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Posted: 17 years ago
#11
if any1 wants to run away from his/her responsibilities then love is a good excuse 😳
love is the mostttt imp thing in life but it doesnt mean that u put other person's happiness at stake n care 4 only urs
if u really love ur family toh unki priorities pehle aani chahiye
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Posted: 17 years ago
#12

hi

Originally posted by: amrit23

if any1 wants to run away from his/her responsibilities then love is a good excuse 😳
love is the mostttt imp thing in life but it doesnt mean that u put other person's happiness at stake n care 4 only urs
if u really love ur family toh unki priorities pehle aani chahiye

yup many poeple use love to get away with they responsibilties

that is wrong

plus they are mnay forms of love

love exists with soulmates, maa-child-pita-child, siblings and friendship too

norzar

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Posted: 17 years ago
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hi all
was goin thro the topic and found it interesting enough to put across my thoughts.....esp about neeti as its my baby and felt i cud help everyone understand her state of mind better....my apologies if anyone here is not comfortable with me jumping in between the conversation.
neeti is on the line of negativity coz of few reasons first of al she has not felt the love of family i.e parents or siblings so she is finding it hard to relate to it, she has only masi who is her only relation and masi is very judgmental about certain issues so the background is very different than a normal girl, her only attachment is sharman and hence she has al the responsibilities connected to her love, she got so much of love from him that she got use to the love and is now finding it diff to survive without it again she feels that when she had to go thro the test of proving her love she succeeded and broke her engagement, so 4 her sharman failed in his test..and now if anyone could explain things to her was masi but she on the more reminds her of the loss
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Posted: 17 years ago
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nice comments iira 👏
i agree regarding neeti.
if love means responsibility then neti didnt get responsible person
if love means sacrifising urself for ur lover...neti didnt get that.
if love means pride....then neti lost her pride in marriage mandit.
if love means duties...then somebody left his duty incomplete for neti.
if love means happiness then neti has lost her happiness.
if love means everything...then neti lost everything.
if love means nothing...then neti lost her grace,her respect,her life, for nothing.
as far as mosi and sukanya are concerned instead of raising her hope they are going to make her realize and feel what she has lost.
IN ALL THAT CIRCUMSTANCES...i would never,blame neti for becoming a villan.not only wadwa parewar but every family has got grace,dignity,honour and so called izzat.everyone is equal and no one has right to humiliate or insult someone.remember neti started dance classes at bad times of wadwa parewar,when they had lost their house.
there is one big problem abt wadwa parewar.their 1st priority is their FAMILY.IF TO SAVE GRACE OF THEIR FAMILY THEY COULD DESTROY SOMEONE ELSE FAMILY THEY WOULD DO IT. LIKE THEY DESTROYED NETI.
neti didnt had parents love.she got love from sharman,who showed her sweet dreams and in the last moment gave priority to his family and LEFT HER ALONE.sharman never realized that for man it might not matter but for a girl it does matter.specially when u reject her on mandit, for ur own personal reasons,thinking about so called izzat of ur family and not looking at izzat of girls family. apni izzat pur tu aanch nahi aney dein gay or larke or uski family ki izzat ko khak mein milla dein,koye farq nahi purta.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: iira_soni

hi all
was goin thro the topic and found it interesting enough to put across my thoughts.....esp about neeti as its my baby and felt i cud help everyone understand her state of mind better....my apologies if anyone here is not comfortable with me jumping in between the conversation.
neeti is on the line of negativity coz of few reasons first of al she has not felt the love of family i.e parents or siblings so she is finding it hard to relate to it, she has only masi who is her only relation and masi is very judgmental about certain issues so the background is very different than a normal girl, her only attachment is sharman and hence she has al the responsibilities connected to her love, she got so much of love from him that she got use to the love and is now finding it diff to survive without it again she feels that when she had to go thro the test of proving her love she succeeded and broke her engagement, so 4 her sharman failed in his test..and now if anyone could explain things to her was masi but she on the more reminds her of the loss

Woww Iira Very nice explanation👏👏

Actually today if Neeti turns Negative then its fully justified;She has got all the valid reasons to take revenge from the Wadhwa Family because they thought about their responsibilities towards Antara and her child ,then Siya and her unborn child..but what about Neeti and her Future??😕...

But at the same time it will b better if Neeti's Maasi who is her only support system right now try to encourage her to move ahead in life rather than make her turn back to her dark past..

Also I feel when u r turned down in love,the same love turns into obsession and thats when a person turns negative and I think slowly Neeti too will go through the same phase😕...

But again it will b a challeging role for u I guess because suddenly your entire person will change on-screen and I m now eagerly waiting for that interesting twist in the tale😛

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Posted: 17 years ago
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all the people doing whatever they're doing in KK right now is coz of love....Su loves KK so is angry at her for not supporting the kids they both love...Mausi loves Neeti so wants her to get on with life...Neeti loves Shar so will take some time to get over him...Dhruv loves his son so chose him over Siya...& it goes on!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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hi

Originally posted by: iira_soni

hi all
was goin thro the topic and found it interesting enough to put across my thoughts.....esp about neeti as its my baby and felt i cud help everyone understand her state of mind better....my apologies if anyone here is not comfortable with me jumping in between the conversation.
neeti is on the line of negativity coz of few reasons first of al she has not felt the love of family i.e parents or siblings so she is finding it hard to relate to it, she has only masi who is her only relation and masi is very judgmental about certain issues so the background is very different than a normal girl, her only attachment is sharman and hence she has al the responsibilities connected to her love, she got so much of love from him that she got use to the love and is now finding it diff to survive without it again she feels that when she had to go thro the test of proving her love she succeeded and broke her engagement, so 4 her sharman failed in his test..and now if anyone could explain things to her was masi but she on the more reminds her of the loss

loved your partcipiataion iira. yeah if neethi's maasi tells and explains to her, she will understand. neethi is hurt for sure, which is underdstable. i just hope they dont turn neethi all evil, something has to happen that she gets true love once again and moves on. that will be a nice turn in the story. because not everyone gets they first love in life.

norzar

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Posted: 17 years ago
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hi

Originally posted by: rah_akki

all the people doing whatever they're doing in KK right now is coz of love....Su loves KK so is angry at her for not supporting the kids they both love...Mausi loves Neeti so wants her to get on with life...Neeti loves Shar so will take some time to get over him...Dhruv loves his son so chose him over Siya...& it goes on!!

well in sab mein what role does kk play

she loves all and wants all's happiness

kk nevr wnated shr to marry siya

in facts he yelled at shr for doing that to neehti on the mandap. but she was helpless bec dhr ahd alreayd applied sinddor to siya

reg su if he loves kk then he should by now understnad

anger that that point of time was psaable, but rigth looks silly

norzar

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Posted: 17 years ago
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hi

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Woww Iira Very nice explanation👏👏

Actually today if Neeti turns Negative then its fully justified;She has got all the valid reasons to take revenge from the Wadhwa Family because they thought about their responsibilities towards Antara and her child ,then Siya and her unborn child..but what about Neeti and her Future??😕...

But at the same time it will b better if Neeti's Maasi who is her only support system right now try to encourage her to move ahead in life rather than make her turn back to her dark past..

Also I feel when u r turned down in love,the same love turns into obsession and thats when a person turns negative and I think slowly Neeti too will go through the same phase😕...

But again it will b a challeging role for u I guess because suddenly your entire person will change on-screen and I m now eagerly waiting for that interesting twist in the tale😛

one cant kepp all happy in life

not everyone can get love in retuirn also

neehti maasi should explain to neehti that

i believe that when you love someone let him/her go, if he or she returns then he/she is your. if not then he/she was never yours

moral of the story is if destiny wants shr-neethi togetehr one day they will re-eunite

i dont wnat neethi to pull down her own respect for shr, bec shr will one day start hating her

norzar

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