What i feel about Kanya

Hi everyone.I'm new to kit section and IF as well.So far I've been a silent reader of all your lovely posts.Today i thought to break my silence and talk something in favour of Kanya, as you all bash her.Sorry guys ,i'm not invoking your wrath,just telling my opinion.

Other Ekta heroines act so nice to their men initially,and when the guys fall flat they do some stupid sacrifices like pretending to be bad, in order to save their men.Actually they make matters get more and more complex and destroy their own lives and the lives of their men.These guys really get confused and go astray.Whereas Kanya has been mean to Ranbir from the day 1.She doesn't fall into the stereotyped images of 'ideal patni'(?!!) or 'ideal bahu'(?!!), typical of ekta soaps.She stands out.It is this attitude of Kanya that attracts Ranbir to her.She least bothers about or rather she simply dismisses his status,money and everything that he is proud of, and that punctures his ego and ultimately attracts him to her.

Ofcourse, she does have feelings for Ranbir.Remember the dhoti scene. She blushed for the first time.That was not fake .That was so real.At one point she couldn't meet his eyes.Instantly she took her eyes off him,quite embarassed."Papa ne sikhaya",she told it with utmost blush and smile.And there are a lot of other examples.I think she is a little bit confused.Probably ,she is not that type of girl who falls flat at one romantic look of the man or one favour that he does.Moreover, already she has been hurt in love.I won't call it love.Rather i would call it infatuation.She has realised it. Once again she doesn't want to get carried away by mere attraction.Ayaan did not defend her;stand by her;instead accused and insulted her. Trust and security is what a girl looks out for primarily from her man.Probably Kanya is afraid to trust Ranbir.Afterall it is a contract marriage.She is oscillating between the emotins of love and hatred or rather between trust and mistrust.

Let Ranbir go through all these ordeals.That will make him realise what it means to be in love and to be loved; what it means to lose the love or get hurt in love.A man gets back what he does to others.Remember Kanya's curse when Ayan-Kanya engagement broke.Let Rannu pay for his actions now itself so that later he will be happy with his sweat heart.

It is this indifferent and mean Kanya who has unearthed the mother in him; the innocent child in him; the human in him. Haughty and finicky Ranbir was the one who everyone knew including himself.But she exposed the other side of Rannu who is good at heart, innocent,sensitive,caring.

I too felt bad when she was mean to him. I wish there is a scene where chunnu talks intolerably bad of Ranbir and Kanya slaps him on his face and says"woh mere pati hain".Then only you guys will be pacified.Me too.

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wvery well written ...only if the font size wud have been a bit bigger 😆 😆 😆
but i agree wit watever uhav written .. 😊

very well written👏👏👏

i agree with all of what you say😳😳😳

kanya is really a mother to him when he does bad she scolds him and when he does good she is happy with him....and really his own mother can't bring the childlike...rannu..soft and caring and loving rannu but kanya did bring the real rannu out from tough and arrogant rannu

Thank you Bugger and Mages for kindly reading and posting your comments.Mages i'm a great fan of you.Eventhough i watch kit everyday,i don't fail to read your updates as i find it to be more entertaining than the show.

very well said 👏 👏 👏
I agree.....she is scared to b in luv again....as she has gone through pain and so much insult and second thing Ranbir also insulted and made her family go through obstacle so it seems hard 4 her 2 step forward......but dont worry this week we will see some RK scene.......wont matter if it is fight or cute as long as they r together 😊

thank god atleast someone here with something good.
I agree with ya
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i love your most and how you had expressed your point in this post and i do totally agree with you as kanya always steps back from ranbir as she has been hurt before by ayaan and secondly kanya still has in back of her mind that her's and ranbir's is a contract marriage and i think also that shantu is the reason why she keeps her distance from ranbir as i think she is always a reminder that kanya your marriage with ranbir is 'contract'

I see Kanya the same way you do, and I think most of us here do. And that is exactly what we are saying: Kanya is one confused woman. Not in a negative or postive sense, but she is just confused now, and not able to decide if she loves Ranbir or not; if she should be nice to him or not. And yes, there are reasons why she's like that now. Ayaan and his family hurt her real bad.

We all love their cute lil fights cuz they're always so silly, and not serious at all. But, on Kanya's part (especially since Chunnu's come) it's like she doesn't think before she talks sometimes. Like in the holi episode, Ranbir took a day off for her to play holi for the first time in his life, and when he tried to play holi with her, she tottaly turned the guy down.😕 Like make up your mind woman!😛 It would've been alright if she had playfully tried to get back at him or something. But, the way she rejected him was pretty hurtin.😭 But, when Ranbir fights with her, it's always in a funny, silly, naive sort of way.😳

So, there's nothing wrong with Kanya, she just needs to make up her mind. Ranbir keeps getting mixed messages, and that could really hurt the guy later on. So, from the way she was all over Chunnu on Holi day, if it's gonna be Chunnu and she knows it, then she should let Ranbir know now.

Wow, long enough msg..lol But yeh that's all Kanya needs to work on. She's cool otherwise.