Abhigya OS:Am i important to anyone????

Originally posted by: hutanbandar

Aytac...don't kill Pragya babe. Kill Tanu instead😆😆😆. Anyway, this is quite emotional. Poor Pragya.

Originally posted by: mili9

Hi Aytac. I guess you wrote this because of current situation with Pragya.

" Am I important to anyone " is such a profound question. Who is she NOT important to is the more pertinent question.

She is the most important person to herself. She is the ONLY ONE of her kind available in this world, there is no other clone like her.

She is the most important person to her mother who already lost a child to such foolishness, her elderly grandmother who is depending on her for her survival and her Janaki amma. For them, she is the world.

She is the most important person to all of her students whom she can teach right from wrong and in effect make their life. This can amount to tens of thousands of students.

And she can make herself the most important person to many more. How about that orphaned child sitting clueless either as a cast away on the roadside or in an orphanage, unable to comprehend what his/her state is and with no means to protect herself/himself or survive. She can be the world to that child if she chose to. And to those victims of violence, abuse, war and what not.

In what way is her condition worse than for example: the Delhi rape victim, or that orphan, or that disabled elderly couple who were casted away by their children, who had no say in what happened to them and who had no means to support or protect themselves?

I think we are talking about Abhi here. Even for Abhi, she was important as Fuggy, his wife and his love and now to ML Abhi she is important as his secretary. Just not his love interest. But this lost love should never drive her to the brink of death by any means.

Do we think she will get rid of her sadness by doing this? But who will she be punishing by ending her life? Her mother, elderly grand mother and her Janaki amma? If and when Abhi regains memory, then him? If he doesn't ever regain memory, then what, a moment of grief and then he moves on? How long will that guilt last for him ? With time, the guilt will go away too. But what about her mother and grand mother? Will they ever recover from their loss?

Unfortunately, I see so many family members who live in a constant night-mare after losing their family members to suicide. This is something no one, I mean no one, including the person who committed suicide would like to inflict on their loved ones if only they knew what the aftermath is like . Sorry, if I came too strong, Aytac. I just couldn't keep quiet, I had to put in my word on this malady which is taken so lightly by our societies. I know there are a lot of young members in the forum, so I just had to share my experience, even if one person changes their mind about suicide as a solution to problems, I will be extremely happy😃.

So when that moment overwhelms her, she should go hug her mom tight for 10 min, get angry instead getting quiet and sad ( I don't care at who, may be even Abhi😉 ), so her adrenaline gets going and her fight and flight response kicks in, watch SRK-Kajol movies, or Laurel and Hardy if that is her fancy, talk a true friend like Purab and let that moment slip by. But let us not give suicide or ending life as an option or solution to Pragya, ourselves or anyone for that matter.

Excuse me guys, if that is too long of a lecture😊😊Any one of you is welcome to talk to me if you have any questions.