You love someone very dearly and on the day of engagement you find out that the guy/girl was lying all along including her/his name and family details. Along with that you find out that the person is from a very poor family and have no job. Everything was a farce.
How would you react and what about your family members? Would you accept any explanation for such a big lie? Remember you are about to start new life with this person and based on what? Lies? Would you still trust this person?