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Bulbul is being difficult, true, I agree.
But as for how she is being with Suresh, even though it appears to be rude, and disrespectful, I in a way COMPLETELY understand where she is coming from! Suresh kept everyone in the dark, think about it! He promised to marry Pragya, even after he realized what mistake happened in terms of the misunderstanding, where he thought he was proposing Bulbul, but it was Pragya, he still decided to stay mum about it, when Pragya wanted the truth out, he subsided it, and played along with everyone making them believe, he loves Pragya and wants to marry her.
Bulbul, after the revelation was shocked and absolutely disgusted by him! He played along with the whole thing, despite knowing what he is doing is wrong, as in he doesn't love Pragya, but making her believe he does, (even if Pragya didnt believe later) but he persisted in making her believe so, and so she did. Then at the end, only after his friend put sense in him, and took the step to bring the truth out, only then he blurts out, at the last minute that he doesn't love Pragya, but Bulbul.
Imagine, how she must feel! Already Pragya's marriage before got cancelled, and now, such a big dhokha from someone they trusted soo much!! and in their wildest dreams cldnt imagine, betraying them like this. and then having to face all this, because he loved the sister, bulbul, instead? She knows how much Pragya loved him, and him betraying her like that, hurt the person Bulbul loves and cares about the MOST, her sister!
She must have felt supper guilty and felt she's the reason for all that. Naturally she would be really mad for starters, because, she never told him anything about seeing him that way, nor did she give him "permission" so, how cld he?! or how dare he?! is what she feels.
She must have felt supper guilty and felt she's the reason for all that. Naturally she would be really mad for starters, because, she never told him anything about seeing him that way, nor did she give him "permission" so, how cld he?! or how dare he?! is what she feels.
Sooo, seeing him repeatedly, just makes her blood boil, and brings back all those feelings and memories, about, betrayal, hurt, shock, and most importantly, guilt!
Thats the reason, she keeps telling him off. just seeing his face, irritates her. Makes her defensive, to think that he comes any near, he'd hurt them all again, like before. she doesn't believe in being close to a person like him, who hurt them!
So, in a way, she doesn't care how she is appearing to him, she just want him to be the heck away from them, at any cost. Think about it, would you guys feel irritated by a person whom you have repeatedly told, to not come in face to face with you? If they are unwanted, and they keeep coming in front of you, you tell them off, once, and twice, but they keep persisting.. how would you react? What else would you do, other than yell at them, be rude to them, so that it becomes crystal clear to them.. to BUZZ off!!!
And, also, whether or not Suresh is their well wisher or not, he does appear to be annoying, honestly. He keeps asking Prayga, if she is happy.. when she told him before, she is... he is just trying to be friendly with her, but after what he has done, does it look good? He shld know better! Even pragya got irritated with him today, and told him off. She just keeps a pursed smiley face, when he appears, to be polite, but really, she doesn't talk or interact with him the same way as before, have u guys, noticed?
Pragya had a different friendship relation with him, so it wldnt appear good for her to say anything to him.. thats rude, like Bulbul. But BB was always the kind to speak her mind, and she doesn't worry about how she is sounding, as long as she is able to throw her point across. Being the youngest, and having people to look up to, the younger ones always tends to be cautious, from seeing examples.
And, also, whether or not Suresh is their well wisher or not, he does appear to be annoying, honestly. He keeps asking Prayga, if she is happy.. when she told him before, she is... he is just trying to be friendly with her, but after what he has done, does it look good? He shld know better! Even pragya got irritated with him today, and told him off. She just keeps a pursed smiley face, when he appears, to be polite, but really, she doesn't talk or interact with him the same way as before, have u guys, noticed?
Pragya had a different friendship relation with him, so it wldnt appear good for her to say anything to him.. thats rude, like Bulbul. But BB was always the kind to speak her mind, and she doesn't worry about how she is sounding, as long as she is able to throw her point across. Being the youngest, and having people to look up to, the younger ones always tends to be cautious, from seeing examples.
Therefore, with Purab, she just freaked out. I feel, though its really foolish of her to not try and give him a chance.. but the shock which Suresh gave them all, was still raw. and she basically became black and white to any kind of hurt.
She though loves Purab, to keep herself safe from getting hurt like that again, she blocked herself off, emotionally from all the feelings she has towards Purab. Its her way of being defensive to hurt. She feels, she doesn't want to go through the same thing as her big sis. Everyone she looked up to, trust, just kept betraying and betraying, that she just can't believe or trust anything or anyone whom she doesn't know well, anymore.
True, Purab deserves a chance to be heard and understood! but, we all come from different backgrounds, we all have different stories, how one might react to one thing, another may react differently. Its easy to see BB from a third perspective, sit there, and judge. But really, what she is going through, inside of her, only she only knows!!
Its hard for anyone of us to fully relate or understand that. So, lets just give her some time, maybe she might finally open up to Purab.
Her getting defensive so easily shows, that.. in life she must have kept coming across hurt and disappointments sooo much that, she is just shutting down now, as soon as she smells, anything, out of the ordinary.
As for Purab, no, he did not hide anything from Bulbul, infact, as soon as he got reminded of the promise he had made to Abhi, and his sis,, he did his level best, to talk to Bulbul to clarify things, but things just kept not happening his way. Something kept coming up, to which he was unable to explain things to her. But, by then, BB had 'witnessed' everything... so, then it got too late for him. :/ Yaa,. misunderstandings like such, do happen in life, and its just unfortunate when it comes to this.
I say, its no one's fault, but just the logic of the writers. Any other sane character would at least hear him out, whether or not they believe it. But, all characters are diff. It also could be, Bulbul maybe, just had not fallen that deep in love with him, to at least give him a second chance, to at the least, hear him out. For her, it was just a beginning phrase, from which, she cld come out of, when/if needed.
Purab knows the truth, hence he knows thats only coz of a misunderstanding a relationship that has the potential to run deep, is getting spoilt. If only.. IF ONLY he is given a chance to explain, he can sort everything out, and make things better, like how it was before. :/
I feel EXTREMELY BAD for him! I can relate to him, in many levels! Sigh.. wish, wish we got a chance to explain our selves, and wish people wld give each other the benefit of the doubt, to at least hear what the other person is trying to say, and understand their view point for once, over your own.
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