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Posted: 10 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: KAHLU


Why do you assume Abhi has not believed the truth, but Purab should believe that Abhi read the letter? Abhi is a violently psychotic human being, and Purab knows this reality. Any sane person would believe that Abhi would react violently despite knowing the truth, simply because as you have stated, he refuses to believe the truth unless it is uttered by his poor helpless darling sister. Even after Abhi knew the truth by way of Dadi, he reacted violently by breaking the vase in the hospital.

Yes, Purab is running away, but anyone in their right mind would run away from the insanely violent brother/sister duo.


If Abhi had "known" the truth when he met Purab at the temple, he would not have come and told Pragya she can marry Purab! He would have rather said, you and your sister both have played this game or something like that... And Abhi did not mention BB until he saw her. So obviously he had not known what Purab "wrote". That's obvious.
Running away from Aaliyah is fine, but why do the drama until varmala? Okay that's also fine, why wanting to marry BB right away? It was catastrophic and we all know the consequences. Now Purab himself is losing the most.
We forget that Purab initially agreed to marry Aaliyah and Abhi was not holding a gun at him.
And later, Abhi came to his house to again ask him... rather than attempting to make Abhi realize the truth, Purab agreed to marry Aaliyah again!

As far Abhi and his violent behaviour goes, Abhi was there at the hospital doing what he could for Sarla despite all the hate and violence whereas Purab even after knowing Sarla had the attack did not even visit her yet.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: -Tia-


If Abhi had "known" the truth when he met Purab at the temple, he would not have come and told Pragya she can marry Purab! He would have rather said, you and your sister both have played this game or something like that... And Abhi did not mention BB until he saw her. So obviously he had not known what Purab "wrote". That's obvious.
Running away from Aaliyah is fine, but why do the drama until varmala? Okay that's also fine, why wanting to marry BB right away? It was catastrophic and we all know the consequences. Now Purab himself is losing the most.
We forget that Purab initially agreed to marry Aaliyah and Abhi was not holding a gun at him.
And later, Abhi came to his house to again ask him... rather than attempting to make Abhi realize the truth, Purab agreed to marry Aaliyah again!

As far Abhi and his violent behaviour goes, Abhi was there at the hospital doing what he could for Sarla despite all the hate and violence whereas Purab even after knowing Sarla had the attack did not even visit her yet.


1. Just because you used your money and power to help someone does not give you the right to be violent and misbehave.
2. Abhi went to the hospital not because he wanted to, but because Dadi forced him to
3. Abhi is Sarla's SIL, he should visit her, but he really didn't want to (see point 2). Purab is nobody to Sarla, not even a friend. He has no business to visit her, and given her condition, if he did, she would probably go into cardiac arrest! In fact I am surprised that all the melodrama with BB hasn't killed her yet...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Purab claims to truly love BB, wants to marry her, and does not have a responsibility to Sarla?
And Abhi had ended his relation with Pragya (she was gone from his house that day) the day Sarla had her attack and Abhi has only claimed to hate Pragya.
Anyways, my point was not to compare Abhi and Purab in this thread but to say Purab's hasty decisions have caused a lot of chaos and he needs to own them at some point. Abhi has his share of faults and I also hope he will own them too when it's his turn.
Comparing Abhi's faults don't make Purab's faults any better!
Edited by -Tia- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: -Tia-

Purab claims to truly love BB, wants to marry her, and does not have a responsibility to Sarla?
And Abhi had ended his relation with Pragya (she was gone from his house that day) the day Sarla had her attack and Abhi has only claimed to hate Pragya.
Anyways, my point was not to compare Abhi and Purab in this thread but to say Purab's hasty decisions have caused a lot of chaos and he needs to own them at some point. Abhi has his share of faults and I also hope he will own them too when it's his turn.
Abhi's faults don't make Purab's faults any better!


I agree, Abhi's faults don't make Purab any better. I was only pointing out that Purab did make an attempt to clear the MU with the letter and that he is not the only one who knows the truth (in actual fact, he does not know who has and hasn't read the letter), which was the premise of this post.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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And no, I don't think he has a responsibility to Sarla. If anyone does, it's Abhi's aunt, uncle etc who should be at the hospital. As for Abhi, just because she was thrown out of the house, his relationship with P did not end. She is still legally married to him. Logically, his relationship with Pragya never started. She was never even allowed to sleep in the house! In my family, we only put dogs outside on the verandah.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#36
Dis is comin frm a rabul-abhigya admirer-Yo tia!!! Yes m yearning for dis kind of constructive critisism widout callin d character in question by sadrock..hopeless.. N waanabe rock etc n widout questionin the lovers f d character k how can u luv him??? Everyone includin abhi purab bul prag- dey all r responsible 4 dis mess in d name f love... Sisters tryin to protect fragile mommy n d one guy protectin his sis n oder his love.. But u know what dis mess wud not hav happened if abhi purab wud have a private man to man buddy talk... Cum on dey were friends... But dey started hidin facts frm each other than sharin wid each other...:)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: KAHLU

And no, I don't think he has a responsibility to Sarla. If anyone does, it's Abhi's aunt, uncle etc who should be at the hospital. As for Abhi, just because she was thrown out of the house, his relationship with P did not end. She is still legally married to him. Logically, his relationship with Pragya never started. She was never even allowed to sleep in the house! In my family, we only put dogs outside on the verandah.


I think if Purab had shown concern and responsibility for Sarla, he would have had a better chance to have BB by his side. He may now just lose out on BB. Suresh who helped being an outsider also did all he can. Abhi technically is the son in law but we all know the reality of it and he has already scored by doing the needful at an hour of need by keeping his hate aside.


What you do in crisis brings out your true character and sometimes defines your relationships with people!
Edited by -Tia- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#38
Ughhh... agreed. Purab was under no MU like abhi, nor did he have an ailing mother like sarla... yet he made blunders... he didnt speak to anybody nor take the correct path 🤢
I have no sympathy for this character. What he chose to do was lame, cowardly and ultimately disastrous. It doesnt make a diff whether or not he chooses to tell the truth now... 🥱 he shd have told it a long long time ago... not by a letter 🤢 he chose to fight for his love but for what reason? That love went away from him.. 🤣

He never had a spine in the first place otherwise he would never have chosen to run not once but twice.. he never bothered to clarify properly, letter yes, but that was prone to manipulation.. he shd have opened his mouth but no... cowardly and spineless..

He is the biggest dissapointment to me. The others had no choice, but purab knew everything yet chose all the wrong ways to show his so called courage... which was of no use... he is now forced to marry that character who he ditched at the mandap.. aaliya had the last laugh after all... how pathetic for purab... he made a laughing stock out of himself. Reduced his situation to a joke...
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Posted: 10 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: -Tia-


They could have Abhi Pragya marry with a contract sort of them between the two of them for a year or so just to please their elders. Then they could have this issue over your sister-my sister- who gets Purab thing between them... and a 100 other things.. They could still show this hate-love relationship between them. But they want this baseless MU! Kya karein!!!


He he true. We probably make better writers thinking of all the possibilities...

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