WHOS MAIN FAULT??? IT’S SHARMAN

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shayed key utar jayee tere dil mein meri baat

I hope that all of understands my point of view. like indian movies...most of them dont have any villans usually, so in order to create interest and suspense,it has become a trend to extend movie to a point where every1 is right in their own point of view. same in kum kum. as sukanya and other villans are gone......so there was only way to increase the rating was to create a situation and scenario where every one are right in their own ways ........but WADWA PAREWAR IS IN DANGER.for this reason they brought back antara and it was a chain reaction which hit the whole family.

every day people blame different characters, yet accepting that everyone is fulfilling their responsibilities.MOSI is right in her own way...as she represents neti's mom.druv did it for his child.siya is upset becoz she lost her love.sharman is upset becoz he made decision in favour of his family not his OWN HEART.neti again lost sharman. antra, was going out of house with kid after signing divorce papers.druv's decision gave her a new hope.summit has promised siya and her father, yet he broke his promise becoz he cant do anything about it.and kumkum she did what she felt was right.so we come to a stage where IT'S EVERYBODY'S FAULT ......and where it's NO BODY FAULT. 1 dimension will focus on every1 is equally contributing their roles in what has happened now(BLAME GOES TO EVERYONE)....but on other perspect every 1 are fulfilling their responsibilities(SACRIFICING THEIR OWN HAPPINESS FOR OTHERS). writer wanted people to debate on whose fault to keep emotional attachment of audience with all characters.mainly as per discussion on forum, fault goes to following people mainly.(thats what people from forum think)

druv,summit,kum kum,sharman,siya,antra and om.

(Now from my point of view)

take om out, becoz he is just a kid and dont know any thing.antra accepted what she has done.....she did not came to the house from her choice,she has been brought up to the house by kum kum.she signed divorce papers and was going out.becoz she feels guilty and is just suffering.SHE HAS NO SYMPATHIES FROM ANYONE.she has been told from everybody that she is just here becoz of her kid. isnt that INSULT or HUMILIATION. still she never complaigns thinking of her past. IN SHORT....it's not ANTRA'S MISTAKE.

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to some extent summit is wrong but to other extent he is not wrong becoz he was in a hurry to marry siya and druv.he didnt wanted to give time to druv becoz he was afraid druv would be double minded. and summit knew that druv will only be happy with siya.so in a way he was right as he knew happiness of druv and was taking a decision on his part. but he should gave druv some time.....to sort everything....rather than taking decision SO FAST and implementing his decision on every body force fully.

kum kum...she always believe key rishtoon ko unka haq milna chahea kahein GUNNAH na ho jayee. for that reason and 2nd reason is OM. for the previous druv antra relationship(husband and wife) and for sake of OM....kum kum was not happy....her soul was telling her, key kuch ghalat ho rha hei. so even she kept quiet yet she was always tensed and not participated in marriage of her sons.later both sharman and druv saw their mom tensed(NOT HAPPY)and decided to be on her side.both didnt realize that kk would still be unhappy and tensed on if druv marries antra.becoz this problem had no cure....but to wait and take right decision. But sumit had taken this opportunity away from every body.kk fault was that she did not force sumit for more time, becoz she knew the consequences of taking fast decision could be disastrous for the family.but again she was helpless in front of summit. anyway....

now siya, her main fault was crossing limit be4 marriage. and she feels proud of wat she done she says it as "PYAR KI NISHANI". no matter how much modern we become yet crossing limits be4 marriage is NOT ACCEPTABLE.and they are potraying it like an HONOUR. there is a DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A FRIEND AND A LOVER, SIMILARLY BETWEEN A LOVER AND A WIFE. every relationship has it's boundries,which should not be crossed.SIYA knew DRUV was drunk yet she did not run away, neither did she STOP HIM. again SIYA'S FAULT here is MORE than DRUV'S FAULT.

SIYA'S 2nd major fault, is when sharman put sindhoor in her maang y was she QUIET....when all rasam's were going on y did she follow all those rasams. y she contributed in all that....Y DIDNT she refuse to MARRY SHARMAN THEN.dont say becoz outsiders or people were there . becoz even AFTER they went still she participated in wedding contributions quietly.it seems she accepted sharman as her husband.wat's the point of EXAGERRATING AFTER WORDS or RUNNING FROM HOME.IT WOULD BE BETTER THAT SHE WOULD NOT HAVE MARRIED SHARMAN IN THE 1ST PLACE,NO MATTER WHAT." I HAVE THE RIGHT TO DO ABOUT MY LIFE AND WHO TO CHOOSE." Y DIDNT SHE SAY THAT ON MANDIT.??? it was right she didnt get the opportunity to speak or decide her fate, sharman and druv decided siya's fate, BUT SHE SHOULD HAVE THE GUTS TO SPEAK-UP THEN RATHER THAN CREATING A BIGGER FUSS AFTER MARRIAGE.

SIYA 3RD MISTAKE, LOVE IS SELFISH.people can do anything to get their love...when druv decided not to marry siya becoz of antra's child...she should have known that druv dont know and have pulled him aside and should have told him her pregnency secret,IN HIS EARS.even if druv decided to marry siya becoz of her kid ....STILL SIYA WOULD HAVE GOT DRUV...as i said, LOVE IS SELFISH.SIYA WOULD HAVE DRUV one way or the other.BUT SHE DINT EVEN TRY.

now DRUV. druv 1st mistake to make sia pregnent...(yet siya is more involved becoz druv was drunk).anyway,druv 2nd mistake is not to take initiative. he should have told summit that he wants more time to think rather than hurting everyone and shattering their dreams in the mandit. druv had to take a decision that would do justice on antra, him ,siya and his kid....there should be balance. if he cant find the solution then he should have said to sharman to do his marriage 1st with neti while he still needs MORE TIME to take a decision.

1 decision could be that antra takes divorce but for sake of child stays with wadwa family, while druv and siya get married.( that could be 1 possibility), there could be other options which i cant think of at the moment. any way...

in short druv decision was the main point of the story......BUT HE TOOK WRONG DECISION AT THE WRONG TIME, closing his EYEZzzz from the after effects or the chain REACTION of the decision.looking at OM'S face he got emotional. and broke siya's,neti,sharman, summit and every1's heart.

now about SHARMAN.though every 1 must be blaming DRUV the most but i personally BLAME SHARMAN the most. i have already discussed about sharman in my " kum kum,sumit and 2 brothers" topic which i posted on 4th dec. sharman was the only 1 after siya who knew about siya's baby....when druv decided not to marry siya becoz of his son with antra, Y DIDNT SHARMAN TAKE DRUV ASIDE AND TOLD ABOUT SIYA'S PREGNENCY secretly. if he could get SOOO EMOTIONAL THAT HE COULD LEAVE NETI HIS LOVE and put sundhur on SIYA...Y CANT he MOVE DRUV ASIDE AND TOLD HIM SECRET. WHAT'S THE POINT OF SHARMAN KNOWING THE SECRET IF HE DOESNT USE IT ON THE RIGHT TIME.WHAT'S THE POINT OF SHOWING THE TICKET AFTER AEROPLANE HAS GONE???. knowing everything , sharman delibrately KEPT QUIET and put sundhur on siya.and when he was married he REVEALED THE SECRET LATER. THAT'S SHARMAN'S BIGGEST MISTAKE. if sharman wouldve told the secret then druv would have married SIYA FOR SURE AND sharman would have married neti, BY HOOK OR BY CROOK.at least they would be left to face 20% problems rather than facing 80% problems(now).

sharman is feeling bad for druv for caring for siya, he says y did u broke siya's heart. some body say to sharman WHO THE HELL IS HE TO FEEL PAIN FOR SIYA IF HE CANT FEEL THE PAIN HE GAVE TO NETI. sharman should look at his character rather than pointing fingers at druv's character.what sharman did to neti he does not deserve to talk about anyone else's love.

I AM SORRY, I HAVE NO SYMPATHIES FOR SHARMAN. what so ever.everybody favouring sharman becoz he did it for family's sake and becoz of ghar ki IZZAT. he had ANOTHER OPTION TO SAVE THAT IZZAT BY TELLING DRUV THE "SECRET". but he did not choose that option. instead he made every one's life miserable.SHARMAN didnt even bother to try the other option. HE delibrately choose a path which would END HIS LOVE WITH NETI AND WOULD PUT WHOLE WADWA FAMILY IN SORROWS.HE FORCEFULLY MARRIED SIYA,WITHOUT EVEN TAKING SIYA'S PERMISSION OR SIYA KNOWING WAT IS HAPPENING......and he FORGOT ALL HIS OWN PROMISES WITH NETI THAT HE MADE. HE DONT DESERVE TO TELL ANY BODY.DRUV'S FEELING FOR HIS CHILD BECAME MORE THAN HIS FEELINGS FOR SIYA(BECOZ CHILD IS HIS OWN BLOOD, HIS OWN SON) . BUT I ASK EVERY1 IN THIS FORUM TO ANSWER MY QUESTIONS????? AND DECIDE.

WHY SHARMAN FEELING FOR SIYA,BECAME MUCH MUCH MORE THAN SHARMAN FEELING FOR NEETI???

DID SHARMAN DID JUSTICE WITH SIYA OR NETI??? KNOWING EVERYTHING?

DID SHARMAN EXPLAIN TO DRUV'S that he is going to be father of siya's child, on RIGHT TIME?

NO, he was tensed that druv is breaking siya's heart and he brooke heart of siya and neeti.

SO DRUV BROKE ONLY 1 HEART I.E. OF SIYA, WHERE AS SHARMAN HE BROKE HEART OF SIYA AND NETI. wat ever he did was wrong??? it is becoz of sharman that sumit had to face humiliation and sumit's promise broke in front of SIYA.what ever sharman told was wrong. and i cant forgive sharman on just 1 base that was FAMILY KI IZZAT.remember MOSI bud-dua is on the wadwa's house,so how can they be happy??? u know y? becoz of SHARMAN.what he did to NETI. sharman doesnt himself know meaning of love...how can he teach druv the meaning of love.I agree DRUV DID BAD but on the other hand SHARMAN DID WORSE.

it is 2007 and today NO girl would compromise on force full marriage(atleast most wont). in old times they used to but not now.they dont care if they get divorced or they remain single for life time.but the society cant push girls as slaves and decide their fate and on the other hand expect them to be quiet and compromise all their life time NOT BEING HAPPY and NOT HAVING RIGHT TO CHOOSE OR ANY PERSONAL OPINION, JUST BECOZ OF so called KHANDAN KI IZZAT.

sorry if i hurt anybody,from my comments but thats exactly HOW I FEEL.among everybody i think mainly, IT IS SHARMAN'S FAULT.and believe me i wont forgive him for the sake of so called, KHANDAN KI IZZAT. for me HAPPINESS MATTERS THE MOST.I wont sacrifise ANY GIRL'S HAPPINESS,her individual identity,her point of view(personal opinion),her personality for the cost of so called KHANDAN KI IZZAT.

But then the same can b said about Sumit also when he married Kumkum thus breaking both Kumkum and Renuka's trust on him because don't forget that time Kumkum also was Sumit just very good friend 😉

See the point here is on what Circumstances Sharman married Siya...and Sharman thought that despite knowing about Siya's pregnency,Dhruv is refusing to marry her (Sharman thought that Dhruv has already seen Siya's letter about her pregnency, then why will he take Dhruv aside and say the same thing again) ..and so in a puzzled state he had to marry Siya not just to save his family's reputation but to even save Siya's father from Embarassment 😊 ..whereas Neeti's future was not at stake like Siya sinse Neeti was not carrying Sharman's child and so Sharman had to take this harsh decision 😳

I know Sharman did injustice to Neeti but then even Dhruv was completely wrong when he said that if he knew Siya was pregnent then he would hv married her 😕 ..Now what does that mean?? 😕 This Means Dhruv's love for Siya was only limited to starting a family with her which can prove that he is a man and when he saw that he already has a family in the form of OM then he left Siya for that just because he was interested in someone who can carry his name forward 😊 ..

So I think out of all the four ,Its actually Dhruv who is responsible for this entire Mess

Between Superb Analysis 👏 ..I really liked reading your Point of View 😛

lovely anlysis and loved reading your point of view.

just wanted to add that Dhruv and Siya should not have crossed their limits because Dhruv still was a much married man but estranged

Dhruv and Sharman took their decision on their own not because Kumkum was unhappy, it was just that their consciene felt that is right at that time.

Sharman came last,poor guy, if time was given and everyone took their decision in time Sharman would not have faced all this today.

Anyway seeing the way Kumkum Sumit love story took a beautiful turn, hope so Sharman-Siya too can do it

loved ur analysis.
bt of all dhr is at major fault

druv said key he would have married siya if he would have known about her pregnency.this means that he does care about the child that is his son.he doesnt want that child to grow up tommorow not knowing who his father is.this is exactly the reason why he didnt marry siya,because OM would grow up and ask for who his father was and y he left him behind. but with 2 children,1 from siya and 1 from antra, as he loves siya,he would have preferred siya.and dont forget,it was kk who made druv realize about his responsibility as a father,just when he was going to marry siya.
about sharman...when druv refused to marry siya,sharman said,bhai aap siya key sath aisa nahi kar saktey. u cant break siya's heart.so wat??? didnt druv knew that his decision would break siya's heart. then y did sharman repeat it. JUST TO MAKE DRUV REALISE, sharman had to say it then. if he could get sooo emotional, if he could repeat common things, then wat's the point of not repeating the most important thing.from druv's decision of not marrying becoz of child, sharman must have suspected that something is wrong and druv might not know about siya's pregnency.i am not supporting druv,but siya and sharman say things at wrong times,when nothing can be done about it.siya exagerrated after getting married quietly and piecefully and sharman didnt made druv realise in 1st place(when he should have).people(outsiders)doesnt know abt siya's pregnency,so for them it's same either siya or neti goes out of marriage mandat(same humiliation either neti goes or siya goes).but sharman choosed siya. WHERE IS SHARMAN LOVE FOR NETI.so sharman cared about siya more than neti,to go out of mandat crying.he just visited her once and that too becoz of mosi.we cant make everybody happy in this world(so dont care about outsiders much),just make them happy who are more close to us.sharman wud have married neti and should have tried his best to make druv realize taking him aside. ATLEAST HE SHOULD'VE TRIED,and thought twice be4 breaking neti's heart.
thanx for appreciating my point of view 😛, believe me there is more depth in this story then u may think.all characters are puppets to writters.let's C wat writters have in mind 😕