Abhi and Daadi - Page 2

Originally posted by: kubare

Raji exactly one expects Wisdom from elders...but its not necessary the the Elders will always show or Despenser it...sometimes its the young minds who show more Wisdom...

Thus as I said she's Abhi's dadi...so his could one expect any better from her...This runs in the Mehra Family...😉

Yes guys i feel the same dadi wants to save abhi from his enemies for that she has risked pragya's life despite how aliya is .it was dadi's plan to provoke aliya by talking about her marriage now look because of dadi pragya's life in danger.for the one who pragya did all this he doesn't even care .now also abhi is searching pragya to save his family

Abhi started to hurt Pragya because he believes she was bad, destroyed his sister's life, destroyed his family's image etc. (when Purab ran away). Abhi never tried to hurt Daadi whom he loved.





Here, Daadi and Pragya are in a plan together, and hurting even Sarla Maa.

It's not even comparable.

Originally posted by: kulsum_5

Nadia you did it..😲😆
always i had issues with abhi and still i have...😉
abhigya relationship came this long is only because of pragya and it is because of her patience and hope. she always had faith on her kumkum and love and the best ever part of pragya is she will never judge people on their outer reaction. she has capability to find inner goodness and that's why she loved abhi.

Dadi and abhi are the same?
In a way they are the same..

After all they are dadi and pota but this way.. May be not..

Abhi lied and cheated dadi for her happiness.he freaked out and panicked for her health.
In the process abhi dint hurt dadi, he made her happy.
Here abhi is crying and he is hurt.

Abhi dint make Pragya a scapegoat and watch Tamasha behind her back.he was bashed sometimes but Pragya was always loved by all. Though he dint love her he dint make other hate her.
Dadi made that to happen.
She made everyone to hate Pragya including her mom and she is acting nice..she is playing double game.


Dadi risked Pragya life, abhi risked his life..

Abhi lied with the fear of dadi health and dadi is lying for revenge.

So I don't think wat both are doing are the same..

Originally posted by: -Tia-

I disagree to this. Pragya did not understand Abhi's heart on his outer reaction. He was very transparent all along and made it clear to her what he is. He hardly ever lied to her.. never really kept her under MUs. He told her very early on he wont' do bad to any girl and hates her only because she is a cheater!!

She only started appreciating him/falling for him when he did nice things for her.. such as fighting a lecher man in the restaurant, helping her Maa saving KB hall etc.

Who will not love a man who saves everyone's life in your family and helps you out of financial troubles?

Even recently Pragya didn't understand that Abhi does not want Tannu (when she left him). She was thinking he will be happy with Tannu. Nor did she have any sixth sense to feel Abhi is not the baby daddy. Not that I expected her to know he is not the baby daddy, I deffo expected her to know he soo doesn't want Tannu in his life.

AbhiGya relationship has come this long not just because of Pragya, but because of Abhi too. He did so many positive things for Pragya and Pragya's family and never ever let her go. She left him against his wish. He still hasn't let go of Fuggy despite everything.

they were many small incidents too Tia which showed abhi is not cruel and bad but he is nice..

Abhi saying sorry for talking bad about that sweater sarla maa gave..
Abhi not drinking because tad will hurt her..
Etc.. He is a open book..

Lol she loved him after he saved her mothers hall and went to jail..
Wat of he dint she her hall? Will she love him.. May be yes..

Where as abhi doesn't have 1 big reason to love Pragya.
He slowly and steadily discovered her true self and loved her.
Late in realisation but it's not easy for him because she was/ is a mystery too him

We have such strong opinions on this topic😊! Makes it interesting!

Originally posted by: Cerealgirl

We have such strong opinions on this topic😊! Makes it interesting!

I thought about this and wanted to share this about deception and its effects. There are 3 parents/grandparents in the love triangle.

Dadi -Abhi-Alia. Sarla ma-Pragya. Tanu- Mehtas

Mehra adult kids + Mehra adult kid plotted to ruin Arora adult kid.

Mehra and Mehta "adult kids" (sounds weird to call them that!) did not tell their grandparent/parents about this and got Abhi married to Pragya. So Mehra/Mehta adult kids deceived their grandparent, parents and Aroras.

After the marriage, all the adult kids including Pragya deceived their parents and grandparent and hid the truth.

Until Tanu preggy, both Abhi and Pragya didn't want to tell their parents/grandparent and consciously deceived them. Abhi threatened so many times he'll throw her out, but didn't. When Tanu preg happened, Pragya decided that was the time for her to exit. She decided that was the right time to tell dadi and her mother and took on the whole responsibility to deal with both families and Tanu. Tanu applied pressure to tell dadi. Abhi was not supportive of telling dadi or Aroras anything.

Pragya got what she wanted - leave Abhi and MM. Half of Mehra/Mehta/Arora adult kids' deception came out at that time. Abhi was punished for his "affair" and "baby" but dadi and Sarla ma did not know the truth about Abhigya's marriage. That deception was not addressed. Abhi and Pragya made it seem like they were happily married and this "little affair when Abhi was drunk" is what's making them split up. We know there was more to that.

Mehta parents were irate when they heard Tanu is pregnant. They got more irate when she said its Abhi's child.

To me, Tanu broke her parents' and other parents/grandparent trust the most. Abhi-Aliya come second for intentionally breaking dadi's and Sarla ma's trust. Pragya comes third for deceiving them not intentionally but out of duty. There has to be some consequences for these actions for the adult kids.

So as karma goes, I see a reversal in parent/grandparent roles toward their adult kids.

It may not be intentional, now its dadi's turn to not tell Abhi the truth just as Abhi didn't want to tell dadi the truth. Both feel it'll hurt the other. Why didn't we feel strongly that Abhi should be telling the truth to dadi? He has to reap what he sowed (toward dadi). I guess it sort of runs in the family!

So now he doesn't get fuggy for a while and neither does he get married to Tanu as Pragya wanted. His life is in limbo.

Coming to Aroras, Sarla ma had a huge bias for Pragya compared to BB. Pragya could do no wrong. Pragya was everything to her and getting her married was everything to Sarla ma. To the point, her health deteriorated if alliances broke and got a heart attack when Abhi was mad at Pulia wedding.

The karma of that bias is she gets no affection now from Pragya (even though temporary) and there's no happy sasural for her little princess - which is all what Sarla ma wanted for Pragya. And for deceiving her mother about her marriage, Pragya is now alone without her mother as her best support system through the toughest ordeal she's taken on.

Coming to Tanu. Her parents, she says, have disowned her. Good. They should. She doesn't deserve anyone. She's going to fall alone too.

I feel Pragya got the worst deal in all this. She took a lot of crap just to go along with the Abhi/Aliya's deception simply to protect her mother. Now she's taking a lot of crap just to go along dadi's deception. Its her selflessness and duty conscious nature that everybody is misusing!

So the 3 adult kids (Abhi, Aliya, and Tanu) who planned and deceived are far from having the good life they dreamed they would. It's the person they plotted against who's sitting pretty on tons of wealth! Yes they now love each other. That doesn't nullify the other things they did to their families. Everyone has to pay in one way or the other. I feel they need to take responsibility and come clean with everything.

Thank you for sharing. I like your thoughts about this... As for Sarla Ma bias karma paragraph, I never looked at it like that or thought about it before but now that you have mentioned it, it is true...@ Bold...Exactly thisss 👏...

Originally posted by: Cerealgirl

We have such strong opinions on this topic😊! Makes it interesting!

I thought about this and wanted to share this about deception and its effects. There are 3 parents/grandparents in the love triangle.

Dadi -Abhi-Alia. Sarla ma-Pragya. Tanu- Mehtas

Mehra adult kids + Mehra adult kid plotted to ruin Arora adult kid.

Mehra and Mehta "adult kids" (sounds weird to call them that!) did not tell their grandparent/parents about this and got Abhi married to Pragya. So Mehra/Mehta adult kids deceived their grandparent, parents and Aroras.

After the marriage, all the adult kids including Pragya deceived their parents and grandparent and hid the truth.

Until Tanu preggy, both Abhi and Pragya didn't want to tell their parents/grandparent and consciously deceived them. Abhi threatened so many times he'll throw her out, but didn't. When Tanu preg happened, Pragya decided that was the time for her to exit. She decided that was the right time to tell dadi and her mother and took on the whole responsibility to deal with both families and Tanu. Tanu applied pressure to tell dadi. Abhi was not supportive of telling dadi or Aroras anything.

Pragya got what she wanted - leave Abhi and MM. Half of Mehra/Mehta/Arora adult kids' deception came out at that time. Abhi was punished for his "affair" and "baby" but dadi and Sarla ma did not know the truth about Abhigya's marriage. That deception was not addressed. Abhi and Pragya made it seem like they were happily married and this "little affair when Abhi was drunk" is what's making them split up. We know there was more to that.

Mehta parents were irate when they heard Tanu is pregnant. They got more irate when she said its Abhi's child.

To me, Tanu broke her parents' and other parents/grandparent trust the most. Abhi-Aliya come second for intentionally breaking dadi's and Sarla ma's trust. Pragya comes third for deceiving them not intentionally but out of duty. There has to be some consequences for these actions for the adult kids.

So as karma goes, I see a reversal in parent/grandparent roles toward their adult kids.

It may not be intentional, now its dadi's turn to not tell Abhi the truth just as Abhi didn't want to tell dadi the truth. Both feel it'll hurt the other. Why didn't we feel strongly that Abhi should be telling the truth to dadi? He has to reap what he sowed (toward dadi). I guess it sort of runs in the family!

So now he doesn't get fuggy for a while and neither does he get married to Tanu as Pragya wanted. His life is in limbo.

Coming to Aroras, Sarla ma had a huge bias for Pragya compared to BB. Pragya could do no wrong. Pragya was everything to her and getting her married was everything to Sarla ma. To the point, her health deteriorated if alliances broke and got a heart attack when Abhi was mad at Pulia wedding.

The karma of that bias is she gets no affection now from Pragya (even though temporary) and there's no happy sasural for her little princess - which is all what Sarla ma wanted for Pragya. And for deceiving her mother about her marriage, Pragya is now alone without her mother as her best support system through the toughest ordeal she's taken on.

Coming to Tanu. Her parents, she says, have disowned her. Good. They should. She doesn't deserve anyone. She's going to fall alone too.

I feel Pragya got the worst deal in all this. She took a lot of crap just to go along with the Abhi/Aliya's deception simply to protect her mother. Now she's taking a lot of crap just to go along dadi's deception. Its her selflessness and duty conscious nature that everybody is misusing!

So the 3 adult kids (Abhi, Aliya, and Tanu) who planned and deceived are far from having the good life they dreamed they would. It's the person they plotted against who's sitting pretty on tons of wealth! Yes they now love each other. That doesn't nullify the other things they did to their families. Everyone has to pay in one way or the other. I feel they need to take responsibility and come clean with everything.

Wow Prani !!! ... I second with every thought .. what goes is what comes around.