ekta promoting extra marial affair?????

wat she want to show with this story??

Well we have to see what she wants to show in the show dealing with a sensitive issue of bringing in EMA(Extra Martial Affair), A couple who is married for 10 long years and have 3 beautiful kids and getting to be a nuclear family and the wife making herself busy with the family and ignoring the husband who goes astray and why ??
Reasons could be many, but crucks of the problem will also like as the kids fall between a husband and wife and the needs of distribution of importance takes over how the couple cope with it.

It happens in society and in families but the way the concept is promoted and STOPPED at the right time is what viewers want to know and how Ekta shows it.

Taking real life instances and molding into stories and presentation which is fictionally realistic and portrayed in a mature way is what the show should cater.

As a wife we trust our husband and whether this trust is faltered to a certain EXTENT is what Mona's character will see from time to time and whether Pradeep is guilty of it and will it be forgiven and what are the damage control acts on this ..

There are the factors which will make the show interesting to understand why Ekta is dealing with EMA.

Rest if the writers showcase it in a mature way and concrete understanding of the subject then the show will focus on the title which Mona and Pradeep said to each other Kya Hua Tera Vaada

There are thousands of women like Mona .. it is obvious that with 3 growing kids her entire focus will be on them and in normal family husband joins the wife instead of feeling left out.

Here Pradeep has a need to look good, he cares for his looks too much, fantasizes Katrina (?), wants his wife to look great for his promotion (?), needs attention... etc etc...

Mona is certainly a very smart looking wife but since she hasn't moved out her confidence is bit low ..

Pradeep;s this need for attention and importance to looks will lead to this situation.

One question in my mind - today when all over actual couples are having either 1 or maximum 2 kids why are they showing 3 kids in soaps. There must be some reason .. see BALH, KHTW, some other shows also... 11 years of marriage and 3 kids with an ordinary profile .. is that necessary?

Originally posted by: Mehek25

I have only watched a few episodes in the beginning and when I realised it was on E.M.A. I was a bit put off.

I am married and have two small kids also...I would not like to see my hubby having an EMA just because i was unable to accompany him to his business dinners and look as stunning as he expects me to look...After all we wives are doing all this only to bring up our kids who are as much a part of the husband as they are of the wife...So why should the husband have the prerogative of being care free when the poor wife slogs over the house, the husband and the kids also...The upbringing of the kids should be a joint affair..not just dumped on one spouse...mainly the wife and mother...

Sorry but just expressing my POV...

I think somewhere its the negligence which makes a couple drift away , We always tend to get occupied with family. Closeness and Affection is and was always there whether the first year or marriage or 10th year of marriage now how that is brought about is more like weaving a new thread between couples. The wife homemaker has a greater responsibility interms of making the family thread together while the husband has a little bit of leverage, Here the husband could balance it by involving the whole family towards the bundle of happiness yet pull out the individual strand and make it amicable only for themseleves. Effort has to be made as if 80% is carried out by the homemaker housewife and 20% is left for the husband he should utilize it well otherwise he tends to drift away
Marriage is a balance of both which makes it 100% and most of teh times the home is run by the women even if we say the women is part time working or full time working They do a lot of multi tasking and they have that uppper hand , So with these factors why should men go astray just coz of some minor factors which the wife dose'nt full fill

Genuine reason and proper concrete evidence is always needed for why a Man goes into EMA otherwise Love Affection and Closeness is always there between a couple during their tenure of marriage how they can put it towards themselves is the EFFORT they need to put to bring it on and NOTHING is Impossible

now i am not watching this crap :( no offense but I started watching this soap cuz i wanted to see a love bond like mariage stay evergreen. mona does not deserve this after all her devotion to the family. what will pradeep say he had a ema for the betterment of his family. i think people who have affairs are selfish. i am not watching this. i was looking forward to this soap for awhile and the ads didnt talk about ema. it seemed like a story of a couple that loves each other and even if they dont have time but small things keep them together. if that is the story the ema are being promoted. and because he is a man and its ok. what if mona has a ema. either wsy im disgusted

An EMA can never be justified by either the husband or the wife. Period. All this lack of attention, kids coming in the way is all BS. Marriage is a sacred commitment. You must think a million times before committing to someone and once kids are there, you owe them the trust of a wife and a husband. Kids did not want to come into this world on their own. Once brought in, they deserve the security of a safe marriage.