Top 7 complaints- A CV sob story ! - Page 3

Loved the seven.. great post .. we tend to forget that it is a just show after all and those involved human too..👏👏👏

Originally posted by: rajanigandha26

Good post Deepa. But I dont fully agree with you. CVs ruined the theme and hatake concept of the show. The main problem is they got carried away in trying to please their fans. They themselves become fans of fan😆 " If you try to please all you will please none" They need to read the Aesop's fable The man ,boy and the donkey"I personally liked all tracks except Mallu returns and re returns ( dont know why she kept coming again and again and Arman Rohan never came back.)and Khushi.

I second you Rajani... And, except Khushi track, I didnt have any problems with any other tracks frankly... Mallu bhootni track was disgusting but not at all intolerable... Khushi track was the most torturous... 🤢

Originally posted by: kaks0211

Deepa - I just love you for making this post

Seven :You complained about BDs- we gave you gomati track ! You still cribbed saying ashu is crying all the time and that he is a human hosepipe .Arre bhai his heart is broken ! Naachega kya? Guess thats what he was supposed to do !

Kya fantastic Ashu diya - iske liye shukriya adaa bhi nahi kiya...

Six :You called nidhi ruthless and heartless in the Kerala track ! The poor girl is torn between her love and her family ! Did you see her anguish? No !

No No Tab toh Nidhi hatao andolan chal raha tha...

Five: During mallika track ,when ashu was on wheelchair (please dont tell me you dont know why he was on wheelchair !) and had to comb mallika's hair and do her pooja (literally !) you called him MCP (yes u actually did that !) .Did you try to understand the fact that the man was coming to work everyday (you even saw the real life pictures !) despite having surgery (how many of you would actually do that ?).

Deepa - only for this point I cant find a logic - I mean the combing part...Baaki SK Ka professionalism toh - HATS OFF !!!!

Four :You dint like when ashu and nidhi went to sleep after nidhi's birthday ! Come on ! Is it really that big deal ? Not every man and woman in the world has the same demands ! They were just happy with the fact that they were back together ! Ever heard of the book Japanese wife? Is there only one way of expressing love?

And what abt the fact that Ashu's hand was bandaged...If they would have shown romance - the comment would be - Nidhi is so insensitive - hubby ka hand is bandaged and she wants romance...

Three : You wanted baby in the showe ! We could not show it .You know the reasons very well ! But you still cribbed and cribbed ! Did you try to understand that the person who you are calling names is a real woman and that she has feelings too ? No ,Why should you? You love babies so you expect her and every woman in the world to love babies ! To hell with the person's career ! She doesnt want to even say the words "Iam pregnant " on screen .Uski marzi yaar ! Give her a break ! Its her life and she has got every right to do what she wants ! Did we interfere in your life ? You like watching our show .That doesnt give you the right to impose your beliefs on us ! Right or wrong ,its our (and her !) belief and we have got every right to stick with it !

Forget the person - there is no solid proof that this was the reason for not showing baby track...the baby track if shown at that time would not have been proper - Ashu & Nidhi themselves were learning to understand each other...tabhi bacha hota toh am sure there would only be conflicts on various issues relating to the baby...

Two : Since you so wanted a baby in the show ,we gave you khushi ! You said any baby would be fine ,so we tried to accommodate your wishes ! Did that make you happy ! Ohh no ! You wanted a well behaved child ! The one who knows table manners and says thank you and please !

One :You wanted nidhi to realise the importance of motherhood .and wanted to see a supportive ashu ! Now that we are drawing curtians we are trying to show that ! But are you still happy ? No ! You want ashu to cry his heart out ! Why should he ? It was just a false trigger for crying out loud ! It isnt as if he is never gonna become a father or else he actually lost a baby !(how can he loose the baby when there was none to begin with !) .Infact he is happy right now because his wife wants the same thing he wants and that he wouldnt have to wait for one more year ! He was sad for sometime but if you want this incident to open the closed doors in his mind ,then thats not going to happen ! Coz the titli has broken all those doors and now there is just love and hope in the quila !

Bang On - Abhi the problem is why Ashu is not crying...Arre now he has an outlet to express his emotions and sadness - Nidhi...so why should he go back to his dark corners and cry...Once Nidhi had told Ashu that aapke dard dekhti hoon toh main apni dard bhul jaati hoon - that is what is happening with Ashu now..

Sorry audience but we tried to tell you a story in the best way we could ! Unfortunately for us ,you could never see or appreciate our effort ! Fortunately ,the critics and our makers do !

In the end all we want to say is ,if we had gone the route you suggested ,this show would have become one of the numerous shows which come and go ..and not the one which would be remembered as a fragrance which touched some people's lives ! if not yours !

Iam totally with u Deepa...Thanks for this post...

Kaksdi... bang on!!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 Agreed wid ya each and every point... This dialogue from Nidhi "Jab aapka dard dekhti hoon toh main apna dard bhool jaati hoon" is the things that I was to mentioned in my response to this post too...👏👏👏👏👏👏 Ashu roye toh pareshaani... Na roye toh pareshaani...

And for the babytrack, this is exactly what I have been shouting since long that now is the only correct time for AshNi to be shown as parents... last yr. it was too early for them to have a baby as they themselves were insecure in this relationship... 😭 But then ppl think why this MC and CP track wasnt given 6 months back... It could hv been a good track then in place of khushi track... Arrey bhai... So much cribbing for babytrack only was responsible for prolonged "khushibhara" torture... 🤢 What was the need for any such track ever??? At least I never felt that this show truly needed the female lead to be shown suffering from CP or MC... 😲 Even in recent past also, it wasnt necessary at all except to please a certain group of audience who love to watch the female protagonist suffering and her rona-dhona...😡

Most importantly, I feel really really sorry for Kritika that she was and is subjected thru hellhole of bashing for a reason which supposedly given by her... 😭 Firstly, there is no evidence that a professional girl like her ever said any such thing and even if she did, the writer never needed reveal it to his fans on his wall...😡 The show started going downhill from that point onward only... CVs' honesty(if ever KK had refused to play mommy) proved the worst policy for them...😭😭😭

Originally posted by: jayanti_dj

Well said Deepa...

Seven :You complained about BDs- we gave you gomati track !
Agree.. Thanks cvs for giving us an awesome Ashu..

Six :You called nidhi ruthless and heartless in the Kerala track ! The poor girl is torn between her love and her family ! Did you see her anguish? No ! I was also little naraz with her as she broke our Ashu's heart but her anguish was so palpable...many times she brought tears in my eyes..

Five: During mallika track ,when ashu was on wheelchair (please dont tell me you dont know why he was on wheelchair !)

I didn't like Mallu track much specially Ashu combs mallu's hair,believing Mallu over Nidhi all the time etc..But truely appreciate SK's work ethics & dedication.

Three : You wanted baby in the show ! We could not show it .You know the reasons very well ! But you still cribbed and cribbed ! Did you try to understand that the person who you are calling names is a real woman and that she has feelings too ?
Agree with you...Baby track came just in time...AshuNi needed this much of bonding , closeness & understanding to become parents...I appreciate that Ashu never tried to impose his own will on her...

Two : Since you so wanted a baby in the show ,we gave you khushi ! You said any baby would be fine ,so we tried to accommodate your wishes ! Did that make you happy ! Ohh no ! You wanted a well behaved child ! The one who knows table manners and says thank you and please !
when Khushi entered the show I was fine with her...but I didn't like her when she started scheming against Nidhi...

One :You wanted nidhi to realise the importance of motherhood .and wanted to see a supportive ashu ! Now that we are drawing curtians we are trying to show that ! But are you still happy ? No ! You want ashu to cry his heart out ! Why should he ? It was just a false trigger for crying out loud ! It isnt as if he is never gonna become a father or else he actually lost a baby !(how can he loose the baby when there was none to begin with !) .Infact he is happy right now because his wife wants the same thing he wants and that he wouldnt have to wait for one more year ! He was sad for sometime but if you want this incident to open the closed doors in his mind ,then thats not going to happen ! Coz the titli has broken all those doors and now there is just love and hope in the quila !

Totally agree with you

I'm happy that Nidhi's motherly instinct awaken over the time, earlier she was apprehensive towards the responsibility of a child...now she wants a child only to satisfy her & Ashu's desire, noone is forcing her to do so..I loved her realization in Monday epi..Now i understand why cvs have brought CP, only to increase her yearning for a child, she has started to feel that motherhood is indeed a blessing & she should go through the process of having a child ...
Even in yesterday's epi they have shown her state & realization that she can manage her career,household chores & her child's upbringing simultanously..the effects may not be achieved if Ashu or DB's insistence made her pregnant..yesterday cvs have taken a leap of 9/10 months..that means AshNi are very close to their 2nd anniversary..so it appears that nidhi is getting pregnant after almost 2 years when she is completely ready for taking up the responsibility...thats the reason why yesterday's epi was so Nidhi centric...they have shown she has consolidated her position in ghar & bahar...
@ bold.. me too don't understand why Ashu should be crying...he must be super happy that his wife wants to be mom as per her own wish, aab dono ka ek hi chahat hai ...why should he be sad as there was no misscarriage or pregnancy at all ...it seemed to be reasonable that he was helping his wife to get over her depression..keu ke depression mei pregnant hona mushkil hota hai...😉😆
overall I'm happy that cvs are fulfilling our wishes ...now we got new Ashu who is free from his dark past..a new Nidhi who is all ready to take up more responsibility..

Fortunately ,the critics and our makers do !

In the end all we want to say is ,if we had gone the route you suggested ,this show would have become one of the numerous shows which come and go ..and not the one which would be remembered as a fragrance which touched some people's lives ! if not yours ! Agree with you ...that's why I'm still hooked to the show.
Thanks dear for standing firm by the show.

Originally posted by: jayanti_dj

You just complained that you wanted this and you wanted that ! You thanked us for ruining your happiness.Did you even spare a moment to think how we would feel when you ruined ours?

I sometimes wonder if attention was paid to what was shown or only to what was not! 🤔

Seven :You complained about BDs- we gave you gomati track ! You still cribbed saying ashu is crying all the time and that he is a human hosepipe .Arre bhai his heart is broken ! Naachega kya? Guess thats what he was supposed to do !

The very same people who cribbed about BDs made a 180 degrees soon after and started saying that that was real chemistry! Haha! Ashu cries, toh problem, dosen't cry toh bhi problem, what to do? And the bigger problem, is when others cry and Ashu dosen't! 😉

Six :You called nidhi ruthless and heartless in the Kerala track ! The poor girl is torn between her love and her family ! Did you see her anguish? No !

Deepa, have written enough during that track, you know it well! The only thing that I could not understand then and still was why Nidhi was acting normal with her family when she should have shown her pain to them... baki sab we have discussed enough! 😃

Five: During mallika track ,when ashu was on wheelchair (please dont tell me you dont know why he was on wheelchair !) and had to comb mallika's hair and do her pooja (literally !) you called him MCP (yes u actually did that !) .Did you try to understand the fact that the man was coming to work everyday (you even saw the real life pictures !) despite having surgery (how many of you would actually do that ?).

The hair combing and sending Nidhi away I will always hate.. I said it then and I say it now, I cannot forgive him for that insensitivity towards his young bride... no two ways about that, you know, we also did CT to counter that! 😛Remember! But yes barring those few things I do salute SK for his dedication and hard work to keep the show on the go! 👍🏼

Did you try to understand that we could have made ashu go away on a conference or something (easiest way out ,eh !) .No !

Any other show would have done only that! And they would have got better TRPs for the non-effort! Better TRPs for the missing male lead! 😈

Four :You dint like when ashu and nidhi went to sleep after nidhi's birthday ! Come on ! Is it really that big deal ? Not every man and woman in the world has the same demands ! They were just happy with the fact that they were back together !

Agreed, they were happy to just get back together. Her non-stop chatter was probably like music to Ashu's hears having been deprived of it for so long...and then Ashu had a bandage. If they had done anything, we would be subjected to how insensitive Nidhi was that she did not bother about Ashu's hand! Poor Ashni, damned if they do and damned if they don't! 😆

Three : You wanted baby in the show ! We could not show it .You know the reasons very well ! But you still cribbed and cribbed !

@black... Sorry, but KPji had absolutely no business revealing that KK did not want to do a baby track... since she has neither accepted or denied it we do not know what's the truth! But still that was the point when people started leaving, no Ashni baby, poor Ashu baby, so will not see it.. till that point people were cribbing but still watching the show! I sincerely believe that some things are not for public consumption, a thousand things can happen behind the scenes but those cannot be used as an excuse for what is being presented... he is a brilliant writer, he could have come up with thousands of things to cover it up, but now he himself kept hanging on to the baby thing for the next few tracks like preggy Mallu 😡 and Khushi thus making this point even more obvious! 👎🏼Just my POV!

Did you try to understand that the person who you are calling names is a real woman and that she has feelings too ? No ,Why should you? You love babies so you expect her and every woman in the world to love babies ! To hell with the person's career ! She doesnt want to even say the words "Iam pregnant " on screen .Uski marzi yaar !

True, but Deepa she did say the words last week! 😛 Again they could have done so many things without revealing the truth. Why reveal your weakness to the whole world and ultimately some viewers never let the issue rest or move on beyond that... and no other track got accepted!

Anyways now when I see Ashni wanting a baby, hoping, praying, sharing their dreams of parenthood, discuss about being fit for a future baby or jointly look after a baby and enjoy the experience, one can feel this is the right time. 😊Maybe a month ago, they could have started on this and not shown the D&D siblings track, but definitely not earlier! Ashni had to get this close, erase that age gap issue between them, learn to wholly and solely trust each other, and establish that understanding where neither need words to communicate. They have it now, so now is the perfect time for baby. They have reached a point where both of them can openly talk about a future baby, no more guilt, no more hurt, they can talk and even tease each other about little baby things, etc...

For those who still feel the baby track should have come 6 months back or after the Mallu track when Ashu yearned for a baby, all I can say is at that time even though Ashu loved Nidhi he did not fully trust her or even respect her views and wishes as a husband should... sadly the trust and respect was more for his dear friend! At that point bringing a baby in their lives would have been a mistake. And for Nidhi that was a time when she was probably at an all time low, after being constantly humiliated by her own husband for his friend's sake, forced to leave her house upon his friend's instigation, her self-confidence as well as her trust in Ashu would have taken a beating.

How can a woman agree to have the baby of the man who barely two weeks ago thought her capable of murdering someone? That's how much respect Ashu had for Nidhi... sorry but in that track Ashu was at his lowest and even though Nidhi choose to forgive him, was it so easy to forget? Yes, she needed time, anyone would! The Nidhi who recently told Ashu that she trusted him more than herself would not have made a statement like this after the Mallu track... was that the time to think of a baby? No. What Nidhi did then was right even if it broke Ashu's heart. She decided to take her time, rebuild her self-confidence, try to make herself capable of managing things and in this process has ended up gaining her husband's trust and respect for her (and maybe a lot more love too).

Two : Since you so wanted a baby in the show ,we gave you khushi ! You said any baby would be fine ,so we tried to accommodate your wishes ! Did that make you happy ! Ohh no ! You wanted a well behaved child ! The one who knows table manners and says thank you and please !

Well Khushi was alright but the track got dragged way too much... that's when I started having a problem, it was completely unnecessary!

One :You wanted nidhi to realise the importance of motherhood .and wanted to see a supportive ashu ! Now that we are drawing curtians we are trying to show that ! But are you still happy ? No ! You want ashu to cry his heart out ! Why should he ? It was just a false trigger for crying out loud ! It isnt as if he is never gonna become a father or else he actually lost a baby !(how can he loose the baby when there was none to begin with !) .Infact he is happy right now because his wife wants the same thing he wants and that he wouldnt have to wait for one more year ! He was sad for sometime but if you want this incident to open the closed doors in his mind ,then thats not going to happen ! Coz the titli has broken all those doors and now there is just love and hope in the quila !

This topic needs a separate answer... can write a thesis on this but right now got to go... so will continue! 😃

Sorry audience but we tried to tell you a story in the best way we could ! Unfortunately for us ,you could never see or appreciate our effort ! Fortunately ,the critics and our makers do !

In the end all we want to say is ,if we had gone the route you suggested ,this show would have become one of the numerous shows which come and go ..and not the one which would be remembered as a fragrance which touched some people's lives ! if not yours !

Originally posted by: jayanti_dj

One :You wanted nidhi to realise the importance of motherhood .and wanted to see a supportive ashu ! Now that we are drawing curtains we are trying to show that !

Yes, another wish. Even i wanted to see Ashu taking care of Nidhi atleast once and this is a very good reason to show that. I am actually happy the CVs came up with this.. though there are some medical inconsistencies but lets look at the overall concept, shall we? This sort of situation is perfect to show a caring husband who helps his wife heal mentally as well as physically... this has only helped make the Ashni bond even stronger. When a couple goes through tragedy and survives they become inseparable for life... even before this Ashni bond had become very tight but this has solidified that bond...

But are you still happy ? No ! You want ashu to cry his heart out ! Why should he ? It was just a false trigger for crying out loud ! It isnt as if he is never gonna become a father or else he actually lost a baby !(how can he loose the baby when there was none to begin with !).

@black... could not understand why that was such an aspect of contention. Even I ask, why should Ashu sulk and cry? Why? He would need to do that if nobody understood him or his anguish, but that's not the case now. In fact for the first time his yearning was openly acknowledged by the two people that matter most to him...

First BB, the moment he heard of BCP news, BB immediately told AShu not to get disheartened and it was not the end of the world. As a doctor he should be well aware of the facts and also that loss of embryo at an early stage was not uncommon... he also advised Ashu that they needed to make sure that Nidhi believed in this and did not loose hope. If Ashu wanted he could have gone to BB to talk about his heartache...

Next Nidhi herself acknowledged it in the park... when Ashu was trying to cheer her up she simply told him she understood what he was trying to do, how difficult it was for him to do it but she was thankful and grateful to him for this... she knew what he was going through... after sharing this with Nidhi herself what is the need for him to sit in solitude and cry...

Infact he is happy right now because his wife wants the same thing he wants and that he wouldnt have to wait for one more year ! He was sad for sometime but if you want this incident to open the closed doors in his mind ,then thats not going to happen ! Coz the titli has broken all those doors and now there is just love and hope in the quila !

Exactly, he is now happier than ever that Nidhi too wants the exact same thing. The commitment she had made before their MA was not just verbal... having a baby is something she craved as well... and especially after going through this experience her yearning is almost as much as him... so yes, for Ashu its a relief and in fact after this incident both of them are seen talking about a future baby, discussing what and how it will be, etc and they are very free and open about it. They do not need to hide their feelings on this issue, this BCP has set them free...

Ashu now does not have to think twice before saying something to Nidhi, they can talk about anything under the sun...they have become true soul mates... no more hidden corners, no more surprises, they have bared it all to each other. So yes, if Ashu wants to do or say something he will not hesitate even for a second before going to Nidhi...

Sorry audience but we tried to tell you a story in the best way we could ! Unfortunately for us ,you could never see or appreciate our effort ! Fortunately ,the critics and our makers do !

Yes, they have garnered a lot of critical acclaim, for simply doing the unexpected... and we have enjoyed seeing Ashni through all their ups and downs, so thank you for a memorable journey...

I believe that the basic Ashni lovestory is now told, you know, boy meets girl, they fall in love, meet opposition, finally marry after crossing all hurdles, then learn to live together, face/ resolve problems together and in a year of marriage witness their love and faith in each other grow... and finally they are ready for the next phase in their life... PARENTHOOD!

On their HM Nidhi had said 'Hum dheere dheere ek doosre ke bare mein seekh lenge' and that is exactly what they did! 😃

@ttrocks(Tupu)- Even I feel this CP track would have been good in place of Khushi track.I'm not on FB so I don't know what happened on the writers page but if demand of motherhood track had brought Khushi track then I wonder what was the cause of Daksh,Divya,Bhardwaj track & Mallu's psychotic track!Few days ago there was a poll here about who was most hated/dangerous & many had found Divya most disgusting!That track would have continued till now...it was wrapped up hurriedly only to show the show's happy ending!Anyways don't know why the story lacked flow when the show makers were never under Trp pressure!Sony channel has always supported the show...only thing that was required was proper planning & ground work!But yes,some of the dialogues,scenes & Ashni(SK-KK)chemistry has made the show beautiful & unique.

Originally posted by: rajanigandha26

<font size="4" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">Good post Deepa. But I dont fully agree with you. CVs ruined the theme and hatake concept of the show. The main problem is they got carried away in trying to please their fans.

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I personally liked all tracks except Mallu returns and re returns ( dont know why she kept coming again and again and Arman Rohan never came back.)and Khushi.</font>

Agree with you esp on the above quoted part!