Supermoms and Khusi... - Page 2

Originally posted by: alkaparmart

rabz aapka topic bahut khubsurat hai,and i like this khushi track,and she is cute but i am in opposite to the elder's of ktlk.They did not even try to teach her good and bad.so she couldn't understand it.All are enjoying her behaviour so that she got courage.

Hmm Alkaji...BB is happy to get a child i think...BB is not so judgemental..he accepts Khusi as she is..they are thinking that as the child is a street child so her language is rough but with time and patience she will be moulded..this is wat i feel...😳

Originally posted by: niniborn2rule

good post rabzy...

thanks dear...plzz say sumthing on this..😃

Originally posted by: rabzonedge

thanks dear...plzz say sumthing on this..😃

Originally posted by: rabzonedge

Yup dear...Mom part is a matter of perspective...Khusi track can be dealt in a number of ways..there are so many Parts which can be brought up...Khusis past...why she is like this??...Diff of opinion in AshNi which can reflect their Age gap issue well..lets see how Safedi deals with it..😳

Divya... if you ask me, it is not just about age-gap...it is also about upbringing...if you are happy with the way you were brought up, then you will want to adopt the same approach with your kid...whatever mistakes you think your parents made, you will try to correct them...I already told you I was a latchkey kid...but I made sure my children were not...also, my mother used to beat me as a kid...although, I too did spank my kids sometimes, I tried not to overdo it...but if your spouse has a completely different approach to childrearing as compared to you, conflicts will definitely arise...even if there is no age difference...

Here, I think more than age difference, life experiences are going to make the difference...Ashu is an orphan...he has not known parental love as a child...he is naturally want to shower love on his child...Nidhi is a pampered kid...she might decide that too much pampering is bad...so she will be a strict parent...this is bound to cause conflict between AshNi...

To be frank, if handled properly, a child track will be very interesting in the show...Khushi toh kuch hi dinon ki mehman hai inke ghar mei...unless, they decide to keep her forever because they find that her parents are no more or something...in that case also, the conflict between Khushi and their bilological child, and the extended family's reactions to them. will be very interesting to watch!

Originally posted by: niniborn2rule

wat to say yaar right now am too confused with khushi ...na iss par na uss par beech mein phas gayi hoon situation...u know wen nidhi was playing with khushi the other day i felt chalo ab in dono ka aacha bonding ho jayega but nahi...still i feel the thing thats creating prob is khushi's lie..had she not lied itna complications nahi aata...

Haan yaar but yehi to mystery hai khusi ki...This is the interesting thing which will keep viewers glued to KTLK..😆

Nice post rabzy..
I am okey with this track, but in real as a mom I want my kids to behave, respect elderly.. So I am having a hard time accepting this Khushi.. Let's see aage kya Hota hai..

Originally posted by: rabzonedge

I am actually liking this track..Dekhte hai Aage kya hota hai..

Forums ki supermoms agar apne Experiences share karein to i will love it...

Future mein mere kaam aayega..😉

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

Divya... if you ask me, it is not just about age-gap...it is also about upbringing...if you are happy with the way you were brought up, then you will want to adopt the same approach with your kid...whatever mistakes you think your parents made, you will try to correct them...I already told you I was a latchkey kid...but I made sure my children were not...also, my mother used to beat me as a kid...although, I too did spank my kids sometimes, I tried not to overdo it...but if your spouse has a completely different approach to childrearing as compared to you, conflicts will definitely arise...even if there is no age difference...

Here, I think more than age difference, life experiences are going to make the difference...Ashu is an orphan...he has not known parental love as a child...he is naturally want to shower love on his child...Nidhi is a pampered kid...she might decide that too much pampering is bad...so she will be a strict parent...this is bound to cause conflict between AshNi...

To be frank, if handled properly, a child track will be very interesting in the show...Khushi toh kuch hi dinon ki mehman hai inke ghar mei...unless, they decide to keep her forever because they find that her parents are no more or something...in that case also, the conflict between Khushi and their bilological child, and the extended family's reactions to them. will be very interesting to watch!

Sujhatha thanks...

I agree with you more than age gap..Diff of opinion in child raising makes a diff...but i think..there is some diff in child raising by a gal who has becum mom very early in her life and who has becum a bit late...
A late mother has more life experiences..so she knows better to tackle a kid..but then also its matter of personality...

my father has same experience as u hav..my grand pa was very strict n use to beat my father a lot...so my father decided he will never whack his children...and he never did so...
you are right it depends on person to person...and if your partner and your mental wavelength doesnt match on this..then obviously child will suffer..

Ashu ko khusi me apna past dikhta hai..isliye wo chahta hai jis tarah ka dukh dard aur bachpan usne khoya hai wo Khusi ke saath na ho...Wo khusi ke saath jyada samay beetana chahta hai...
Apne bachpan ko ek naye nazariye se dekh rahaa hai..

Nidhi jabki Khusi ko sirf bachchi na samajh ke..uski badmaashiyon se pareshaan hai..actually usne Khusi ko ab tak accept nahi kiya hai..isliye chirchirati hai..the day she will accept khusi she ll know how to tackle her...

Khusi uske andar ki mamta jagayegi and she ll b ready for motherhood...

it will be good if AshNi adopts khusi and we see clash between biological and adopted child...

Originally posted by: rrdsu

Nice post rabzy..
I am okey with this track, but in real as a mom I want my kids to behave, respect elderly.. So I am having a hard time accepting this Khushi.. Let's see aage kya Hota hai..

Thanks Heena..but we need to see background of khusi..she behaves like this may be because of turmoil past..this may be her self defense mechanism...Our children lives in protected environment so they behaving respectfully is natural outcome...😳

Originally posted by: capricorn1967

RABZ...I liked your post👍🏼 but I am not liking the track😔, because till now I am not able to see any relevance of this track in the story, may be I am a big dumbo...but I am bored to see this and and I didn't find any relevance in the dialogue that they are not for our entertainment. Who says child is an entertainment. I say child rearing is a responsibility for a parent. I don't believe in leaving a child to grow like a Tarzen in a jungle. Giving good upbringing is an important aspect of parenting. Waise main yeh sab "super mom" ke tareh nahin...sirf ek "liberal Mom" ke tareh bol rahi hoon.😉

Noopur that Dialogue was for many others..who wants to see TV children as perfect cuddly cutiepies...You are talking about Kids who have their parents wat about orphan kids...and still there are many kids who are pressurised to fulfill their parents dream...
many kids are doing suicides cause parents think they shud do n behave wat they want..i found that dialogue very relevant in todays scenario..