Originally posted by: rabzonedge
Sujhatha thanks...
I agree with you more than age gap..Diff of opinion in child raising makes a diff...but i think..there is some diff in child raising by a gal who has becum mom very early in her life and who has becum a bit late...
A late mother has more life experiences..so she knows better to tackle a kid..but then also its matter of personality...
my father has same experience as u hav..my grand pa was very strict n use to beat my father a lot...so my father decided he will never whack his children...and he never did so...
you are right it depends on person to person...and if your partner and your mental wavelength doesnt match on this..then obviously child will suffer..
Ashu ko khusi me apna past dikhta hai..isliye wo chahta hai jis tarah ka dukh dard aur bachpan usne khoya hai wo Khusi ke saath na ho...Wo khusi ke saath jyada samay beetana chahta hai...
Apne bachpan ko ek naye nazariye se dekh rahaa hai..
Nidhi jabki Khusi ko sirf bachchi na samajh ke..uski badmaashiyon se pareshaan hai..actually usne Khusi ko ab tak accept nahi kiya hai..isliye chirchirati hai..the day she will accept khusi she ll know how to tackle her...
Khusi uske andar ki mamta jagayegi and she ll b ready for motherhood...
it will be good if AshNi adopts khusi and we see clash between biological and adopted child...
Yes, Ashu usko woh saare khushi dena chahta hai jo unhe nahi mila...usse koi kami mehoos nahi karne deta hai...kyunki woh apna bachpan phir se jeeraha hai Khushi ke zariye, isiliye woh pareshan nahi horaha hai...
Like you said, Nidhi ab tak woh mukam tak nahi pohanchi hai...kahin na kahin woh shayad Khusi ko ek competitor bhi samajti hai...Ashu ke pyar aur attention ke liye...kyunki Nidhi mei abhi bhi bachpanah hai...the day she sees Khushi as a child who needs her maternal love, us din woh Khushi ko samaj bhi jayegi...and like you said, unke andar ke maternal feelings jaag bhi jayenge...
And if they adopt Khushi, it will make the baby track even more interesting...par yeh sab safedi ko kaun samjaye...woh apne aap ko duniya ka sabse bada akalmand samaj baite hain aur baaki sab ko bewakoof!
Edited by Sujatha.rao - 12 years ago