

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