Why did Tannu say that Abhi used her? - Page 9

Originally posted by: harisha_kb

till abhi take a decision ... it may be either chudail or pragya. he is using/playing/making them believe/misleading both of them.

what does he want. ?

A lifetime affair with tanu and a fuugy to do drama of man and wife in front of his dadi..

Okay, I wanna say a bit about Abhi-Tannu-Pragya mess and Abhi.

So, I don't argue against the fact that Abhi acted merely on emotions and became irresponsible when he decided to marry a girl for revenge. It was his pain for his sister that drove him to do that.

But like I said before, Tannu was more eager to get him married to Pragya.

After AbhiGya married, Abhi tried to mistreat Pragya as planned. But we have to remember that Pragya rather than getting out of the situation promoted him further by admitting to false accusations over Purab etc. She has had her majbooris at that time. Had it been true that Pragya was indeed a gold digger/man stealer, things would have been easy for Abhi. Just ditch her quoting she is evil. No one would want an evil daughter in law and even Pragya's family would shun her.

But after this, things get complicated. Pragya wasn't 1% of what she was thought to be.

We also have to remember that despite everything Pragya remained the best bahu and best wife to Abhi. It's her kindness and goodness that has made it hard for Abhi to let her go.

By the time Abhi finds out Pragya is innocent through other means, Pragya has already done a lot for him, he has developed a bond with her and her family and she has become Daadi's laadli.

Given that, it's not easy for Abhi to just make it right for everyone. If he wants to make it right for Pragya, he needs to accept her as his wife in every sense. First he doesn't love her in that way and second Tannu has become obsessed over marrying him. How does he make it right for her?

And how does he make it okay for Tannu? If he ditches Pragya, her family and his Daadi would be hurt. And even Pragya does not want to move out of this relationship even though she knows Abhi loves someone else, even though she knows he may never treat her as a wife. And it's not even majboori for Pragya anymore.. it's her love/dedication for Abhi. She doesn't want to leave him at all for herself now even when her own mom told her to get out of that house.

Nor does Tannu want to leave him despite him telling her off so many times.

So, Abhi can't do the right thing and be a good man to both women at any point with the realities he knows of.

Now things are a lot more complicated given Pragya has admitted to love him and he has far more stronger emotions for her.

About Abhi and elders, he has always cared for elders. When he married Pragya he didn't know that a nasty girl like Pragya would end up being the best daughter in law. Nor did he imagine this marriage to go this long. He had not thought Tannu would get desperate to marry him. Because like I said before, marriage wasn't his cup of tea to begin with and if left for him he would not have married.

With all this, Abhi will still emerge the winner because when it will come to neck, he will do the right thing. For example when Pragya was caught by the kidnapper, it was Abhi who did more than one can imagine. When KB hall was under threat, Abhi even went to jail defending the Aroras.

So in the current situation, Abhi can't do the right thing, because Pragya's right is Tannu's wrong and vice versa. Abhi is caught badly between these two and the situation. Most of it is his own fault and his own responsibility and he will handle it before it shatters.

Originally posted by: -mina-

see if both ladies agreed to that, i wouldn't have a problem😛

Originally posted by: ash k

Lets just hope he kicks Tanu out of his life soon...

Originally posted by: -Tia-

For him to mercilessly take her off of his life, something needs to come out. Aalu never tells him she caused Daadi's heart attack. Pragya never tells him she caused her mom's attack. RaBul especially Purab never tells him the ill deeds of Tannu that he knows of. And Tannu unlike Aalu never gets caught doing anything.

So it's not gonna happen soon.😕

Originally posted by: ash k

Thats why we will are likely to get the pregnancy track... has to be something big to give Abhi the excuse to kick her out properly.