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When Pragya learnt of Tannu's pregnancy, she thought of walking out of Abhi's life because she wanted Abhi to be happy with the love of his life and have his family, and she wanted to Daadi to get great grandchild she aspired for.

Slowly as days passed, it became clear Abhi was not jumping with joy on fatherhood or marrying Tannu.

Eventually Daadi got to know about TaBhi baby too and nor did she want the baby.

So Pragya's reasons for supporting Tannu and trying to get TaBhi together fell flat on her face.

Pragya also thought Abhi does not love her, so it is better to have TaBhi together than him living a life for the sake of it with her.

But even that reason flew away as she learnt from Abhi that he loves her and would rather be with her than anyone else all his life.

Still, Pragya has reasons to leave Abhi. She finally admitted the real reason perhaps. She did not like to be with a man who had a child with another woman and live with guilt. A very fair reason to walk out of this marriage. But, I just do not understand if this is her real big reason, then why talk about Daadi, Abhi's love etc. as her reasons too.

Pragya did have a choice to stand by Abhi now, and be with him as his lover and wife, and make a life with him. They both could have dealt with Tannu and her baby together. Many choices- adopt the baby, let Tannu abort or take financial responsibilities of that baby. But she didn't.

So what are Pragya's real priorities? Definitely not Abhi or her sasural. But her own guilt about that baby and her beliefs about abortion, not wanting to be with a man who has a baby with another woman etc.

I don't know what was the reason to highlight Pragya is doing all this for Abhi, his Daadi etc. when her reason to do this is her own.

I would have really liked if Pragya did this right away, and walked out of Abhi's life in a dignified way rather than getting into theft, pregnancy, abortion and all sorts of drama.

But the girl won't leave until she even gets TaBhi hooked will she, even if it takes taking Abhi's and Daadi's emotions/wishes for granted.

Selfless and sacrificial Pragya? Not sure. It's more that she has no guts to assert her views but rather tries to put them through other excuses.
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Yeh Im not really understanding her thought process anymore! I genuinely thought after learning abhi loved her she would fight to stay in his life, but instead she seems to be using this love to make him go to Tanu?!? W*F?!?
I agree, when she thought they loved each other that was a solid reason to leave him, he got her pregnant and they always loved each other and she for want of a better phrase, was a "third wheel" but now that isn't the case!!!

The CVS are making her actions completely senseless and illogical. She's supposed to be a professor,... I get tha she feels guilty but come on?! If Tanu has no qualms about aborting her child then why should Pragya care! Furthermore she isn't looking selfless anymore she's just looking damn stupid! Nobody wants what she is pushing! clearly abhi and dadi and the whole,family are against their seperation!!! arghhh wake up pragya!!I want her to grow a back bone and for once in her life fight for what is hers!!! Arghh and this new promo is making my head explode! Not in a good way!!
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Yeh Im not really understanding her thought process anymore! I genuinely thought after learning abhi loved her she would fight to stay in his life, but instead she seems to be using this love to make him go to Tanu?!? W*F?!?

Yes and so quickly. Even more odd was that for a minute she was overjoyed and hugged, let him kiss, let him sleep on her lap and one phone call from Tannu, she just turned the plate. So did she when she learnt of Tannu's pregnancy, decided to call a poignant love proposal an April fools joke! And deciding to hurt Daadi was.. Oh dear. I never expected Pragya who seemed to value relationships so much to take them for granted this way.

I agree, when she thought they loved each other that was a solid reason to leave him, he got her pregnant and they always loved each other and she for want of a better phrase, was a "third wheel" but now that isn't the case!!!

The funny part is when he told her he loves Tannu, she told him it's superficial and that real relationships are made of bonds not decorations (KC episodes). Now that a kid is in the picture, all those beliefs fall apart even when he is trying to tell her he wants this relationship as much as she does!

The CVS are making her actions completely senseless and illogical. She's supposed to be a professor,... I get tha she feels guilty but come on?! If Tanu has no qualms about aborting her child then why should Pragya care! Furthermore she isn't looking selfless anymore she's just looking damn stupid! Nobody wants what she is pushing! clearly abhi and dadi and the whole,family are against their seperation!!! arghhh wake up pragya!!I want her to grow a back bone and for once in her life fight for what is hers!!! Arghh and this new promo is making my head explode! Not in a good way!!

Guilt is fine. If she can't deal with it, just cut with him and leave. And let him live! Why force what she wants and reduce her guilt by trying to make him pay for a mistake he unconsciously did (never did in reality). Oh dear.


It's sad to see Pragya who was supposed to anchor this relationship, hold this family together, breaking it apart and giving it to dogs.

And yes the new promo freaked me out too. Not for her accident, but for the fact that she learns truths out of overhearing not out of her own effort or will. I am just hoping it's gonna be something very different from what is shown!
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It's sad to see Pragya who was supposed to anchor this relationship, hold this family together, breaking it apart and giving it to dogs.

And yes the new promo freaked me out too. Not for her accident, but for the fact that she learns truths out of overhearing not out of her own effort or will. I am just hoping it's gonna be something very different from what is shown!



First of all I don't know how you did your cool quoting in my comment lol but I'm a little more technically challenged so I've done my best to respond in a manner that makes sense!! (Lol)

In reference to your first point,She definitely turns! One minute it's all for the elders, "we can't hurt them" Dadi and Sarla ma tend to get these crazy weak immune systems and hearts! But as soon as it suits to do so that is all conveniently forgotten and lost! I mean I completely get that this is one messed up situation but I really do feel her character and essence is being made a mockery off! It's frustrating because she isn't meant to be this weak minded! And how had she conveniently forgotten everything Tanu has done to her! It's one thing to step aside and let your husband take his mistress as his wife but actually fight Tanu's corner and be the pivotal force in bringing her into MM - well that is something that i really do not understand!

Again! I completely agree! Tanu's love for Abhi was superficial at one time but now because we have an illegitimate child in the mix - it's "true love" - by her own feelings and admission she cannot possibly think Tanu lovesAbhi? And if she does what new evidence does she have of this other than the pair of them getting drunk and Abhi knocking her up! (And the dramatic irony of this is... HES NOT EVEN THE BABY DADDY!!!! And now she knows he loves her how can he possibly keep Tanu happy!? And what's more isn't that the reason Purab didn't marry Aliyah ... Because he DIDNT love her. (I think Aliyah missed a trick here she should have got Purab drunk, slept with someone else and then pinned it on Purab! Least that would be a legitimate reason for them to marry!)

This:

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Guilt is fine. If she can't deal with it, just cut with him and leave. And let him live! Why force what she wants and reduce her guilt by trying to make him pay for a mistake he unconsciously did (never did in reality). Oh dear."

Struck the biggest chord for me! Why on earth does she feel
Guilty?!? She's done nothing wrong - if anything as the victim in all of this the last thing she should be doing is trying to fix this! I know she loves Abhi and his problems are hers but there is a fine line between selflessness and stupidity! And she should just leave... It's not down to her to make Abhi marry Tanu! It's up to Abhi. And while I'm on the subject of Abhi... He should have more faith in himself...
If he doesn't believe he would have slept with Tanu why isn't he pushing this... Where is this DNA test?!! Of all people Abhi should know how Tanu can be and if there is the slightest chance she could be lying then he should be holding on to that like a drowning man with a float!

I think Abhis character has grown loads! He's gone from this arrogant cheeky rockstar to someone that has more layers and depth to his character. Pragyas on the other hand seems to be winding backwards. She used to be logical and practical. Now she's almost always a quivering mess. She makes choices and forces decisions based on emotions and not logic and fact like her character should!

I 100% agree - considering she is supposed to be a brigh empowered woman, it's sad that the only way to have her work this one out was to over hear and not have her use her brain to work out the sea of inconsistencies in plain view of her! It's almost like the CVs have lost the essence of her character and now she is just a regular mahan bahu! I want our professor back!

And with this accident who knows!!! I would like to see something completely knew and different - but knowing our luck, it's most likely a dose of amnesia or coma to go with our serving of pregnancy!! Arghh!!! We've got to hold it together! I hope we get through this lol
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I think she just wants the child to have a proper father. She doesn't want to have to live with the guilt of keeping the father away from his child. Like yes Abhi could still be a part of the child's life and be with her but at the same time she probably feels it wouldn't be the same as a full hands on dad. She feels like she'd be taking all that away from the child if she is with Abhi and wouldn't be letting him fulfill his responsibilities towards the child. I think she thinks that if she wasn't in the way then Tanu and Abhi could make it work so she's basically forcing them together and hoping they'll see that.
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X-Ri,
About Abhi, I so wish he doubted Tannu to have cheated on him and the baby not being his. I hope he does so in future at least if he hasn't yet at the back of his mind.

Tannu first arguing it's pathetic that he does not even trust her for pregnancy took away Abhi's chance to ask her for a DNA test though.

I wonder if he might feel his male ego hurt to think his GF cheated on him. But I do feel he is capable of thinking Tannu could have done this.

About Pragya, CVs have totally lost it. I hated in today's scene one moment she hugs him, lets him sleep on her lap, making him feel secure and at peace and the next moment breaks it all for one fricking phonecall. I understand she could be vulnerable too and has her moments but hey come on this is the most important day for them like Abhi said..more so for her.. she has loved him for that long, and it must take some stone heart to so easily break that. She just spoiled her happiest moment. Some people perhaps love being sad and only see the negatives.


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