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This is not a bashing post, it's just my take on the character. I am NOT at all against her, but some questions are raised on her by me and some mere expectations. Not much !!
Does an excuse of getting pregnant in front of Pragya is needed to get two people unite by her ?
Okay she is doing good job in uniting Aakash Rachna but all the long scrounging lecture she gave the two lovers to unite implied on RaBul too !
Fine RaBul knows their limits are bit more sensible than the latter duo that they didn't loose their control before marriage, Bulbul didn't get pregnant or what, but that doesn't mean they don't deserve to get married to each other.
Rather than supporting them, she stopped their marriage in temple. There also she should have convinced Bulbul, for the sake of two lives, she very well knew that Purab loves Bulbul this much (she saw Purab's horrendous outburst day before marriage at the hospital herself) that he and Alia won't be happy at all after getting married , three lives will be turning into hell. Her sister will never move on in her life, then why this step wasn't taken at that time ?
Just because Purab ran from the marriage, leaving behind a girl sitting there on mandap and what now? Isn't she herself responsible for making a groom elope against his wishes at first place, again leaving behind a girl at that very mandap only, which she lashed at Purab of doing so ?
At that time what would have happened in case RaBul would have got married, then whole truth in front of Abhi would have come, that Purab loves Bulbul and not Pragya. On max to max Abhi would have accused Pragya in front of family of being selfish & not a nice 'bahu' .But even then if Pragya would have tried to explain the family the consequences of that marriage, just like present she is showcasing her guts in front of everyone and is standing for them, things would have turned out better. Dadi would have understood things like the way she did on Dussehra, she made Abhi understand that what all Purab did was 'right', if he doesn't love Alia, then their is no point of getting these two married.
Pragya would have got lashed out at that time by Mehra's , the way she is getting now, she cared about her mother at that time (though I still fail to get her aspect on this, she knew after the marriage, she's gonna be thrown out, rather she was herself packing her bags, so that would not have affected her mother), now also, Sarla has already got one heart attack before,why is not Pragya thinking about her mother's well being? What all she is doing for Tanu's baby or Rachna's baby could result into conditions which can give her mother a second heart attack, that sounds even more scary !
She knew very well what all Purab and Bulbul was doing that was 'JUST' because of her happiness, when she confronted Bulbul about Purab's acceptance to Alia alliance, she at that very moment figured out, that her sister was doing all this because of her, she even asked her "tu itna pyaar karti hai mujhse " (you love me to this extent)
When she asked Purab about his decision, he even presented her with view that he is doing this for Bulbul's wellbeing which lies in your's happiness, and with this your's and Abhi's relation will get time and something better may happen.
At that scenario also she could have done some intentional deeds to be in bad books of family, so that she makes her way out of the house, of a forced marriage where everyday she gets bullied by her husband,his girlfriend and sister. She could have moved out of this MM, go back to the her own world, get RaBul married, stand by her sister. She should have thought that the person who is not even at this much fault (neither Bulbul was involved in any filthy plotting like by Alia, nor she can be blamed for any hypocrisy as Purab being accused of hiding the truth from Alia and Bulbul) why she deserves all the torture of a loveless life.
Some may come up that Pragya wanted to save Bulbul from the wrath of Abhi and Alia after knowing how cruel they were, hello if you move out of that place,and dare anyone touch your sister. You live in a metro city, there is Police, when on national television you can accuse the rockstar of the country for being some unfair, selfish, playing with a girl and defending his brother, then why the heck you can again stand against him on television only????
Yaar you yourself is an educated prolific professor, if people like you only wont stand against the injustice, then what can you expect from other in the country.
Things more to come, she'll be saying some illicit words for Dadi (frankly speaking I find them true LOL) , she'll be getting slap for that! This she is doing for her duo goals, one toh about Akash Rachna only, but more precisely for her motive to get some hatred (for just Akash Rachna, things could have been put forward in better way) . Now what it terms her selfish or selflessly selfish (coz the reason behind it is TaBbi relationship)
Selflessly Selfish sounds weird, but I always have this word for Pragya, whenever I compare her doings for Bulbul's wellbeing or anything, for Bulbul's part I always find her thinking about her own than her sister, and for people whom she loves or associates more (like Abhi and Sarlaa maa) and when it comes to what is she thinking about herself, then it comes out, she is thinking about every other person for instance about Tanu and Alia too except for her and her sister. Forbid me for calling her dumb for that too, one may can present her state or thinking leading to all this, but at the end of the day , it is called being dumb only!
Actually all I wanna ask, why everything for everyone except Purab and Bulbul ? Strong Pragya, daredevil Pragya, fake Pragya doesn't come forward for RaBul? Why she gives up for them? Why she doesn't show any required guts for them...?? Why she takes their love, lives for granted when she is very well aware of the dynamics associated with it.
One thing more I wanna suggest her, stop using the excuse of your sister for every single thing. You wanna stay away from your husband for a night, so ya I will convince maa that I have come for Bulbul. You want to leave for anywhere else for some every other deed, but you defend that I have to go to meet Bulbul. You want to get hatred from your husband over point, and you are like, if Bubul will come to know about this, she'll be so proud so me (though she cleared things to Abhi later, thanks to her for this) You wanted to divert Suresh's mind for getting Akash Rachna married , again you used your sister's love life excuse for this. That you couldn't get my sister so you don't want happiness of your own sister how lame was that, like urghhh. When the man himself has moved on, has seen the pure love of two in their eyes, accepted it, why the hell you are making your sister life more complicated by bringing back her old lover into picture again. Why you want to scratch some scars that were on a way to heal ? Seriously I am scratching my head on this!!!
Bulbul's life is not a joke, that whosever wants to play with it, in whatever way can do, maybe not for one's own happiness, then for other people's happiness also NOT!
Bulbul is always like di di jaap, one can't expect the same from Pragya as she clearly mentioned that in her life only two things matter, one her mother , second her love ,but Bulbul even after getting her love keeps Pragya above anything else. Fine I don't want Pragya to go overboard with her sister love like Bulbul does, but atleast do something good for her too, which actually brings share of happiness in her life, don't complicate things more intentionally or unintentionally, if you can't contribute other way. After seeing you getting Aakash Rachna married in temple and stopping RaBul's wedding, when things can be put into same frame (if not exactly, then to an extent toh definitely!), I am forced to raise questions on your sister love :(
I am here for a very healthy discussion, anyone wanna put any kind of cents forward for anything, you are most welcome! My knowledge about any aspect can be limited regarding her character, if you wanna put light on it, go ahead!
But still wanna welcome anything, criticism, justification, arguments about the post, feel free, as long as we do things in some sorted out way, good dignified language!
Thanks for reading !
Much love!
Ritzee
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