Abhi and his words

I just came across clips from the separation episode and just realized Abhi said some really awful stuff.

I mean asking her to name the price for their daughters? Like after the approx 11 years of knowing her he STILL even in his irrational stupid brain thought Pragya would choose MONEY over her kids?

Even if It was Pragya’s mistake (which it wasn’t) she didn’t go and murder her daughter. It was a mistake? To separate a new born baby from a mother is crazy.

Also keeping in mind (this is my realistic mind coming in and of course the logic can’t possibly apply to this show because the writers are incapable of using logic or depth in their stories) Pragya had just given birth a few days ago. I’m pretty sure a woman’s hormones take a while to settle down even after pregnancy. Add to that she had a mature pregnacy as in she’s meant to be at least 38 post 7 year leap and to have given birth to twins. She was practically running around the next day.

With all of that in mind along with the fact that she had lost her daughter, the child she raised alone for 7 years, her words can still be passed off but Abhi? What’s his excuse?

I’m not saying it’s easy for a father to lose their child but it is naturally hard on a mother. A father only becomes a father when the child is born and he holds him or her for the first time but a woman becomes a mother the moment she feels the first symptoms of a pregnancy. She carried her daughter in her body for 9 months, that’s incomparable everywhere.

Between the two of them Pragya’s claim’s were definitely more valid. And yet Abhi now has the audacity to resent her? Wonder why she never came back? I’m sorry what even....?

Also, as i said, separating a new born baby from his or her mother is cruel and Pragya was underhandedly forced to make the decision. I’m sorry but no woman in her sound mind would stay with her husband after hearing that kind of crap from him. It just isn’t possible.

Any mother put through this kind of situation would likely go mad. I mean just imagine every time your child cries, needs feeding she’d think of her child who is being deprived of the same nourishment and love.

I have clearly put too much thought into this but *sighs my mind can’t help it. I don’t have any hopes for Abhi’s realization but UGH the loopholes will drive me insane. I am definitely going to need to write out my version in which it makes more sense.

I had stopped watching the show since long before. So I'm not aware of the dumb things abhi has done or said in the last 5 years of the show. But I do know that in terms of characterization, abhi is far worse than pragya. The only problem I have with pragya is that shw's a pushover, lets everyone treat as a doormat in the name of love. Like the fact that she let her husband freely roam around with his mistress after marriage ( even if it was a loveless and arrange marriage no woman shall bear this kind of treatment ). She lets her emotions get the best of her and goes back to the man who time and time again insulted her, did not believe her and accused of many things.

But Abhi, his character for me is only likeable because of Prachi otherwise during initial episodes he was not a male lead for me but a comic reliefe and possible love interest of the female lead ( though the idea really grossed me for many reasons but still ). He's a thaali ka baingun kabhi idhr kabhi udhr. Still lives with the same sister who always ruined his life and even lets her raise his daughter and rule the house like what the hell man ? In one scene he's shown having remorse and wanting to be with oragya badly but the next moment he's all about blaming her for every single thing gone wrong in his life. Cannot even man up enough to own all his wrong doings and thier result. There are many reasons I dislike him but this rant is getting too long.

Originally posted by: misfit007

I just came across clips from the separation episode and just realized Abhi said some really awful stuff.

I mean asking her to name the price for their daughters? Like after the approx 11 years of knowing her he STILL even in his irrational stupid brain thought Pragya would choose MONEY over her kids?

Even if It was Pragya’s mistake (which it wasn’t) she didn’t go and murder her daughter. It was a mistake? To separate a new born baby from a mother is crazy.

Also keeping in mind (this is my realistic mind coming in and of course the logic can’t possibly apply to this show because the writers are incapable of using logic or depth in their stories) Pragya had just given birth a few days ago. I’m pretty sure a woman’s hormones take a while to settle down even after pregnancy. Add to that she had a mature pregnacy as in she’s meant to be at least 38 post 7 year leap and to have given birth to twins. She was practically running around the next day.

With all of that in mind along with the fact that she had lost her daughter, the child she raised alone for 7 years, her words can still be passed off but Abhi? What’s his excuse?

I’m not saying it’s easy for a father to lose their child but it is naturally hard on a mother. A father only becomes a father when the child is born and he holds him or her for the first time but a woman becomes a mother the moment she feels the first symptoms of a pregnancy. She carried her daughter in her body for 9 months, that’s incomparable everywhere.

Between the two of them Pragya’s claim’s were definitely more valid. And yet Abhi now has the audacity to resent her? Wonder why she never came back? I’m sorry what even....?

Also, as i said, separating a new born baby from his or her mother is cruel and Pragya was underhandedly forced to make the decision. I’m sorry but no woman in her sound mind would stay with her husband after hearing that kind of crap from him. It just isn’t possible.

Any mother put through this kind of situation would likely go mad. I mean just imagine every time your child cries, needs feeding she’d think of her child who is being deprived of the same nourishment and love.

I have clearly put too much thought into this but *sighs my mind can’t help it. I don’t have any hopes for Abhi’s realization but UGH the loopholes will drive me insane. I am definitely going to need to write out my version in which it makes more sense.

They'll never show abhi realise how wrong he was. Even with blaming her for dadi's death he still never realised how he blamed pragya for it without it being her fault and simply wanted to forget it, yet when this time he got angry again over kiara's death he brought the whole dadi death blame back to the table to throw in pragya's face. It's always pragya to be blamed for every bad thing even when it's actually enemies of abhi that do all this stuff. Conveniently he uses pragya as his scapegoat when things go wrong but never realises that he is blaming her for something that was in no way her fault or that he was at fault in any way. And yes I saw that scene and was utterly disgusted at abhi offering pragya money to give up both her daughters. Despicable! A mother always is more connected to children than fathers, and a mother has more right on a child as she is the one not only to carry and give birth to the child, but is also the primary care giver of the child, so for he and for other male leads (Yes I've seen this track played out on other itv couples) to always act like their pain of losing their child is greater than the mother's then kicking the mother of his child out of his life and acting like a victim more than the mother is pathetic.

Sigh. Yes. Everything you said. right on point. It was heartless of him to not stop her from leaving. His grief couldn't have been greater than Pragya's. Yes, he did love Kiara, tried his best to save her and no one is questioning that. But the way he just turned on Pragya the moment she started blaming him. And all the things he said to her. Unacceptable.Where was his empathy? Why couldn't he understand that she was lashing out in grief? Isn't she allowed even that?

After conceiving 2 babies and losing one daughter. All in one week. After everything he put her through, the least he could have done was take the blame and let her lash out. Shut up and listen to her. Support her and console her. But no. He just allowed her to leave. In the night. With an infant. Without even knowing where she would go, what she would do. His ego takes precedence over everything. Don't even get me started on the whole talk of money. 🤢

In that episode where he meets Disha at Pragya's home, he said how he was ready to live with Pragya even after Kiara's death. He made it sound like he was doing her a favour. He's never trying to put himself in her shoes and think about her. It's always about him. 🤔

Am seeing some signs of repentance in Abhi but he needs to do a lot more to win over Pragya this time around. Clearly, am way too invested in Abhigya. 😭

R u guys seriously looking in depth in this nonsensical serial? Does it make sense? I mean an educated woman allows her husband to be with his mistress in their own bedroom and goes about protecting him when his grandma comes calling. Then we have this Purab guy who loves someone but who dies conveniently but the rich snobbish sister gets away with it. He goes and married someone, but in a new leap is shown with the vamp again. Then in between we have one leap. Daughter dear dies for another separation and another leap. Now new protagonist is constantly being framed and humiliated by new vamp, but still pines for daddy dear. Later she will become another main protagonist avtaar and sacrifice her life and love for second vamp.

If u really want to see, see for acting of the actors. This is beyond redemption. I initially saw for Sriti coz loved her in SB, then BV. Now watching for Mugdha.

People have invested emotionally in the main characters Abhi-Pragya over the years and are analysing some of their actions. We know it has been a shitshow for sometime but once you get attached to the characters, you can't help but analyse. It's fine if you don't want to. I don't think you should tell people not to.

Originally posted by: Janas2017

R u guys seriously looking in depth in this nonsensical serial? Does it make sense? I mean an educated woman allows her husband to be with his mistress in their own bedroom and goes about protecting him when his grandma comes calling. Then we have this Purab guy who loves someone but who dies conveniently but the rich snobbish sister gets away with it. He goes and married someone, but in a new leap is shown with the vamp again. Then in between we have one leap. Daughter dear dies for another separation and another leap. Now new protagonist is constantly being framed and humiliated by new vamp, but still pines for daddy dear. Later she will become another main protagonist avtaar and sacrifice her life and love for second vamp.

If u really want to see, see for acting of the actors. This is beyond redemption. I initially saw for Sriti coz loved her in SB, then BV. Now watching for Mugdha.

Okay so I only ever really saw this show during Kiara track, but Tanu was abhi’s mistress and abhi had sexual relations with her even after marrying Pragya? What!

Don't know about that. But there were some scenes in the beginning wherein they were in a room together and this idiot Pragya was shown telling AT, that Dadi is coming. Something like that. Now let us take it as implied. I am not Sati Savitri Indian like these TV shows🤪🤪🤪🤪

Originally posted by: Janas2017

Don't know about that. But there were some scenes in the beginning wherein they were in a room together and this idiot Pragya was shown telling AT, that Dadi is coming. Something like that. Now let us take it as implied. I am not Sati Savitri Indian like these TV shows🤪🤪🤪🤪

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Originally posted by: sammy17

Okay so I only ever really saw this show during Kiara track, but Tanu was abhi’s mistress and abhi had sexual relations with her even after marrying Pragya? What!

Abhi didn't have sexual relations with Tanu after marriage but, yes, she was his girlfriend almost all the time. Pragya knew and accepted it. And loved him.🤷🤦🙈