A bright spot on a dark horizon - my ideas on Abhigya

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi guys! So I don't normally post anti-Abhi stuff but I have them moods and as a fan of him this is purely a post over current situation and mainly over all episode in which Abhi has hurt Pragya and it makes me think how strong one has to be to love so unconditionally. But I guess Pragya too has some expectation because every good non expectant souls always has desired deep within whether they are fulfilled or not and I think there is nothing wrong in hoping sometimes after all she does deserve happiness.

So coming to my point. Well remember episode 50 or something anyway the suhaag raat episode - every time I think about it I have to say I get so angry at Abhi - because what Pragya experienced I don't think any girl should go through and nothing can justify Abhi's actions on that night. It's one thing marrying a girl to let your sister get her love but another thing to become hell bent on destroying her life which for me seems beyond repair. Even if Abhi had married the right girl, I don't get who he is to decide who falls in love with who, Aliya is a grown woman who should be able to understand what is right and wrong, but then that's another thing so coming back to my point, I drift off a lot, there I go again...

Anyway, but I guess we expected Abhi to regret ruining an innocent girls life after he learnt the truth when Purab eloped but no, he continued to torture her. One episode I still hate cause of this is when Abhigya were at the hotel for Abhis producer meeting about an Ad shoot was it? But Abhi threatened to kill Pragya with a knife. Okay the mood was quite jokey but still Pragya put up with it when any other girl wouldn't have given a damn about her family or Daadi, she would have left long ago for her own happiness but Pragya always put everyone before her, her sister, maa, even Abhi after he made her life a living hell. And when it came to her happiness he happily forgot everything they went through together hand in hand and broke her heart in a matter of seconds. However before the balcony scene with Pragya about to fall off he had redeemed himself very well, especially in the kidnapping track.

Today's episode, Abhi should have not said - I have to say a very cute and loving - proposal, he could have just kept it to the love of the family's to encourage Pragya not to give up. What was the need to confess and then break her few hopes that had arose again? Why, Abhi why? I know he gets annoyed with Purab and his plotting to get him to realise his love but before he had to jump to conclusions did it really hurt to ask Prgaya if she was involved in all of this when he sure knows everytime he doubts her he is always, 100% wrong and out of place? Was it really so much effort? He said many hurtful words, which may not have mattered to Pragya in the early days of marriage because their was no love or any other bond holding them together but now she loves him and what's the worst thing to be told, that whom you would happily die for tells you they want you to stay away, that they presumably hate you? I know Abhi didn't say this directly but he did say "She is playing games with me and I hate people who play games" well I'd like to see how that works out when he finds out what his girlfriend had been planning, an explosive bomb that would be.

But anyway, Pragya is one girl whom I have always felt has been underestimated and taken for granted. Abhi was one bright spot on a horizon of darkness for Pragya but it only flickered for a few moments and went out leaving her in nothing but a pool of darkness. I think Abhi does deserve to go through his share of pain and if words may describe it as a "revenge" when Pragya refuses that she loved him I guess Abhi will realise what it feels like to be told that, to be treated as a joke of a life.

I am sorry if anyone disagrees, I just wrote what I felt and trust me - AT behnas back me up here - I do like Abhi, he is a caring and loving human being, that he proved to me when he was shot and his words to Pragya but sometimes he is wrong with actions. Please leave your thoughts in the comments, I would love to read!

And here are some edits to go with Pragya's heartbreak - standing ovations to acting by Sriti!







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Nora9497 thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
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To be honest when I heard about Tanu pregnancy I was little upset especially when I read that Pragya is going to tell him that she was laying and say she was joking and will break his heart...
But sorry to say that after today Episode I'M VERY HAPPY THAT HE'S GOING TO SUFFER FOR A WHILE after all the hopes he gave her and then break her like nothing and thank God his suffering start from the end of today's epi when he felt that he had done something wrong
looking forward for this amazing track
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Posted: 10 years ago
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If I was Pragya I would have left after the 50th episode lol but this girl is so strong that she survived .. it's really sad actually I have the same feelings sometimes I really don't like How Abhi was misbehaving with her. and Today episode I just hate it how Abhi confessed and then he denied and blamed Pragya. he is living in a house where some people are playing games with him.
Im just happy that we will see Abhi suffer a little bit with the future track
Really nice post Simmi and I love Abhi too :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi Sim!
I gotta say, I am somewhere both with you and not in this!

Abhi - our man is very impulsive - he doesnt think before he acts, thats where the misery starts from. Be it listening to Aliya and Tanu and marrying Pragya, to not trusting Purab, to believeing in the MMS, to trusting Tanu and her love, to getting Rabul together, to taking the bullet for Pragya, to screaming at her for the 'KISS' issue after the kidnapping track, to telling her he hates her (when the kiss issue was on), to telling her he loves her - tell me which of these were planned or even rationalized upon?

So, somewhere, him going over board to propose to her in todays episode was very much in sync with his character.
Yes, encouraging her with her family was a good way, but if you noticed that wasnt enough, Pragya tried only when he mentioned his name. But I am not saying he calculated this move either.

He was rambling on about family and encouraging and suddenly on impulse he took his own name, when that worked, he just went overboard,

But I also believe, each time he proposed to her (twice now) he also meant it genuinely for that moment, before it was stolen from them (in the studio people clapped and today Purab faffed)

I think the story would have been different if Purab didnt intervene - only when he intervened, je was jerked back to senses and he went into denial. Otherwise this could be it!

Moreover, I would have loved it if AbhiGya got together without all this fuss, but in all honesty (and here I agree with you) I dont think Abhi deserves this easy way. I believe they were even after the kidnapping track - but have you guys noticed the number of times Abhi was rude to Pragya even after her proposal?

Though it was in light humour and it was fun to watch, but I think Abhi's hide and sick post kidnapping track wasnt in sync at all! Remember the scene before the bullet shot, when they were running towards the edge of the cliff? And Pragya was about to fall? The way Abhi pulled her back and said "kahan tha na jaane nahin donga?" and the way he pulled her into an embrace? They are trying to tell us, he didnt understand she loved him then? Or that he had feelings for her too? And Neil had told him on his face that Pragya did everything because she loved him, didnt that open his eyes? And the time when that shack where they were tied was on fire, he didnt realize hearing Pragya's words that she was about to propose? How was he so shocked when she finally proposed? And also when they were that close and he had initiated some of the moments, the hide and seek went lame!

Anyway, after all that, I just think its time Abhi suffered some! And if I am not wrong, once rejected, Abhi will be on "I hate Pragya" mode - so he will be miserable yes, but Pragya will be worse. Then obviously another month and halves MU.

I hate this MU. Why cant Pragya be honest about her rejection to him? Its not like, if she didnt say Abh wont find out about Tanus pregnancy~~

Okay I am not even coherent anymore.
If youre still reading, thank you :P

As for Abhi, I love him, but he needs to suffer yes,

chop chop 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Simmy, I believe whatever Abhi said came right through his heart. He did not fake it at all, whether it was during modelling confession or this confession. But in his mind, he does not believe it, so has he told them all along.
And he needed to save her life here, she was giving up, her mother, sister, his Daadi, nothing worked, so he thought his love could work and when he started on that route, he went with his heart.
And his reaction after that had a lot to do with Purab's clapping and pressing upon the matter that he loves Pragya. Abhi was in shock with his feelings, he needed that time and space to figure things. He has been shouting at Purab (and Pragya indirectly) to grant him that.

And he went to see Daadi later, which showed his truly lost self.

And Abhi has hurt Pragya big time but Pragya is responsible for a lot of her grief too.

I don't hold this particular incidence against Abhi, but I do, the AbhiGya marriage itself.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nice post Simmi!

I can see where Abhi might think that Pragya is playing games with him though. I'm sorry Prags had to hear this bitter truth, but it's just a fact that he needs his space. Okay sure, this time around wasn't her fault but it gets aggervating after a while. I'm sure Abhi thinks about why P was at Purab's in the first place. Obviously another thing by PuPrag seems to be in accordance. When Abhi said something about her being in problems quite often and Abhi has to always save her, it seemed faulty on her part. It seems like she's indeed playing games to him. Who falls into trouble THIS many times? I'm sure Abhi likes to play hero, but things carry on too far. Especially if it's not just saving. They tend to get intimate subconciously afterwards and Abhi wants to stay away from all this. He doesn't like being pushed into these things.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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To add on:

All I'm basically saying is that Pragya may not be at fault everytime, but Abhi is not necessarily wrong to think this way.

The suhag raat thing I have to agree with you on though. That just can't be forgiven without an apology or some repentance from Abhi's side. He married an innocent girl to ruin her. Even if she would have been the girl Aaliya seemed to ruin initially, I still think that no girl should go through this. EVER!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I LOVE your post Simmy, the way you've laid out the history of their relationship- very well done!

Somewhere inside, Pragya feels unworthy of Abhi; her caring giving (to a fault) nature while in love is also causing her to not fight back.

Damned if she believes his words, damned if she doesn't..
Damned if she says she's in love, damned if she says she's not..

There's no winning with Abhi!

Today was just brutal, he needs some suffering and I'm looking forward to it!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yup I completely agree pragya has always felt that she was not worthy of love and the people around her have made her feel like that.First it was suresh who denied to love her with which she was broken and she felt that she will never receive love.Then next is her mother who constantly presurrises her to get a good life partner which decreases her confidence and self respect even more.Now her sister bulbul and purab trying to constantly make her admit her feelings for abhi so that he accepts her which is like she is forcing herself on abhi .I really feel bad for pragya .she does not deserve such a life
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Great post 👏
I agree with you in everything
pragya is a selfless women who put everyone before her
She deserves more
Everything was going fine in yesterday's episode until that fan girl started cheering
Hats off to sriti for that performance. She looked at him as if he is her world. Her performance made us feel sorry for her even more.
Looking forward to watch pragya reject abhi. From first episode someone has been rejecting pragya. Its payback time even though this will cause her more pain than any other thing ever happened to her.
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