One sided heart to heart connection?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't think i even need to elaborate anything here. But i guess i will anyways. Pragya can feel Abhi is in danger even when she is in coma. And Abhi cannot even feel that the person standing next to him with a completely different accent and who doesn't want to stay near him might not be Pragya. CVs why do you write characters like this? What about heart to heart connections? How can they be one sided? I seriously don't blame Abhi or Munni here. My question is completely for the writers and i am blaming them. Why are they not writing scenes where Abhi might just look in Munni's eyes and feel that Pragya's love and innocence is missing. Arre anything like that. But no we are instead seeing eyelocks with Munni too. And sadly we will have to bear another heartbreak because Munni is falling for Abhi. I hope they stop it just to 'liking' and nothing more.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Mitu, I felt very sad as I read this post of yours.
To be honest, I am cringing and it is sickening as I read the updates these days. I was on cloud 9 last week when I read about Pragya being alive and logged in to watch but was unable to watch since that time as I don't like what is transpiring. Now I understand that they dangled unconscious Pragya as a carrot for us😔

I ask the same question to the writers, Mitu. What the hell are they doing ? They want to butcher Abhi's character yet again😔. I didn't have the heart to blame the poor guy till now as he was a grieving husband who seemingly was in denial. But this is now becoming a little too much for me that he can't recognize the love of his life that too after what they have gone through till now.

No blame on Munni at all from my stand point. As we don't know anything about her personality so far, such as what she wants for herself, her outlook on life, her moral compass etc. All we know is that she takes care of the kids and that is really it. Just because she looks like Pragya, we can't assume she has Pragya's heart of kindness even to evil, her understanding, her habit of putting others before herself, or wishing for Abhi's happiness whatever be the cost is for heršŸ’” . For all that we know, Munni may be somebody who wants a cushy life, she can be bedazzled by the riches and the endearing RS both of which she might want for herself . My point is " who knows" what she wants. So I can't blame her if she is falling for Abhi, Pragya's husband and wants him for herself. In other words, I have no expectations from Munni to be safe guarding the sanctity of Abhi, Pragya marriage for Pragya to come back and take overšŸ’”

But what about Abhi? For all these years, I kept believing and preaching to everybody that Abhi didn't love Pragya for her physical appearance, but what is within her, her golden heart and the " very essence of Pragya". When that essence is missing in Munni, why isn't there any investigation whatsoever? I am so saddened by this. Pragya can be replaced by a look alike after all these years of so called " dil ka rishta" and nobody will even know😭 and nobody will even miss heršŸ˜­šŸ’” . She is somewhere unconscious, fighting for her life and not her mother, not her husband has any inkling of it😭

If this is the case all the identical twins should be shaking in their shoes as their significant others' can't even recognize who is who. My hubby should be one of them. My now 7 year old, when she was about 5 months old, willingly let her uncle ( hubby's identical twin ) pick her up, she stared at him for less than a min before she started wailing to be put down. Fortunately, there is such a thing called instinct in all living things. The writers are butchering this very quality in Abhi which is sickening😔

I just hope they have a solid reason as to why they are doing this. Otherwise, imagine what Pragya has to go through. She wakes up from her comatose/ almost dead state after 2 months and then has to get right into saving/protecting her husband from whoever wants to snag him😔😔. I am just grossed out by this. I don't know what the writers really want for the viewers to take away from this. They are for sure turning people away from being in love with your spouse so singlemindedly and unconditionally as you might have to be ever protective of this said husband from vamps, witches, look alikes 😔😲. I can't imagine a parent having to protect their child like this, let alone a wife

Sorry Mitu, for unloading. I haven't been watching, so please excuse any discrepancies. I don't know when I can watch again
Edited by mili9 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I get you, Mitushi. Lot of things are completely off in this track. For me the first heart to heart connection that's missing is from Sarla ma. She does not find it weird that her daughter can change so much in just a month. Even ro-dadi, her own grandmother, does not find her different. At least writers could have given them a few lines wondering why Pragya is different after the shooting.

I see Abhi as someone who's so much in love with his wife that he's not suspicious anymore. His relationship with her started with wrong suspicions of her as a gold digger. And then he tested her after Pragya rejected his proposal first time, and then again when he tested her as mugambo. I thought all that was quite harsh. I'm actually glad he's different now. He trusts her so much and when she says she's not feeling well and wants some time to re-connect with him, I'm glad he respected her wishes even if it's for the wrong woman!! And when I really look at Munni, she does not come across as someone totally different from Pragya. So far she's never been rude or hateful to Abhi. If she insulted him or hurt his feelings then maybe he'll wonder.

I don't know what this track is about. Some are predicting that mubhigya may be a love triangle. I'm not looking forward to that. I won't be surprised if writers make Abhi believe Munni is his wife and Pragya is not. That'll be super drama, but not sure how much I'll like that.😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Mili, i agree with what you said. I really want to watch kkb daily but cvs are not giving me any reason to do so. I am not watching myself but i do want to know after every episode that if there is any improvement and should i start rewatching again. I am not ready to give up on AbhiGya and cvs are forcing me to quit. This is supposed to be a love story. All i see is a one sided connection. :(
Prani, i agree with the Sarla Ma thing. She didn't cared to visit Pragya in MM to see whether Pragya who survived a gunshot is good or not. But for Disha she is running back and forth from MM to AH. It might be a small thing but for me it is disappointing. Regarding Abhi, i really don't want to blame him now. His character has been butchered many times by cvs and i guess they r doing the same this time. I do agree that he was so good from the beginning and still is. He is being understanding and nice and i cannot blame him. But as a viewer i am expecting him to just stay away from Munni because of no connection right now. Well when they can show souls coming out of the body and romancing then what i am saying is much more logical. It is just for the writers.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thanks for this post Mitu!

I don't want Abhi to start suspecting Munni all of a sudden just because she's being Unfuggy. He's being good and respects her decisions without sulking that Pragya doesn't babysit him (sorry but I feel Pragya actually babysits him sometimes!) like before. That's šŸ‘šŸ¼ He puts asides his emotions and gives space to her. But yeah he could have talked about her reason for suicide or taken her to hospital. There's always something better that could be done. I may be disappointed a bit but I am upset with him. What I expect him is just feel that something is wrong with his wife or atleast get some vibes that she's in trouble. I just want him to feel uneasy. Not expecting him to find its Munni or anything of that sort but I am wishing writers could make him feel tensed or uncomfortable for some unknown reason. Pragya could sense his trouble even when she's in coma while his heart doesn't tell him that something is wrong. It does look one sided right now.

P.S. I share your and Prani's opinions with regards to Sarla Maa. :(
Edited by -Nive- - 8 years ago

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