Marriage with rights and promises and minus love.

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NaadBrahma

@musicalstorm

Rocker

+ 7

Posted: 7 years ago

Marriage should be an institution only of love and nothing else. But in reality this is not the case. Marriages are meant for the two people who will stay with each other at any point of time. Marriage is a combination of love, trust, understanding and loyalty. It is not a contract which gives you right on the other person. Two people claim that they have right on each other. One is dominant and other is submissive. It does not means dominant is more powerful than submissive one. It does not means you can vent your anger on the submissive one. Having right on the other does not means that you own the person. There is also a space needed for married people. Marriage is simply love, understanding and trust and not rights.

One thing you might notice, everyone wants rights. Rights as a citizen, rights as a family member, right as a husband or wife, rights as a child. But no one wants to perform their duties. We forget duties. Rights comes with duties. Here the scenario is something unusual. Sikander is performing duties but he is not getting rights. Lovely wants rights but not performing duties. I feel bad for Sikander he is not getting what he should get. He deserves the happiness.

Now talking about the promises, i just hate promises. Promises are made to be broken. Sikander has done a mistake by promising to a selfish Lovely. In reality we all have broken promises, but television people have a tough time while they break promise. It is my rule I don't promise anyone and even I don't make any vows and resolution. Because human have a wavering mind, our decision at one point of time can make us suffer hard in future.

Coming to Sikander's mother decision, she has taken a right decision to not tell Sikander about her daughter. Sikander will love Kullfi and give her everything. But Sikander will blurt.the truth out and Lovely and Amyra will trouble Kullfi. Kullfi should learn music from Mahinder instead of Sikander. The day when Kullfi becomes successful on that day, the truth should be revealed to the entire family. Years of struggle brings a time of happiness without any interruption.

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Anumta

@zehra-pisces

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

I agree that Sikander was never given his due rights n respect from Lovely n her parents. Sikander n his family have badly suffered especially in the starting episodes although he is the best father any child can have n also he has been nice to Lovely but she has tortured him many times. Only after Kulfi came to Mumbai I could see Sikander taking strong stands every now n then. Even if he gets weak he still makes attempt. I feel bad for Sikander more than Kulfi. I feel he is badly trapped but once he knows abt Kulfi being his n Nimrat's daughter he won't let any injustice happen to Kulfi.

This marriage was a trap by Lovely to secure her n Amyra's future but I hope both Sikander n Lovely value the vows n promises they made. I know Sikander won't leave Lovely n Amyra after knowing that Kulfi is his daughter n even after knowing that Amyra is Tevar's daughter but Lovely may not accept Kulfi but I hope that with Tevar creating havoc in her life she accepts both Kulfi n Sikander rightfully. I wish to see a positive Lovely in future.

I don't agree with Bebe bcos how long will this truth be hidden n this is outright injustice to Kulfi. She lost her mother, doesn't know abt her father n his family although she is so close to them. I understand she wants to guard Sikander n Lovely marriage but it has been a sort of broken n compromised marriage from start n even now every time it gets a blow but now it is bit better than before. Kulfi deserves to know abt her father, she should get her father's name n all the love n training. She was anyway learning from listening to Sikander's songs. Amyra troubles her even now n Lovely uses her so it's better that everything is out n Sikander protects her from all dangers the way a loving father should.

Even Sikander deserves a loving daughter like Kulfi bcos the little girl was in happy space while she was with her mother but Sikander has never been happy. He deserves happiness, love of family n with Kulfi's presence he will find Nimrat close to him. He deserves love life happiness family laughter sachaai in his voice n sangeet. With Kulfi he will get strength to conquer the world n he will rock. He can then handle Lovely her parents Tevar anyone.

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Marriage with rights and promises and minus love.

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