Good morning girls !!!
Thanks Ann❤️. It was not that late of a day yesterday, but I was upset watching yesterday's episode, didn't care to write😳. These are my two cents.
LA, can I say 🤗, you hit the nail squarely in the head👍🏼 with what you said. An average Jane like me is counting DAY # 58-59, NO REMORSE, NO GUILT💔👎🏼.
I may have said this sometime back, but I am going to say this again. The USP of this show had always been that Abhi, Pragya will be a married couple all the time and whether I like it or not, it is all about how Abhi would try to stray away from the marriage and how he is tethered to the marriage and Pragya either because of his own sense of belonging or that others ( read Pragya, Purab and daadi) or bhagya helps him to stay tethered. So in a sense, they created a show which made us believe in that Abhi, Pragya cannot be separated EVER from their matrimony either because of their love, sense of belonging or bhagya. This is what kept us all at the edge of our seats, so to speak.
The biggest drawback now which I am not able to digest is the fact that after 4 years of unbelievable struggles, they made him take that morally indefensible step of willfully mxxx the vomit against whom both of them fought, tooth and nail😡👎🏼💔 How do you defend a guy who had taken this extreme step EVEN after knowing everything about the vomit, sans her hand in daadi's death? How can you be blind to this fact, mind you, for not one day, one month or 5 months, but for a long 7 years? What happens to him when he finally comes to know of this fact, forget about his marriage to Pragya. BUT TO HIM, knowing that he aided, abetted, boarded, clothed and gave dignity to this scum in his house and life while throwing away an unbelievable gem from his life to fend for herself with no resources, no family support, alone, broken and pregnant? 😭 Aren't these the issues that are worth exploring rather than the nonsense they are feeding us?
I got enraged at the precap, yesterday and of course the whole episode. The stranger woman saying " jhagada" and Pragya remembering those horrific words. Sorry, writers, it is NO JHAGADA😡👎🏼. Everybody preaching her as if she is putting her ego, her hurt ahead of their relationship is absolutely preposterous😡 "Aakhir jhagada kis liye" had me hopping mad. Lady, you be in her shoes and have the same words said to your face and then I want to see what your response would be😡🤢How come it is only Pragya who remembers those heart-stabbing words? Will Abhi ever reminisce what he had done/said and more importantly HER FACE when he was saying all that ?😡Meanwhile, he is taking a moral high road and trying to shame her😡? Like how? When? Where is this even acceptable?
They have revealed to us that Pragya remains single, as a friend to King and with her child calling King her " dad". OK, I can twist myself to understand this, she has taken the support of her friend, when she needed it desperately. Mind you, I still get irritated when she falsifies information. But how do I defend/support/understand Abhi? He is made to tell us that he had willfully mxxx the vomit😡👎🏼 to FORGET PRAGYA. So for all practical purposes, like LA said he is not free or single👎🏼💔. Understand why Pragya doesn't want to engage with him, as HE IS TAKEN, she wants to maintain an emotional and physical distance. But why is he following her around, why does he want to know what she feels for him, whether she feels like he gave him the care, concern or happiness ever or not. What difference does it make? If she agrees that he is the best husband possible, what does he get out of this? More importantly, what does SHE get ? His ego gets satisfied? Is that it? No, I really don't understand😕. If she admits he is the best husband possible, then is he in a position to reconcile with her in the role of a HUSBAND? Nahin naa? So why this nonsense from his side? LA, like you put it , it riled me up, I am not enjoying his physical proximity with Pragya anymore, as my mind keeps screaming "YOU HAVE A VOMIT IN THE ROLE OF YOUR WXXX IN YOUR HOUSE", and so STAY AWAY😡😭.
Nor am I enjoying the father-daughter scenes😡, because they don't seem like father-daughter interactions😡. He is not the adult in the relationship and a 7 year old is trying to preach a 40 year old about the ways of life. He remains forever clueless👎🏼 On the contrary, just watch how King interacts with Kiara. That scene where he eats a piece of food from her plate or the way he patronizes Kiara, absolutely natural, normal and heart warming❤️. This is not to say I want King and Pragya romantic alliance, I think that relationship is cemented as friends and I don't see any boundaries being crossed beyond friendship👍🏼❤️🤗and I love it.
Like I kept saying immediately post-leap, that I am here to have my last laugh, I wanted to see Abhi creamed because of all the selfish, inane utterances towards her. But now I understand, I may not actually get it😒. Because I failed to see that between the dumb, selfish RS and his failure is a frail manhoos girl standing absorbing all the manhoosiyat and will never let that happen😭💔. I hoped to see her being detached enough because of what he said and how he replaced her and not to care/interfere with his wrong doings as he needs to be shown what the consequences are. But again, I will not get this🤢👎🏼.
Sorry Annie, to unload here. Something LA said has touched a nerve😲